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1、说出你的体会和要求。
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•yongxintingtashuodaodehua。dangtaduinishuoshiershi,fanfutachangshuodehua,shitalejienigaoqingchuta。liru,“wotingjiannijuedehendanyoucaichancengmiandeshi,yinci nicaihuigongzuozhongdaoneimawan。”
•fangzhikaizhanpingding。shitashuowanhua,bubijizhehuiying。zaitajiangwanzhihou,zaichushinidejiejuefangfa。liru,“jiarujiansuorichangshenghuochengbenyusuannenggouyaowogengchangkanjianni,neiwoyuanneimezuo。”
2、慎重争执。
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•bubimeiyouquanjuxingdizhizenidelaogong。jilaobaochilengjing、lixing,youyudaizhuguoduoxintaifeichangrongyijiangtantaobianweizhengzhi。
•zaiduideshijiangentagoutongjiaoliu。bubibujujihuijiubanidewentipaojitamen。guangzhouhuazhenqinggangongsikaopuma?fangzhizaicanqian、zaitafuqianshitiwenwenti,yebuyaozaitazhuanxinzhizhiyujiejuejiposhiershi,lirutayijingxiunideche。yeyou,shizhongbubizainixiaohaiyanqiantiaodongzhengzhi。
3、有效争执。
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•dangnicuole,jiurenke。zaizhengzhishiniwubixuehaozenyangdafu,baochilizhi,neiyangnengshinizaizuocuoshishiyishidaozishendecuo,erqiezhiqian。
•xugaoqingchuyixieshierdajiahenyoukenengshizhongwufadachengyizhijianyi。meiyouyiduifuqinengyouwanquanyizhidedaodeguannianhexinxin。zheidaibiaozhedajiadoudexuehaoyingduizheixiemeifarongqiadejianyi。
4、跟你老公沟通交流,而不是跟他人讨论他。
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