男方怎么挽回前妻的婚姻

　　nanfangzenmewanhuiqianqidehunyinhunyinlideliefeng，wangwangcongyichangwuyindeduitanzhujian。bansuizhewuhui、lengdannaizhishuyuanmanmanfushihunyinguanxi，henduonvxingpengyouhuixianrushenshendejiaolvyumangrandangzhong，tamenyexuhuishituyongkukuwanliuhuocaiquduozhongfangshilaiwanhuizhangfudexin。danshi，zhenzhengnengxiubufuqiguanxidesuochi，qishiyejiuyanzangzaimeiyicizhenzhidegoutongjiaoliudangzhong。

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　　沟通交流之必要性

　　zaiganqingzaoshoukunjingshi，henduonvxingpengyoutongchanghuizouxiangliangjihua。yizhongshitongguochizeheweiqulaichangshihuanqilaogongdezerenxin，lingyizhongzeshitiaoxuanwanquanfengbiziwo，yichenmohelengzhandefangfahuifu。danshi，zheiliangzhongfangshitongchangzhihuijiazhonghunyinlideliefeng。zaihunyinwentishi，nvshichangburuqitu，youxiaodegoutongcaishiguanjian。xinliyanjiubiaoming，xiangchenggongwanhuizhangfudexin，zuihaodefangfashiyouchuangjianshencengcideqingganlianjiebingfeichizehuofengbiziwolaixiufuguanxi。ershixianzheiyimubiaodeguanjiansuozai，qiahaoshiyouxiaodegoutong。

　　▍goutongjiaoliuzaihunyinwentizhongdezhongyaoxing

　　fenshouwanhuihunyindeguochengzhong，henduonvxingpengyoujingchangshituyong“jiangli”lairanglaogongzhudongrencuo，huozhexiwangyongxintaidexuanxielaihuodetadelianmin。danshi，zheizhongxingweitongchangdebuchangshi，nengrangduifangzaochengfangyuxinli，naizhijiazhonghunyinshenghuodeliefeng。goutongjiaoliudeshizhiqujueyulejie，bingfeiquanfu。zaigoutongdeshihou，womenyinggaizuodaoyixiajidian：

　　zuixian，yaoxuehuifangxiahaoshengxin。goutongjiaoliubingbushiyichangbianlunhui，buyongzhengchaoshishifeifei。dajiayingxianjiaodianfangzaizenmejiejuewentishang，bingfeijiujie“sheifancuowu”。

　　cizhi，yaochuandachuzhenshicuiruogan。shehuixinlixuelide“yisunxingjichulilun”gaojiewomen，shidudibiaoxianzijidezhenzhengmingan，liruchengrenzijizaodongbuan、houhuimojihuowunai，keyigengyouxiaodejiqiduifangtonglixinyuzhengfuyu。

　　▍深层沟通的三要素

　　jiaoliuzhongxulingting、yuyanhexingwei。lingtingbixuchongfenwajuelingyifangyaoqiu。zaihunyinwentizhong，henduolaogongbaochichenmo，bingfeiyinweitamenmeiyouhuashuo，ershiyinweitamenganjue“buguanshuoxieshenmeyeyushiwubu”。yiner，dajiayingjijilingtingtamendeganshou，shizhelejietadechenmowuyan。biru，nengtongguotichuwentiquyindaohuihua：“jinqinilaoshuogongzuomangliu，shifoujialishiwuguanlirangniganjuedaoyalizhongzhong?”zailingtingshi，zuizhongyaodeshiyaofangzhiqieduanhuobianbo，ershiyongdiandiantou、fanfulingyifangdeyanyudengfangshilaichuandiduiyutamenganzhidejienahelejie。

　　biaoshu：yong“tihui”qudai“chize”。zaigoutongzhong，womenyingdangduocaiyong“woganshoudao……”zheizhongjuxinglaibiaodazijideganshou，bingfeijiandandehuxiangzhize。biru，congmouzhongyiyishanglaishuo：“jinqifudaohaizixuexikechengyaowoshenxinpibei，ruguokeyidedaowodezhichihefentan，wonengjuedeqingsonghenduo。”neiyangdebiaodafangshikeyijianshaoduikangqingxu，yindaoduifangxiangzheruheyitongchuliwenti。

　　xingwei：ranggenggai“kandeqing”。kongdongdefuwuchengnuomeifazhongjianxinren，zhiyoushentilixingcainengzhengmingwomenzijidexinxin。biru，ruguoguoquyincuxindayijiazhongcongeryinfafenqi，dajiakeyizhudongzhengtiguihuazhoumojiatinghuodong;zhiyaoduifangmaiyuangoutongjiaoliuxiaoguobuhao，womennenganshishezhi“fufushizhang”，zhiliyugoutongjiaoliubicizhijiandeyaoqiuhetihui。tongguozheigeshentilixing，dajiakeyirangduifangkandaowomendediaozhengheqinfen。

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　　zhongyaochangjingxiadegoutongfangfa

　　▍如果对方提离婚

　　zheishi，guoduwanhuikenenghuijiajutadelikaiyixiang。gengmingzhidezuofashi：baochilixing，yuqinguzongdihuiying。biru：“wolijienixianjintongchu，ruguonixiangyaoshizhangduju，wonengzunzhongnidejueding。danqingjizhu，woyizhizhenxizheiduanganqing，bingqieyuanyiweitishengguanlianerfendou。”zaihoulaidejiaoliuzhong，keyishizhe“feiqinrushigoutongjiaoliu”laifujianlianluo。biru，meiguoliangsantiantuisongyitiaojianjieerchongchizheguanzhudexinxineirong：“jinrijingguowomencengzuixihuandedifangkafeiting，dianguoyibeinatie，xiwangninenggouchangdaoneiyifenxiangwangdeshenghuo。”

　　▍如果对方慢慢疏远

　　nanfangzenmewanhuiqianqidehunyinlengdantongchangshitaduiyushangxindehuifu。zheishi，yingdangtongguokaiqijitijiyihefengqujiejuejiaolvbuanyifujianlianluo。tanxunnengkaiqijitijiyiyigedian。biru，fanchulaiwanhunshidezhaopian，bingpeiyiju：“jiandaozhaopian，wohuiyiqinicengshuoguode‘jianglaiyaoyiqiwanbianquanqiu’，worengranqipanzheneiyitian。”shizheyongfengqulaikefujinzhangqifen，biru：“wofaxianwodepengrenjishujinqidayouzhangjin，yihanmeiyourengongxiang……niyaohuijiadangwodepinchangshichishima?”zheizhongziwodiaokanheyaoyue，yexunenggouhuanjienimendeguanxijinzhangqifen。

　　▍ruguoduifangzhuanweidisanzhe

　　zaizheilichangjingxia，duicexujianju“gupiaozhisun”yu“fujianyouhuoli”。zuixian，yaoquedingdaodedixian，fangzhidiwei。yaozheiyanghuifu：“wolijieniyexurenweitazuidongni，danqingjizhu，panbiandaijiwodekuailetongchangshiyishide。nikeyixuanzeliqu，wonengzunzhongnidejueding，danbuhuimeiyoudixiandedengdai。”yucitongshi，yingzhuanzhuyutishengziji，tongguopengyouquandengqudaogongxiangyundongjianshenchengxiao、dushuganwudengjijizhudongdeshenghuofangshi，weicifanfangxiangjiqitadetansuoyuwang。neiyang，tanenggouzhujianyishidao“shiquleni，kenengshiyizhongnanyimibusunshi”。