zhuangfengmaisha”shiyizhongrenshengjingjie,shiconghuinvrensuozuo。puguanghuazhenqingganjigou,shijishang“zhuangfengmaisha”bingbingbushirangnvrenweishouweiwei,weiquqiuquan,yiqieshierdoushiyoutademohubuqingdiqu,“zhuangfengmaisha”shihuanyizhongfangfa,barichangshenghuodesuoshimohubuqingjiejue。xiaodujichangdenvrenhenyoukenenghuihuodeyishidekaolv;chuleibacuidenvrenhenyoukenenghuihuodeyikedexurongba,dannichunfengdeyizhishihuoxumaixialeanquanyinhuan,zhongxialehuohuan,zhuangzhuangfengmaishahenyoukenenghuixunyou。
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shikeyaohao、fengyongerzhideconghuibingbushizhenconghui,suichuluqiao、bumingbaibulufengmangjinguanfeichangrongyiyinrenzhuyi,danlingwaiyefeichangrongyidezuiyiyi,naizhichanshenghubianluanzaodewuhuiyuwaiqu。
tiandiwanwudouzhuzhongjunheng,jinjintongchangzuibutaihaozhangwodebianshiyaobicijunhengdezhichengdian。zaiyiduanganqingzhong,ruguoyouyifangguoduqianghan,zuihouhuizaocheng ganqingdebupinghenghehunyinpolie。
zheijiushinvrendangxinjidehuosheng,xuehaosanzhao“zhuangfengmaisha”miji,tagengchiminidewanshantinghuayuhututaorenxihuan。
1.使他了解自身的必要性
ruguonishiganqinghexinren,zaiaiqingshizhongzhanyouyoushi,neimazuixiannenggoumingquedeyidianshi,tabiranhenaizheni,xiangyaokuanronghejienaquanbudeni。
shichongerjiaodecuowuxingweizongshiyicicitiaozhantadexixindaodedixian,puguanghuazhenqingganjigou,dajiarenweideconghuizuofashishidushitalejie,tazainixinlideyingxiangliyiyanghenzhongyao。fanyixiebuzhengqueqingtabangzhuchuli,bazijigongzuozhong、shenghuoshangdenantixiangtaqingtubingxiwangyongxinkaolvdaotadejianyi。
shitalejiedaozishendecunyouduinieryanyouweizhongyao,gesanchawuxiangtasajiaomaimengyeshibaochinvxingmeilidehelifangshi。bierangtanlianaijiaosezhuanhuan:jilao,nishibixutalaiweihuderen,erbushiweitazuozhuderen,neiyangcaikeyilianaiguanxicaikeyipingwenzhangqi。zheiyifangshiyejiaoweiheshishehuifazhanlijingjiaoweishao、qianquezishendezhuguanxinghanyiyixienanhaier。
2.换位思考一下
yaojilao,zuoweiyouzhetanlianaizhudongquandeni,haiyaoxiangfankaolvdaonanxingdetihui。tisheng ganqingzhiliangdeguanjiansuozai,bicizaizheiqizhongjunnengxunzhaoxinrenganhecanyuxing。
henvrenyiyang,shijishangnanrenyebixulaiyuanyuniyuganqingdeshuangxiangrentongcaiyouwujinqudonglireqing,zaicifaguangfarefengxiandongneng。yinci ,mingbaihuanweisikaoyixia,xiangtasuogan,tiexinlejieshizhongshixiyinyigenanrendezuihaogongxinji。zheiyiyeshiwohaizaihengenanrenjinvrengoutongjiaoliuzhongchangchangshuodaodeyigehuatitaolun。
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