孩子脾气不好怎么办

 kenenghenduojiazhangdouyijingfaxianle。zijidebaobaobuzhidaoweishenmeai piqi ，ruguoyoushenmebushunzhetamendexinyi，tamenjiuhuikunao，fapiqi，shenzhiyuzuochuyixiebijiaoguojidexingwei，rangjiazhangmenfeichangdewunai，henduojiazhangxianggaibianbaobaozheigewenti，keshigaizenmebanni？

一、孩子脾气不好怎么办？

1、训导并非惩罚

 xiaohaifancuo、taoqideyuanyinyouhenduo。zuizhongyaodeshiyaolejieqingchuhaizifancuodeyuanyin。haizikenengchuyujidu、konghuang、pilao、yalihuozhecuozheganerfancuo。shenrulejiehaizidexinlingyouzhuyuwomenxuanzeshidangdixundaofangshi。

2、冷处理很重要

 bieyiweixiaohaizizhiguzhefapiqi，taqishiyezaitoutoudizaiguanchanidefanying。yudaozheizhongqingkuang，niyidingyaozuodao“weiwubunengqu”de。bielita，yaoranghaizimingbai，niyijingkanchuanletadebaxi，zheiyitaobuguanyongle。lingwai，bamamenyaotixingziji，bunengbeihaizidehuaipiqichuanran，ruguohaizibutingniquandehua，gaosuzijirenzaiqitoushangdoushizheiyangde，jitayidianlengjingdeshijianba。

3、循序渐进

 youxiehaizijishizaiwanchenglisuonengjideshiqingshiyehuixiandejizaobuan。pengshangzheizhongqingkuangshi，babamamakeyijihaiziduoyixiedeguli。ruguohaizihaishibuyuanyizijidongshouquzuo，babamamakeyibangzhuhaiziqigetou，ranhougulihaizijixuwangxiazuo。

4、不火上浇油

 danghaiziqingxujizaoshi，babamamabudajingxiaoguaidizhuiwenhaizizenmele，yidingyaokongzhihaozijideqingxu，zijixianlengjingxialai，yibianzixiguanchahaizi，querenwentisuozai，yibianyindaohaizizaifaxieqingxudeqiantixialengjingxialai。

 shihou，babamamazaixunzhaoheshideshiji，xianghaizitichuxiwang，jiaohuihaizizhengquediyingduizijiqingxudefangfa，cujinhaiziziwoqingxukongzhinenglidefazhan。

5、转移注意力

 henduoxiaohaizidouxihuanwuliqunao，xiangyinqidarendezhuyihuodedaomouxiejiangli，qiyinyouhenduo。xiaohaizibijiaozaihuzijideganshou，ruguotaiduqiangyingdibitajiufandehua，yehuigaodedarenhexiaohaidoufeichangshengqide。bijiaohaodebanfajiushizhuanyitadezhuyili，jirangtayouxinxiandeganjue，youbuhuiweibeifumudeyuanze。

6、zhaogeyouweixinderenlaizhenchang

 haizipingchangzuirongyigenhesheifapiqi？kendingshineigetengtazuiduoderen。zaixiaohaizidexinli，xiangmama、nainaizheixiejingchangzhaoguzijiderendoushibijiaoxinruande，zhidaofapiqishibuhuiyoushenmeyanzhonghouguo，suoyisiwujidan。yudaozheizhongqingkuang，nijiuyaoqiuzhuyuneixiequanweirenwu，biruyeye、baba，changchangyiliangjuhuayishuo，xiaohaizijiuguaiguaitinghuale。

7、同情并给与鼓励

 xiaohaizidexintaifeichangjiandanhedanchun，danshiyefeichangcuiruo，jingbuqiyidiandaji。biru，youxiexiaohaizihenyongxindizaipinpintu，danshipinlebantian，doubuchenggong。zheiyangjiunenggouhuanjiexiaohaizixintaideyalihezizeqingxu。fumutongqingdebiaodakeyilajinyuxiaohaizhijiandejuli，ranhoulajinjulizhihoudequanweixiaoguogenghao。

8、保持冷静地教导

 xiaohaizizaigongzhongchangsuonaobieniushizuilingfumugangadeqingxingle，danshidarenzheishibixurangzijixianlengjing，buyaodashenghechihaizi。xiaohaizinaoqingxu、fapiqi，youshishidaidianshitanxingzhide，darenbiaoxiandeyuzaihu，takenengyushiguofen。cishi，fumuyinggaixianshenhuxi，youyishudaoshi，pingjingzijideqingxu，wendingxialaizaigentashuohua，zheiyeshijitayigediaozhengqingxudeshijian。

 haizizaixiaodeshihou，wangwanghuiyouyixiezhuguanyishiqizuoyong，ertamendoushibijiaoziwode，suoyiwomenjiuyaocongxiaokaishiyindaopeiyanghaizi，chengweiyigegaoqingshangderen，zhiyoujianghaizipiqibuhaodeyuantoujiqiaduan，zheiyangcainenggouranghaizizhangdayihoubianchengyigewenhederen，yiweidezongrongzhinengranghaizidepiqiyuelaiyuehuai，dajiayidingyaozhuyile。