支配欲太强的父母怎么做

 zhongguodechuantongwenhuaxuanyangwanbeiduizhangbeidezunzhonghefucong，quehenshaotichangshuangfangdezunzhong。shenzhidaolexiandai，xuduofumurengmeiyouyishidaozijiyijingranshangleguoyuwangshengdezhipeiyuwang，changchangzaibuzhibujuejianhushilehaizideduligexing，youyiwuyidiqiangpohaizianzhaofumudeyuanwangheshejiqufazhan。

 zheiyangzhipeiyutaiqiangdefumupeiyangchulaidehaizi，wangwanghuichuxianliangzhongqingkuang：yizhongshichengrenhouqueshaoyongyuchengdanzerendeyongqi，nilaishunshou，beirenshizuonuoruode “danxiaogui”。lingyizhongzejuyoufeichangqiangliedenifanxintai，duirenhequanweidouhuaiyoudiyi，zairenjiguanxidechulishangchuchupengbi，zuizhongbianchengxinggeguailide“gujiaguaren”。

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neime，zenmeyangzaizunzhonghaizihejiaodaohaizizhijianzhaodaoyigepinghengdianni？fumubufangshishiyixiafangfa。

一、支配欲太强的父母怎么做

1、yuxiantanchengshuomingzijidelichang

 yuxiandetanchengshengmingshiyizhongduitarendezunzhong，duichengrenruci，duihaiziyiran。zhipeiyutaiqiangdefumuxianshuomingzijidelichang，yifangmiankeyibimianbubiyaodewuhui，lingyifangmian，yechuandichuzunzhongduifangdexinhao：wokanzhongniduiwojianyidekanfa，bingxiwangninenghezuo。

 womenshuohaizisuiranyouzijidexiangfa，danyoushihounanmianbugouchengshu。mamawanquanyouliyoudanxinhaizizaigoumaiwanjushikenengyinweihushiyixieyinsu，zuochuqiankaolv dejueding。bijiaocongmingdezuofashi，mamakeyiyuxianjihaizitichuyixiejianyi，zuoxiejieshiheguiding，yunxuzaiyidingfanweineichongfenfahuizijidezizhuquanhezhipeiquan。

 liru，zaimaiwanjuqian，mamakeyiguiding：wanjudejiageyinggaizaiduoshaoqianyinei；bumaiweixian、yisunhuaihuorongyinongzangdewanju；bumaibiaoyoubushihehaizizheigenianlingduandewanjudeng。ranhou，zaidaihaiziqutiaoxuanwanju。yaozhidao，nenggouchongfenfahuizijidezhudongxingwanchengyijianshiqing，jishishizaiyigejuti、xiaxiaodeshouquanfanweineizuochudeziwojueding，douhuilingrenchanshengziwoshixiandechengjiuganheyuyuegan。zheiyang，haizimuqinjiunenghenhaodihezuo，xiandudibimianshangshulingrenbukuaidechongtufasheng。

2、zaifumuzhangwodefanweinei，jihaiziyidingdezizhuquan

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 qishizheishihaizizizhuyishifazhandeyizhongbiaoxian，zhipeiyutaiqiangdefumuyinggaizunzhongtamendeyiyuan。zuizhijiedejiejuedebanfashimaiyifudeshihoudaishangta，bamamakanzhongdeyifufangzaitamianqian，rangtazijitiao。zheiyang，zaimamazhangwodefanweinei，jihaiziyidingdejuedingquan。

 youxiejiazhangshuole，haizidexiangfayihuieryibian，tajuedingmailaideyifuyoushihouyoubuxihuanle，tadejuedingbukaopu。neime，womenhaiyoulingwaiyigebanfa：zaoshangqichuang，jihaiziliangtaohuozhesantaoyifu，rangtazaizheigexiaofanweizhineijuedingjintianchuanshenme。zheiyang，fumukeyizhangwodaju，danshihaiziyekeyiyouzaiyidingfanweineidezizhuquan。