结婚多年的夫妻闹离婚如何拯救婚姻？

 jiehunduoniandefuqinaolihunruhezhengjiuhunyin？zaihunyinshenghuozhongdangfuqiganqingchuxianwentinaolihun，nvrengairuhezhengjiuhunyinwanhuilaogongdexinni？zaizheilixiaobianfenxiang5gewanhuihunyindefangfa。

1、先给相互理智的時间

 jianxinzaidajiadehunyinshenghuozhong，tazaoyirangnibuzhiyicidegailejiyu。laidaoliyizheiyichengdu，jianxintaduinizhiqianfanxiadeguoshizaoyilaidaowufarongrendeshuiping。

 xianzhongzhiyiqiedesaoraofangfa，jilaotasuoqiangdiaonidebuzhengquehequexian，bubibianbo。jitamenyiduanlizhideshijian，weizijiziwofansideshijian，yeshitarangniliuyougehaoyinxiang。

2、客观找婚姻难题并纠正

 lixingsikaohunyinshenghuozhongbicibenshendenantibingduofangmianjiuzheng，hunyinshenghuowangwanghuimaixiangliyi，henzhongyaodeyuanguqujueyufuqizhongjianqianquexinlai。dangdajiadehunyinshenghuozaochengyulunyali，niweiyibixuzuodeshierbianshixiubudajiadehunyinshenghuoguanxi，yaotishengxinlaixianghu。

3、减少分歧点

 xunzhaozaochengdajiafuqiganqingpoliedeyuanguhounikeyizuodeshirenkezishendebuzhengque，chengzhidiweilingyifangbiaodazishendeqianjiu：“yiwangwohaizainayifangmianzuodebutaihao，tashidoushiwodecuo，wobuxiangzaineiyangganle”……caozonghaozishendeyaoqiu，bingyishentilixingbiaodazishenxiangyaojiuzhengdechengxin。

4、提高有效的沟通的工作能力

 nvxingyizhiqidaizhangfukeyidongta，yinernaxiebiequdoumaixinli，burongyijijigaozhilingyifang。nanrenshijishanghenchihuande，nibushuochuqutashiburongyilejienizaixiangshenme。

 fuqixinyoulingxidesuzaoshiyigoutongjiaoliugangkaishide，jiarudajiashiyouyuzhengchaoerliyi，neimashizhezhegaozhilingyifangnixinlideniantou，rangxianghugengweizhangwo，jinerzhongguiyuhaohehaoruchu。

5、提高自己

女性结婚后非常容易就释放压力对自身的规定，如果你察觉的婚姻生活出現难题的情况下，老婆就应当增强体质运动健身，再次营造人体的曲线图，让自身再次容光焕发信心和风采。