人生的修养：学会怎么控制自己的脾气

 nide piqi ，juedingniderensheng。rendoushiyoupiqide，meiyousheitianshengjiuyongyouyigehaopiqihuozhebaopiqi，zhishishuozheixiepiqidoushizaihoutiandeshehuishenghuozhongmanmanmochulaide。piqiwenhederenxiangzhezenyangweichihaozheigezhuangtai，erpiqibaozaoderenxiangzhejiushizenmekongzhizijidepiqi。

一、怎么控制自己的脾气

 1、gaojiezijixianlengjingjifenzhong。ruonishizaihenxiangfapiqishi，bufangzaixinliduizijishuoyiju“woyidingyaokongzhiziji，wobunengfapiqi，fapiqishangrenshangji”，ranhoushenhuxi，lengjingjifenzhongzhihouzaizuosikao，zheishikenengnijiumeiyouneimeshengqile。

 2、baopiqijiushikongzhibuledehuaneinikeyizanshilikai。ruguoshizaijuedekongzhibulezijidepiqishi，jiuzanshilikaiyuandi，keyihuidaozijidefangjian，xiuxiyixia，yimianyinweichengyishizhikuaijishuangfangdouzaochengbubiyaodeshanghai。

 3、zenmekongzhizijidepiqi，dangnizaiqitoushangdeshihoukeyixuanzezhuanyizhuyili，zuoyixiezijipingshixihuanzuodeshiqing，birutingyixieshuhuandeyinle，kankandianshijuhuozhedianyingdeng，zhuyilidedaolezhuanyi，xinqingziranyenenghuanjieyixie。

 4、jihaopengyoudadianhua。zaiqitoushangderendoushihuixiangyaofaxiede，bufangbafapiqideshijiyonglaizhaohaopengyouqingsuyixiaba，sushuozijideweiquyubukuai，haopengyouhuizhanzainidelichangshangkuanweini，ranhounihuijuedeshiyourendongnide，qingxudedaolexuanxie，xinqingziranjiuhaoxiele。

 5、haopiqidoushimanmanmochulaide，meiyousheitianshengjiushishanliangde，zhishitamenzhidaokongzhibufapiqidefangfa。dangnixiangfapiqishi，buruchuqusanbuhuanheneixindeqingxu，dangneixinbupingjingdeshihou，keyidaofujindeguangchangqusansanxin，qingxingyixiafanluandetounao，liqingshiqingdetouxu，shuobudingwentijiunengyingrenerjiele。