我们要如何提高社交能力呢？

 herenjiaowangshihenyouxuewendeyixiangjiqiao。jiangjiuyuyanshangdemeili，rengemeili，jinxingjiaojiyeyaoyouyuanze。yishihuchouyuanze。renjijiaowangshi，renyurenzhijiandeguanxishixianghude，qixingweijuyouhuchouxing。yinci，zaiwomendejiaowangzhong，yinggaichangchangxiangdao“jiyu”erbushi“suoqu”;xiangfan，ruguoquerbuyu，jiuhuishiqupengyou。yaoruhetigaoshejiaonenglini？

一、什么是社交能力?

 shenmeshishejiaonengli?ziwotanludeyuanze。yigerenbaziwoxiangbierenchangkaibisisiguanbigengnengshirengandaomanzu，erqie，zheizhonghaodeganjueyehuizaicichuanranjibiederen。

 shizhenchengpingjiadeyuanze。renmenzaijiaowangdeguochengzhong，mianbuleyaohuxiangyilun、huxiangpingjia，duirenpingjiadetaiduyaochengken，qingganyaozhenzhi，ruguoeyifeibang，koushixinfei，huozheyangfengyinwei，lehuizaozhibierendebuanyufangan。zuihoushihulixingdeyuanze。yaojiejuerenjiguanxibuxiediaodemaodun，jiuyaocaiyonghulideyuanze，“huli”jiushimaodunshuangfangdounengjieshoudediaojie。

 neime，shenmeshihaoderenjiguanxini?meiguoshehuixintaixueaishuercirenwei，yibanlaijiang，renjiguanxiyousanzhongleixing，qiyishiqianrangxing。qitezhengshi“chaoxiangtaren”，wulunyujianheren，zongshixiangdao“taxihuanwoma?”。qiershijinquxing。qitezhengshi“duikangtaren”，wulunyudaoheren，zongshixiangzhidaogairenliliangdedaxiao，huogairenduizijiyouwuyongchu。qisan，shifenlixing。qitezhengshi“shulitaren”，wulunyudaoheren，zongshixiangbaochiyidingdejuli，yibimiantarenduizijideganrao.

二、如何提高社交能力

jianlilianghaorenjiguanxishitigaochushinenglideguanjian。neime，ruhetigaoshejiaonenglini?

1、培养良好的个性

 ruguoyoubuliangpinzhi，jishijiaoyouhenguang，yenandeyouzhixinpengyou;xiangfan，ruguonijuyoucujinrenjixiyindeyouxiupinzhi，jiuhuirongyibeibierenyinweizhiyi。

2、　shanyutichabierendezhenzhengxuyao

 zheixiexuyaogaikuoqilaibaokuobaorongdexuyao、kongzhidexuqiu、ganqingdexuqiu。zairenjijiaowangzhong，womenbudanyaokaolvdaoduifangdegexingpinzhi，yeyaokaolvduifangdexuqiu，yinweirenjijiaowangdejichushihubu，zhisuoquerbufengxiandeguanxishihennanweichide。

 3、　　zhangwoyidingderenjijiaowangjiqiaoyouzhuyutigaozijidechushinengli。renyurenzhijiandejiaowangbushisuixinsuoyude，ershiyouyidingmude，bingyunyongyidingfangfajinxingjiaowangde。jiaowangfangfayuehao，renjiguanxiyuerongyiweichijinmi。jianyidajiaduoduyixiedairenjiewufangmiandeshuji，youzhuyulixingdilijieshehui，weizoushanggengguangkuoderenshengzhiluzuohaozhunbei。