zaiwanliuzhongchuxianlingyifangdanxin、shilengshire、huazhentousudianhuaduoshao?xintaiqifubudingzheileiqingkuang,xuduoxiangwanliuderendouyudaoguo,huozheyijinglijing。
keshi,ranghenduorenwufashihuaideshi:tazenmehuineiyangni?yaobuyebujienawanliu,yaobujiujienawanliu,weiheyihuieryigexintaini?
shijishang,nizhibuguobeiwanliuzhongtasuozhuyaobiaoxianchuqude“cuojue”mihuole。
举个事例而言:
ahebzaiyigebanyueyiqianfenshou,adewanliuchongdongshifenmingxian,erqierujinliangrenyezhengchuzaiwanliuzhixinghuanjie。danshi,afajueleyigenanti:yuanbenjinriliangrenyuechuqupengmian,shuoshuohuatanyitantihuinaxiede,quanguochengdoukaizhandetingkaixinde。yelizishenyehenshenshidesonglingyifanghuijiale,erqiequanshidiandaojizhide。
dandiertianliangrenzaiweixinshangxianliaodeqingkuangxia,bdexintaiqueshifenlengmo,genqianyitianchedishiliangren。zheirangashifenbulijie,liangrenbudouzaoyizhujianwanghaodefangweifazhanqushilemeiyou?zishenbenlaijuedezaoyijichuwanliuble,ruheyouneiyangleni?
shijishang,zaishangmiandeshilizhong,abianshibabdeqingkuang,buzhengquedezuoweileyigefuhexingdeshujuxinhao。
zailiangrenkaizhanwanliubuzhoushijicaozuodequanguochengzhong,dequeshihuichuxianneiyangdeqingkuangde。
为什么呢?
非常简单。
youyuzaiwanhuijiemudeshijicaozuozhong,wojingchangrenweiyongzaicichuangjianjiaocuodianhemanzuxuqiudefangfalaikaizhanwanliu。neima,zaizheigequanguochengzhonglingyifanghuichixudehuixiangdaodajiayiqianzheixiexingfudetihuihelijing。huazhentousudianhuaduoshao?zaizaijiashangjiaocuodiandedajian,zaidajiapengmiandeshixia,tadetihuixiangduixingshibucuode。
erzheileiqingkuangxia,niyejiuhuizaochengyizhonghuanjue:tashifouzaoyiyaoxianghuijiale?huoshi,womenzheishifouzaoyisuanfuhexingle?
keshi,zaipengmianyihou,tayibenrenzaiwanshangyigerendeshihou,zaizhuiyidajiajinrixingfuganshoudeqingkuangxia,zheixieyiqianbutaihaodezhuiyiyehuibeiyinyouchuqu。
erzheigeshihouganghaonibuzaitashenpang,quefalezhengqueyindaoheganshe,tayehuimanmanshenxianyigexiweideqingkuangzhong。ji:youyaoxiangfuhexingdebulizhi,keshiyouyouyidingdegulv。
yinci,weilegenghaodifangzhizheileizhuangkuangdechuxian,yejiushishuo,zheileizhuangkuangzaoyichuxianle,wojianyinitishengchuxianpinlv。keshiyaobakonghaoyigedu,bubitaijingchang。zaipengmiantishengyihou,tahuijianjianditishengxintengnidezhuiyi,danhuabutaihaodezhuiyi。zheiyangyilai,wanliudepingjingyejiubijiaohaoduguole。
情况转变时的应对措施
haiyixieshoutuorenhuigenwoshuoneiyangdenanti:
“worenweinijuededezhixingfangshidoutingduide,keshiwocaozuoguochengqilaideqingkuangxiaquejuederuhedoubushihe。bingqieyoudeqingkuangxiahaihuijixuchuxianfanshijixiaoguo。zheishiweishenmeni?”
zaibiaoshuzheigewentiyiqian,woxianeryanlingyigedingyi:
“zaiquanbudewanliuquanguochengzhong,liangrenquanbudeqingxubodong、gerenxingwei、tihuizheixieyiqiewupin,quanshixianghuzhijianweihaide。”
huanjuhuashuo,wanliudequanguocheng,shijishangshiyigebicihuxiangposhidequanguocheng。zaizheigequanguochengzhong,bansuizheliangrenqingkuangdezhuanbian,huizaochengbuyiyangdefenbianhexinlizhuangtai。
zaizhidaozheiyidianyihou,wozaishuojieshishangbiandenanti。
wosuojutizhidaodequanbuwanliuduice、shijicaozuohefangfa,quanshigenjuyigejichuhexinlinian——lb(keguanhexin)herb(lixinghexin)erzhongchedibuyiyangdesiweifangshi。
youyudajiameiyigerenzairichangshenghuozhongdemeiyigeyishunjian,douhuibeilbluojisiweiherbluojisiweisuohexin。gengbieshuozaiwanliuhuanjiezhong,tazaigezhonggeyangtihuihexianghuzhijianweihaizhongdeqingkuangle。
yinci,wangwangyouderenganjueyixiefangfabujianxiao,huoshiduicedefanyingshuipingbugao,henyoukenengbianshiyouyumeiyouhesiweifangshisuoqiehe。
liru,taxianzaishizaiyonglbfangshizaisisuo,keshinipianyaozaigentatantihui、tanxintai,neiyangkendingshimeiyoushijixiaoguonaizhizaochengfanshijixiaoguode。
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