husiluanxiang shizhimeiyougenju,buqieshijidexiaxiang。neimezongaihusiluanxiangzenmeban?
一、总爱胡思乱想怎么办
1、转移注意力
dangfanfujinxingsikaoerwufatingzhishi,zongaihusiluanxiangzenmeban?zheishizuizhongyaodeshixiangbanfazhuanyizhuyili,jinkuaituolifanfujinxingsikaodexianshi。liru,yidanchuyuxiangbiedeshiqingernanwufatingzhishi,mashangquzuoganxingqudeshihuotingyinle,zheishizhuyiliquandoujizhongzaiganxingqudeshihuoyinleshang,jiukenenghuiwangdiaosuolianxiangdeqingjingertingzhisikao。
2、漠视你的想法
womenyaorenshidaodanaodehusiluanxiangshiqizhengchangdegongneng,neimewomenjiumeiyoubiyaozaihuqi“husiluanxiang”,zhiyaonibuqukeyizaiyita,yitanrandexinqingjieshouta,yifangsongdexintaiduizijishuo“xiangjiuxiangba,meishenmedabulede!”jiuerjiuzhi,dangnizhenzhengbubatadanghuishier,zhenzhengbaxinxufangsongzhihou,zheizhongqingkuangyejiuzhujianxiaoshile。
3、学会面对挫折
tianyouyinqingyuxue,renyoubeihuanlihe,wanshiwanwubukenengyoujinshanjinmei、wanmeiwuque,suoyicaiyoucanquemei、quzhemeidengdeng,suoyi,womenmeitiandoukenenghuimianduizhangai、cuozhe,naizhiyixiangbudaodeshiwu,dangrandangwomenjinlile,womenjiubunengguofenkeqiuziji,keqiuzijidejieguozhinengshizijigandaoshiwang、shibai,congershiquxinxin。
4、充实生活
zongaihusiluanxiangzenmeban?rangzijideyeyushenghuobiandechongshiqilai,biru,canjiatiyuwenyuhuodong,tingyinle、tiaowuchanggedengdeng,dangnimangliuqilaideshihou,xinqingjiubuzaixiaochen,ganjueyejiuhuiqingsongqilai,yidanrangyeyushenghuodechongshichengweilexiguan,neimenidewentiyejiudedaojiejuele。
5、投入自己的爱好
zhaoyijianzijizuixihuan、zuileyizuodeshiqing,dangniquanshenxinditouruqizhongdeshihou,nidewentiyejiusuizhexiaoshile。
6、平常心来对待
zongaihusiluanxiangzenmeban?yaoyipingchangxinlaiduidai,buyaobatakanzuoshishenmedabuledeshiqing,jiuxiangduidaitianqidebianhuayiyang--shunyingziran,gaizuoshenmeshijiuquzuoshenmeshi,jianchibazijigaizuodeshihenengzuodeshizuohao--gaichifanjiubafanchihao,gaishuijuejiubajueshuihao,gailiaotianjiubatianliaohao,gaipaobujiubabupaohao,gaidushujiubashuduhao,zhiyaonixiangxintamenshichizaohuizirandixiaoshide,bingnulidiquzuohaoxianshishenghuozhongnigaiquzuodeshiqing,manmandinixinxujiuhuifangsong,duizhengzhuangdechuxianyemeiyouneimekongjuhejinzhangle,jiuerjiuzhi,dangnizhenzhengdedaolefangsongzhihou,zheizhongzhengzhuangyejiuzhujianxiaoshile。
7、规范化工作
jinkenengrangzijidegongzuochengxuhuaheguifanhua。suowei“chengxuhua”,jiushianyidingdebuzhoujinxingchuli;er“guifanhua”jiushianyidingdeguidingchuli。biru,nixianzaizuopenjingyanghuyuan,neimewomenjiuanzhaosuozuodeshishejichuyigechengxuxingdebuzhou,ranhouanzheigebuzhouquzuo,jiuerjiuzhixingchengxiguanzhihoujiubuhuichuxiancuowule。
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