分手好久了,终于加回了前任的联系方式,你高兴,又显得不知所措,不知道怎么开口,生怕说错话引起对方反感。那怎么跟前任聊天不尴尬呢?跟
筛选信息
dangnikaishiliaotianshi,nikendinghuimianlinganga。suoyidangnideqianrenheniliaotianshi,nisuoyaozuodejiushixuehuiguanchaduifangdetaidu,congzimianshanglijieduifangdetaidu,yijinishifouyuanyijixuyunijiaotan。
dangduifangxiangnibiaodazugoudeneirongshi,tahuiyuelaiyuexinrenni,niyekeyishaixuanchugengduoguanyuduifangdeyouxiaoxinxi。
niyinggainenggouhuiyiqinimendiyicizaiyiqishitanlundeshiqing,yijinimenzaigoutongguochengzhongjingchangtanlundeshiqing,shaixuanchuyixieduifangmingxianganxingqudehuati,bingzhijieyutajiaotan。liru,ruguonideqiannvyouxihuanmeiweideshiwu,nikeyizhijieshuo:shunbianshuoyixia,wohetongshijintianquleyijiacanguan。suiranhuanjingbushihenhao,danweidaozhendehenhao。niweishenmeyiqianmeiyouzhaodaozheijiashangdian?nizhidaoma?
lingyigelizishi,nideqiannanyoutongchangxihuankanbisai。zheibushishijiebeima?nikeyiduoguanzhuyixiexiangguandeguanfangzhanghu,bingyutajiaotan。
zheiliyouyigeyuanzeyaogaosuni,zhiyaonianzhaozheigeyuanzeshuohua,nijiubuhuicailei。zheigeyuanzeshibimianrenheyuqingganxiangguandehuati。
ruguonihenidepengyouliaotian,nikeyihenideqianrenliaotian。dangran,buyaoganga。liaotianshiyaogengyouyishi。ruguoduifangjijihuiying,nikeyiduoliaoliao。ruguofanyingpingdan,zhudongjieshuhuati。jicizhihou,nikeyizongjiechutadexingqudianzainali。
聊天时机
dangnijianlilianxishi,nixiangxunsusuoduannimenzhijiandeguanxi,suoyiruguoniwushikezuo,jiuhuxiangjiaotan。duifanghuihuifunishenme?ng,shide,hehe。nijuedezheizhongliaotianhenbushufu。zheizhongbaoluxuqiugandeliaotianduitalaishuoshiyizhongtongku。youshitashenzhixiangzaiciheini。zhenfanren!suoyibuyaomeitianliaotian,jiduifangliudianxiangfa。shouxian,jitayigeyouqudeyinxiang,rangtaqidainiliaotian,danbuyaorangtazhaochunideguize。nihuifaxianniliaotiandecishuhuiyuelaiyueshao,yinweitayijingkaishiyouyishidizhenxinidechuxian,zheijiangyouzhuyusuoduannicujinguanxidezhouqi。
buyaozongshikanqilainihenxian。ruguotabuhuifunidexinxi,yexutazhendehenmang。tabuxianghenishuohua。dangniyiwentijieshushi,ruguotabuhuifunidexinxi,tahuinaixindengdai。nihaibixuxuanzeliaotiandeshijian。ruguonimeitianzaoshangdouhenmang,xiawujiuhenmang,erlingyijiagongsimeitianzaoshangdouhenmang,nihuizainirenweiniyoukongdeshihoufasongxinxi。tahenmang。dangran,tameiyoushijianhenishuohua。zhaochuqianrendegongzuohexiuxiguize,zhaochutayuanyiliaotiandeshijian。
引起共鸣
wulunnitanlunshenme,chanshenggongmingshifeichangzhongyaode。buyaozuojiubajinghua。jishinideguandianbuyizhi,yebuyaobiaoshiniwanquanbutongyihuobulijieta。jizhu,nidemudeshihuxiangzhengjiu,erbushihuxiangzhenglun。
jiniyigejiaobenmoban——womingbainideyisi,henyoudaoli。yuanlaishizheiyangde。woyiqianmeixiangdao。kanlainizaizheifangmianhaishihenbangde!
liru,dangniwenduifangzuijindeqingkuangshi,duifanggaosunizuijinyudaolehenduokunnan。nibunengzhishihuxianganwei。nikeyibatadangzuomimijiaohuan。niyekeyigaosuduifangnizuijindeyixiemafan。zuihaoyuduifangdexingzhixiangyizhi。lingwai,shizhehuxiangbiaoyang。jishitaxinqingbuhao,dangnixiangnibaoyuanzuijindefannaoshi,niyebuyinggaizhijieshuolaiba,woxiangxinni,ershishizhecongduifangdejiaodutiyantadeqingxu,gaosutaninenglijietadechujing。
开放性话题
zuihou,jianshaofengbishiduihua,jinliangrangnimendeliaotianhuatiweiraozheduifang。
yourenshuowoheqianrenliaotian,liaotiandeshihoujuedewuhuakeshuo。fengbishiwendayuqishuoshiliaotian,burushuoshishenxun。meiyourenxihuanzheizhongshuohuafangshi。genghaodebanfashiliyongkaifangdehuatirangduifangchangsuoyuyan。
goutongbushidanxiangde,gaozhiliangdeduihuaxuyaoshuangfangdehezuo,suoyiruguoduifangshuodehuatihenwuliao,nikeyishizhetiaochuzheigewuliaodequanzi,kaishiyigexindehuati。
jiandanlaishuo,yaotichushifeiwenti,yigeshifeiwenti,henrongyitanlunzheigehuati。zuihaotichuxuanzeti,huozherangduifangtichuxuanzeti。
zhiyaohuatizhunque,huoquxinxishifeichangyouxiaode。zaixianghulijiedeqingkuangxia,nikeyizaibuzhibujuezhongsuoxiaoguanxi,zailijiedeqingkuangxia,guanxifashengleshizhixingdebianhua。
1.首先,分为氛围一定要轻松,尤其是开场时,不谈感情,不谈烦恼。
2.qici,nikeyihelianggerendiaoqing。muqiandegongzuoqingkuangruhe?nihuanlexingongzuoma?
3.fenshouhou,meigerendewaibiaodouhuiyouyixiebianhua,suoyinikeyicongwaibiaoshangliaotian。
4.dangran,niyekeyitanlunshuangfangshenghuozhongdeyixieshiqing。tanlunshenghuohenzhongyao,danbuyaotanlunshenghuozhongdetaiduohuati,fouzerenmenhuijuedefenshouhenyihan。
5.yekeyidiaokanziji,youqishinanshengkeyitongguodiaokandefangshirangqifengengqingsong。
6.ruguoduifangshimeishijia,neimenikeyitanwu。fenshouhou,nibubichengweidiren。ruguotamenrengranshipengyou,nikeyiyuehaoyiqichuquchifan。
fenshouzhihouxianggenqianrenfuhe,qishicaozuoqilaibingbukunnan,zenmegenqianrenliaotian?suiranshifoufuhedeyiyuanyaokanduifang,danshiyindaotakandaonidegaibian,rangtaxinganqingyuandiduinizhongxintourureqing,zheigejuedingquanzainideshoushang!
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