herenjiaowangshihenyouxuewendeyixiangjiqiao。jiangjiuyuyanshangdemeili,rengemeili,jinxingjiaojiyeyaoyouyuanze。yishihuchouyuanze。renjijiaowangshi,renyurenzhijiandeguanxishixianghude,qixingweijuyouhuchouxing。yinci,zaiwomendejiaowangzhong,yinggaichangchangxiangdao“jiyu”erbushi“suoqu”;xiangfan,ruguoquerbuyu,jiuhuishiqupengyou。yaoruhetigaoshejiaonenglini?
一、什么是社交能力?
shenmeshishejiaonengli?ziwotanludeyuanze。yigerenbaziwoxiangbierenchangkaibisisiguanbigengnengshirengandaomanzu,erqie,zheizhonghaodeganjueyehuizaicichuanranjibiederen。
shizhenchengpingjiadeyuanze。renmenzaijiaowangdeguochengzhong,mianbuleyaohuxiangyilun、huxiangpingjia,duirenpingjiadetaiduyaochengken,qingganyaozhenzhi,ruguoeyifeibang,koushixinfei,huozheyangfengyinwei,lehuizaozhibierendebuanyufangan。zuihoushihulixingdeyuanze。yaojiejuerenjiguanxibuxiediaodemaodun,jiuyaocaiyonghulideyuanze,“huli”jiushimaodunshuangfangdounengjieshoudediaojie。
neime,shenmeshihaoderenjiguanxini?meiguoshehuixintaixueaishuercirenwei,yibanlaijiang,renjiguanxiyousanzhongleixing,qiyishiqianrangxing。qitezhengshi“chaoxiangtaren”,wulunyujianheren,zongshixiangdao“taxihuanwoma?”。qiershijinquxing。qitezhengshi“duikangtaren”,wulunyudaoheren,zongshixiangzhidaogairenliliangdedaxiao,huogairenduizijiyouwuyongchu。qisan,shifenlixing。qitezhengshi“shulitaren”,wulunyudaoheren,zongshixiangbaochiyidingdejuli,yibimiantarenduizijideganrao.
二、如何提高社交能力
jianlilianghaorenjiguanxishitigaochushinenglideguanjian。neime,ruhetigaoshejiaonenglini?
1、培养良好的个性
ruguoyoubuliangpinzhi,jishijiaoyouhenguang,yenandeyouzhixinpengyou;xiangfan,ruguonijuyoucujinrenjixiyindeyouxiupinzhi,jiuhuirongyibeibierenyinweizhiyi。
2、 shanyutichabierendezhenzhengxuyao
zheixiexuyaogaikuoqilaibaokuobaorongdexuyao、kongzhidexuqiu、ganqingdexuqiu。zairenjijiaowangzhong,womenbudanyaokaolvdaoduifangdegexingpinzhi,yeyaokaolvduifangdexuqiu,yinweirenjijiaowangdejichushihubu,zhisuoquerbufengxiandeguanxishihennanweichide。
3、 zhangwoyidingderenjijiaowangjiqiaoyouzhuyutigaozijidechushinengli。renyurenzhijiandejiaowangbushisuixinsuoyude,ershiyouyidingmude,bingyunyongyidingfangfajinxingjiaowangde。jiaowangfangfayuehao,renjiguanxiyuerongyiweichijinmi。jianyidajiaduoduyixiedairenjiewufangmiandeshuji,youzhuyulixingdilijieshehui,weizoushanggengguangkuoderenshengzhiluzuohaozhunbei。
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