曝光花镇情感机构，聪明的女孩要学会装傻

 zhuangfengmaisha”shiyizhongrenshengjingjie，shiconghuinvrensuozuo。puguanghuazhenqingganjigou，shijishang“zhuangfengmaisha”bingbingbushirangnvrenweishouweiwei，weiquqiuquan，yiqieshierdoushiyoutademohubuqingdiqu，“zhuangfengmaisha”shihuanyizhongfangfa，barichangshenghuodesuoshimohubuqingjiejue。xiaodujichangdenvrenhenyoukenenghuihuodeyishidekaolv;chuleibacuidenvrenhenyoukenenghuihuodeyikedexurongba，dannichunfengdeyizhishihuoxumaixialeanquanyinhuan，zhongxialehuohuan，zhuangzhuangfengmaishahenyoukenenghuixunyou。

 congmingdenvhaiyaoxuehaozhuangfengmaisha，zhuangfengmaishabingbudengyuzhenchun，conghuinvrenburongyizainanrenyanqianzhuyaobiaoxiandebitahainanren，buranshitashengangongzuoyali。mingbaibaconghuilengjunyanzangqilai，shidurenrangxiangtaxunqiubangzhu，bichuleibacuigengyixiyintadexin，zheijiushiconghuinvrendexingfukuailedangxinji。wenxintixing：mingbai“zhuangfengmaisha”caisuanshiconghuidezhendi!

 shikeyaohao、fengyongerzhideconghuibingbushizhenconghui，suichuluqiao、bumingbaibulufengmangjinguanfeichangrongyiyinrenzhuyi，danlingwaiyefeichangrongyidezuiyiyi，naizhichanshenghubianluanzaodewuhuiyuwaiqu。

 tiandiwanwudouzhuzhongjunheng，jinjintongchangzuibutaihaozhangwodebianshiyaobicijunhengdezhichengdian。zaiyiduanganqingzhong，ruguoyouyifangguoduqianghan，zuihouhuizaocheng ganqingdebupinghenghehunyinpolie。

zheijiushinvrendangxinjidehuosheng，xuehaosanzhao“zhuangfengmaisha”miji，tagengchiminidewanshantinghuayuhututaorenxihuan。

1.使他了解自身的必要性

 ruguonishiganqinghexinren，zaiaiqingshizhongzhanyouyoushi，neimazuixiannenggoumingquedeyidianshi，tabiranhenaizheni，xiangyaokuanronghejienaquanbudeni。

 shichongerjiaodecuowuxingweizongshiyicicitiaozhantadexixindaodedixian，puguanghuazhenqingganjigou，dajiarenweideconghuizuofashishidushitalejie，tazainixinlideyingxiangliyiyanghenzhongyao。fanyixiebuzhengqueqingtabangzhuchuli，bazijigongzuozhong、shenghuoshangdenantixiangtaqingtubingxiwangyongxinkaolvdaotadejianyi。

 shitalejiedaozishendecunyouduinieryanyouweizhongyao，gesanchawuxiangtasajiaomaimengyeshibaochinvxingmeilidehelifangshi。bierangtanlianaijiaosezhuanhuan：jilao，nishibixutalaiweihuderen，erbushiweitazuozhuderen，neiyangcaikeyilianaiguanxicaikeyipingwenzhangqi。zheiyifangshiyejiaoweiheshishehuifazhanlijingjiaoweishao、qianquezishendezhuguanxinghanyiyixienanhaier。

2.换位思考一下

 yaojilao，zuoweiyouzhetanlianaizhudongquandeni，haiyaoxiangfankaolvdaonanxingdetihui。tisheng ganqingzhiliangdeguanjiansuozai，bicizaizheiqizhongjunnengxunzhaoxinrenganhecanyuxing。

 henvrenyiyang，shijishangnanrenyebixulaiyuanyuniyuganqingdeshuangxiangrentongcaiyouwujinqudonglireqing，zaicifaguangfarefengxiandongneng。yinci ，mingbaihuanweisikaoyixia，xiangtasuogan，tiexinlejieshizhongshixiyinyigenanrendezuihaogongxinji。zheiyiyeshiwohaizaihengenanrenjinvrengoutongjiaoliuzhongchangchangshuodaodeyigehuatitaolun。

3.调节情绪