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一、始乱终弃是什么
shiluanzhongqi——yiqidebudaodexingwei,duozhinanziduinvzixianwannonghouyiqidebudaodexingwei。chu chu:tang·yuanzhen《yingyingchuan》:"shiluanzhi,zhongqizhi。"
shiyi:①luan:,buzhengdangdenannvguanxi。(yezhinanzitantumeise,zaochengsiweihunluan)qi:paoqi、yiqi。zhinanziduinvzixianwannongshiluanzhongqihouyiqidebudaodexingwei。
②liyongren(huowupin,fanzhiren)hou,yijiaotikai。
shili:shiluanzhongqi,junzisuoe,weirenyanzhi,buweiercaoyanzhiye。 ★qing·jiyun《yueweicaotangbiji·huaixizazhier》
luandeyuanyiqishishizhi,jiaguwenshishuangshoulicansi,houlaicaiyonglezhilidezhilaizuozheigeyisi,luanzhongyouzhi。zaichucigushizhongjieweiyouluanyue,jiushizongjiechencidahechangdeyisi,suoyi,luanfanershilideyisi,yinweiluancaixuyaoli,caixuyaozhenghezhi,suoyishiluanzhongqideluan,yinggaishi「qi」zheigedongcidekaishi,erbushixianzairenxiangdangranwangwenshengyideba「luan」dangchengluangaodeyisi,zheishipushiwenmangdetixian,yidiandoumeiyourenwenjingshenhezhixuetaidu。
shiluanzhongqideyisizhengquejieshishi:nenggaoshang,danshifubuqineigezeren。shiluanzhongqi,yibandedoushizheizhongqingkuang。yinweinanrenzaiduixiangyaodenvrendeshihou,yibandouyaojizhongjinglide,yaoburanzijijiuhuibeinvrenjipassdiao。bunengxiangdetaiduo,ruguoyixiangdetaiduodehua,jiuhuixingdongbuli。suoyizaitandeshihou,jiuhuibuguyiqie。ruguonishiyigehaoren,shenmedouxiangdehenduo,jiushenmexidoumeiyoule。zheiyangdejieguohuibuhuihaoyebuyiding。shenghuobazheigewentitichulaile,kanshirenzenmezuo,zonghuiyoubanfade。
zheiqishishizerengandewenti,bicixihuanzaiyiqishimeiwentide。danshibicifashengxingguanxi,shifuqijiandeshiqing,erfeinannvpengyoujiukeyide。fashengle,shuyu“yuxianzhichu”,luanle,zuihoumeizaiyiqi,qile,jiuzhizheizhongguanxi。
yinci,aishimeicuode,bawobuhaodu,budongdeziwobaohu,zhuiqiu“buzaihutianzhangdijiu,zhizaihucengjingyongyou”,shiyizhongduanshixiaoying,zhichilebicibufuzedetaidu,shinannvdouyaojiechude。
duiyushiluanzhongqideyisi,nixianzaizhidaolema?henduorenmianduichengyudeshihourongyiwangwenshengyi,zheishibuzhengquedezuofae。
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