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 shenmejiaogaopinzhidehunyinshenghuo?meiyigerendelejiedoubuyiyang，worenwei，hunyinshenghuodeqingkuangyouhenduozhongduoyang，keshilingrenshushidehunyinshenghuo，yidingquanshixingfude。yinci ，wojihaimeiyouwanhundedixiongdiyigegaojie：jiaruxiangyouzhemeimanhunyin，yidingyaoaiqingzuimeili。

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zhenzhengdeaiqingshuangcengmiande，xianshuoshuonanrenduinvrende。heyigezishenbuxihuandenvrenguoyibeizi。kendingshicuican。

 ruhequedingzishenyouduoaiyigenvren，tashishifenzhongyaodeyibu。niyiweitashikonghua，wohenhaowuyiwendeshuo，feichangshaonanrenqingxizheigewenti。nanrendeshenglixuebenxingjueceleduinvrendetiaoxuanfeichangdayaosushirongmao。keshihunyinshenghuoshimiejuerenxingbenxingde。yinci dangnanrentiaoxuanlehunyinshenghuo，jiuzhongjiuyaobaituozishendeshenglixuebenxing。

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tiaoxuanjiehunduixiang，worenweiyoujigefangmianyidingyaoxixinsisuo：

1、彼此沟通方式相互可否接纳。

 tashizuizhongyaodeyidian，bingbushipingchangyoumuyougongtonghuati，zhishiyoumaodunhenantidegoutongjiaoliu。jianyanzhi，jiarunanrenshigejianglideren，nvrenyedeshigemingbaishilideren，jiarunanrenshigexiaiyongwoquanjianghuaderen，nvrenyedeshigekenaiwoquanderen。nvrenjiaruxiaixutao，nanrenjiudetingdeguan。zongeryanzhi，liangrenwubideyouyigequchutongyijianyidechengxuliucheng，qieshuangfangdounengjiena。zuihaodouyuanyijiena。shijishangzheiyitiaozhenduizhenshishenaidereneryanbingbushinanti，zhenshienaideliangrenshizhongshilizailingyifangguandiandulisikaode。

fufujianyidetongyi，shijiatingxingfudejichu。

2、两个人融合产生的工作压力是不是可控性。

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3、彼此是不是另一方的助推。

 hunyinshenghuobingbushirenshengdaoludesuoyou，liangrenxieshouyisheng，xiangbangzeli，xiangzuzesun。xinggehubuyeba，zhiquxiangtouyeba，xianghubianchenglingyifangdezhutui，queshihenzhongyao。jiaruheyigenvrenjiehunqianjiujuedepijuan，xiangxinziji，biejiele。jiashigangwan，shiyigerangnanrenkuaidaojiamenkoubianhuibuzijuejiakuaijiaobudediqu。shiyigeyihuijialebianhuiwanquanshifangyali，xiediaoquanbuyanzangdediqu。shiyigequanbuweixiaodouzhixiangshuozhenxinshiyidediqu。

wanhun，yidingquyigerangzishenjuedeqingqingsongsongdenvren。queshi!

 jiangguozheimeduo，haowuyiwenyoudixiongshuozheimeduobiaozhundenvrennanzhao。shijishangqueshibuhuitainan，diyitiaohedisantiao，yaoshinvrenaizhenidoubingbushinanti。diertiao，yaoshizaihezishentongyicengjidenvrenzhengzhongjianzhaoyebushinanti。

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qianbianshuozheimeduoshijishangquanshishuoyingduihunyinshenghuodexintaiyaokeguan，yaojinshen。

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