jingguanqibianshishenmeyisi?zhibudongshengsedeguanchashiqingdejinzhanbianhua,bushoudaoqiyingxiangraoluan。zaidangqianfenfanfuzadehuanjingzhong,jingguanqibianshiyizhongnengli。
一、静观其变,以不动为主动,以静制动
“jingguanqibian,buyuqiluan。"budongshengsedeguanchashiqingdejinzhanbianhua,bushoudaoqiyingxiangraoluanyibudongweizhudong:dangnizhidaoduifangsuoxingdonghoubucaiquxingdong,bingrangduifangjuedenizhidaotadexingdong,congerrangduifangfangqihuojiakuaixingdong。yituodaibianheyijingzhidong:jiushidibudongwobudong!xiantuozhe、haozhe、daidifangyousuoxingdongwofangzaizuochuxiangyingdebiandong。congmingdenixianzaimingbaijingguanqibianshishenmeyisileba?
二、静观其变是一种能力
youyigeliulanghan,zoujinsimiao,kandaopusazuozailianhuataishangzhongrenmobai,feichangxianmu。
liulanghan:wokeyihenihuanyixiama?
pusa:zhiyaonibukaikou。
liulanghanzuoshanglelianhuatai。tadeyanqianzhengtiancaozafenluan,yaoqiuzhezhongduo。tashizhongrenzhemeikaikou。
yiri,lailegefuweng。fuweng:qiupusacijiwomeide。ketou,qishen,tadeqianbaodiaozailedixia。liulanghangangxiangkaikoutixing,taxiangqilepusadehua。
fuwengzouhou,laideshigeqiongren。qiongren:qiupusacijiwojinqian。jialirenbingzhong,jixuqiana。ketou,qishen,takandaoleyigeqianbaodiaozailedixia。qiongren:pusazhenxianlingle。tanaqiqianbaojiuzou。liulanghanxiangkaikoushuobushixianling,neishirenjiadiudedongxi;ketaxiangqilepusadehua。
zheishi,jinlaileyigeyumin。yumin:qiupusaciwoanquan,chuhaimeiyoufenglang。ketou,qishen,tagangyaozou,quebeiyoujinlaidefuwengjiuzhu。weileqianbao,liangrenniudaqilai。fuwengrendingshiyuminjianzouleqianbao,eryuminjuedeshouleyuanwangwufarongren。liulanghanzaiyekanbuxiaqule,tadahanyisheng:“zhushou!”bayiqiezhenxianggaosuletamen。yichangjiufenpingxile。
nijuedeliulanghanzheiyanghenzhengquema?
pusa:nihaishiquzuoliulanghanba。nikaikouyiweizijihengongdao,danshi,qiongrenyincimeiyoudedaoneibijiumingqian;furenmeiyouxiulaihaodexing,yufuchuhaiganshanglefenglangzangshenhaidi。yaoshinibukaikou,qiongrenjiademingyoujiule;furensunshileyidianqiandanbanglebierenjilede;eryufuyinweijiuchanwufashangchuan,duoguolefengyu,zhijinhaihuozhe。
liulanghanmomolikailesimiao……
xuduoshiqing,gaizenyang,jiuzenyang。dengdaitashunqizirandefasheng,jieguohuigenghao。kemianduixianshideshihou,yousheiyouzhidao,shiwubenshengaiyoudejieguoshishenmeyangzini?
jingguanqibianshiyizhongnengli;shunqiziranshiyizhongxiulian。
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