广州花镇情感公司靠谱吗？嫁给什么样的人最靠谱?

 jiageishenmerenjiaoweikekao?guangzhouhuazhenqinggangongsikaopuma？xuduo kexueyanjiuzhengshi，duizhangqixingqingganweihaijiaoda dehaoduogeyaosushi“jijizhudongquanjuxingdafu”、“fazhanxinlizhuangtai”dengqingshangzhishangyaosu。

1，最先：发展心理状态VS固定不动心理状态。(CarelDwerk)

 gudingbudongxinlizhuangtaijuedeshiqingshiyichengbubiande，yiqieshier，shihebianshishihe，bushihebianshibushihe。tamenjianxin，tanlianaizuizhongyaodebianshi“xunzhaoshihederen”，gongzuozhongzuizhongyaodebianshi“qudezuihaoshideoffer”deng。yinci tamenzaoyunantishigengweiquxiangyugenjuzhaoxunlaichuli，erbushigenjuqinfenlaichuli。

 fazhanxinlizhuangtaijuedeshiqingshinenggougaibiande，yiqieshier，shihebushihedaliangdezaiyugerenjiazhi。tamenjianxin，tanlianaizuizhongyaodeshigenjubicideqinfenrangqinggangengqiang，gongzuozhongzuizhongyaodeshiwulunqudenaxieoffer，bagongzuozhongbaozhengdewanmei，rangzishengengweirongru。

 yiner，dangchuzaitanlianaishifashengzhengzhi，gudingbudongxinlizhuangtaiderenhuixiang：dajiafashengzhengzhi，haowuyiwenshiyouyuwomenbuheshi，ai，ruguozhaodaowodeyinyuanjiuhaole。duitameneryan，zuizhongyaodeqinfenlaiziyuzhuiqiuwanmeidequanguocheng，yidanbalingyifangzhuidao，qinfenjiujieshule。neiyanghunhouzhangjiuyiwang，biciyulaiyuganjuebushihe，yulaiyukanlingyifangbukanbuguan，laogongyeyulaiyuganjuetarenjiadexifugengyouyouhuoli。

 eryiyangzaoyumaodun，fazhanxinlizhuangtaidehuixiang：jinguandajiafashengzhengzhi，dandajiahuanshishihede，shiwomenlaiyiqikanyixianaerchulenanti，rangwoxiangxiangwozenyanggaibianzishenhelingyifangyituidongqinggan!duitameneryan，balingyifangzhuidaobingbudaibiaozheqinfendewanbi，erganghaoshizhenshiqinfendegangkaishi。tamenhuibajuedaduoshuhuolizijintourudaotisheng bingtuidongqingganshang，erbushizhaoxunxindeqingganshang。neiyangzhangqizhihou，jibian biciyikaishiyoumaodun，zhihouyehuimanmanbianhexie。

 gudingbudongxinlizhuangtai&fazhanxinlizhuangtaibiaoshuleneiyangyigezhuangkuang：weihetongjifenxifajue，babamamaqiangzhixingdehunyinshenghuozhongguolihunlvgengdi?

 shijishangzheibushiyouyuqiangzhihunyinzaocheng zhongguolihunlvdi，zhishiyouyubeiqiangzhixingdehunyinshenghuotongchangfeichangrongyirangtamenduizheiyihunyinshenghuozaochengfazhanxinlizhuangtai：tamenlejiezishenmeishenmetiaoxuan，yinerchulenantiyebuhuiquxianglingyifangshifouzishenyinyuan，zongshixiangbanfaqujiejuekunnan。

 gudingbudongxinlizhuangtai&fazhanxinlizhuangtaibudanmingxianweihailehunyinshenghuoxingfukuaile，guangzhouhuazhenqinggangongsikaopuma？haiweihaileniyizhizaigongzuoshangdezaojiu。

liruyiyangshijiaoshu，dangyitangkemeijianghao——

gudingbudongxinlizhuangtaiderenxiang：ai，laikanwozhenbushijiaoshudeliaoa!

 fazhanxinlizhuangtaiderenxiang：cicibuchenggongzhibuguolinshide，xiangxinwohaishiheshijiaoshude，rangwolaikanyixiaweihechunanti!xiayiciwoshizhexiatianjiaxiaogushiqushouke，huoxushijixiaoguohuigenghaoyixieni~

 yiner，zhenduimeizhidetiyishi：quzhaojuyoufazhanxinlizhuangtaierbushigudingbudongxinlizhuangtaiderenwanhun，duitaeryan，jiangnizhuidaozhibuguozhenshiqinfendegangkaishi，tahuiyibeizigenjuqinfenrangnidaliangyiwaijingxide!

2，积极主动全局性答复

 lingyigeshifenguanjiandeyingxiangyinsushilingyifangzenyangdafunidexixun，zheiduiyiqiedezhangqixingqinggandouweihaijida(buzhishihunyin)。

tadedafufangfafencheng“jijizhudongvsxiaochen”he“quanjuxingvsfeiquanjuxing”2gecengmian。

在其中—

jijizhudongdafu：jijizhudongduinidexinxikaizhanyijianfankui，erbushilengmohebuwenbuwen。

xiaochendafu：duinigongxiangdexinxibuwenbuwen。

quanjuxingxingdafu：zhenglianqiejilixingdidafunidexinxi，jinigengweixinxin。

feiquanjuxingdafu：fumianxinxiqieyanlidajixingdidafunidexinxi，jinigengweihuixinsangqi。

 yinerruguonixiabanlehuilaixinggaocailiedigennilaogongshuojinrilaozongrangnijinshengle，nilaogong4zhongdafufangfade2x2yinliujuzhenshi：

 congzheiyijichulilunhaikeyilejieweishenmewoguoxuduo jiazhongernvguanxiehuale，youyujuyoujianpanxialuojisiwei(jijizhudongfeiquanjuxingdafu)debabamamataiduole。nihuilaixinggaocailiedigenmuqinshuo：“ma!wojintianqudechenggongzhengdelaidaoxiaoyuanneishijiagexingdesaishijiyula!”tamaxuehuifangxiamukuaishuo：“jiangguonijihuile!yitiandaowanzuozheiyi，yebuhaipadangexuexipeixun!woleisileihuogongninianshu，bianshijinizuozheiyide?!nixuyaoxiangyaoquyexing，xianbangwokaoshifenshuchaochugebilinjuxiaominzailiao!”

 zhaolaogong，qianglieyaoqiuzhaoyigejuyoujijizhudongquanjuxingdafuxiguanxingde。taxinlishangjinidemeiyicifazhankaixin，jibian nijinjindiyicizuofanyibushaohule，tajilinishizheerbushiyanlidajinixinxin。tahuirangnichanshengtianmanshijiyiyiderichangshenghuo，yehuijiniweilaidexiaohaiyuelaiyuegengweixinxin、reqing、yingyongerqiepojuxiangxiangli!

3，权威性人格特质

 quanweixingrengetezhiderenjubeimingxiandejibieyishi，juederenshengdaolueryousanliujiudeng，tamenyifangmianxiang“ruoxiao”xuanyaonengliang、husanhesi、wangtucaozong;lingyifangmianduizuiqiangzhedishengxiaqi、biaomingtingcong、queshizizunxin。

 zaidajiawoguo，jubeiquanweixingrengetezhiderenhuoshiyouxianzhuquanweixingquxiangderenshifenduo。jiarupengdaolezheiyangderenzuoweinidelaogong，nihenyoukenenghuizaoyuxialierichangshenghuo：

 tazaiqianyishizhonglijuedenishitadezhangqizichan，erbushi“gongpingerenaidelinghunbanlv”，yexushiyouyuxinggeshiran，yexushiyouyutahualexuduo huaxuewuzhichengbenjiangnimaihuilai(liruchushifangwu)，yinertaganjuezishenduijini“chuzhiquan”，gezhonggeyangcengmiangaoniyideng。

 taxiaicaozongni，buxihuanniweifantadexinnian。lirubuxunigennanxingpengyoulianluo，caozongnideshejiaoquanzi，buxuniyizhizaiqunzhongchangsuoduojianghuazheixie。haoxiaodeshi，tabuxunigennanshilianluo，zishenquegenxuduo nvshibaochilianluo。

 tachengshoubushangnidizhita。jiaruniyizhizaitadepenyouyanqiandizhitademouyijianjie，tahuichuxianyichangfahuo，ertashizhongsiposhidefenwei，mianbulehuijialeyuenibubian。

youshihoutayehuiguanaini，keshizheileiguanaibingbingbushigongpingdeai，zhishi“huangshangduichenmindeenhui”，haibugankuaiguitiannan?