婚姻经营：结婚后感觉不幸福怎么办？

 hunyinjingying：jiehunhouganjuebuxingfuzenmeban？xianshishenghuozhongyouhenduofuqiguozheguozhejiujuedeshijiangjiudehunyinshenghuo，hunhoushenghuokanqilaikuzaofawei，zheigeshihounvshigaizenmezuohaojingyinghunyinni?

一、什么婚后生活该舍弃

1、bingbingbushiyouyuqingganlianggerenerjiehunde

 zairenmendeshenghuoqijuzhong，youyibufenrentongchangmairulehunhoushenghuodeshendian，bingbingbushiyinweitamendeqinggan，huozheshiganqingmeidaodayidingzhangdudeerjicongcongdejiehezaiyiqi。

 kanshangquzheileiqingkuangbuyidingzuizhongquanshigandaolihun，yibanquanshiyinweilianggerendehunqianganqingjichubingbingbushineimedehao，erjiehunyihouduilingyibanyoumeiyouguoduodegerenaihao，yinerzaochenglianggerenlihun。

2、duixiaohaizimeiyouguoduodeganqing

 hunhoushenghuozhongdelianggeren，huiyinweisuosuierqueshaolexinxiangan，tangruoduijialichediqueshixinxin，duixiaohaiziyemeiyouyiqiejiaoliuyugoutong，xiaohaizidekaoshichengjiyebushineimezaiyi，zaixiaohaizishengbingdezhuangkuangxiadoumeiyouzhaoguguanxin，neimezheiyiduanhunhoushenghuokeyifangqile。

3、meiyouzerendehunhoushenghuo

 zuikaishishiyaoduilingyibanyougaoduzhongshihejiatinghuanjingdezeren，youhenduonvshizaihunqiangenbenjiumeiyouduinanrendeshimingganjinxingzhiyezigezheng，ershikandechulailenanrendeqitafangmiandeyoudian，daozhihunhoudechichuanzhuxingmitu。

 duimeiyouzanxuandenvshiduomededepanwangquguanhuaiguanxinde，yingquyudaoneibandehunhoushenghuo，nvrenyaohaobudongyaodequfangkainideshou，meiyoushiminggandenanrenjiuliyingjiaojizishendesuozuodegerenxingweiqufufei。

二、将就的婚姻生活的不良影响

 shuoqicouhedehunhoushenghuo，jieguozhiyouyige，lianggerencouhedehunhoushenghuozishizhizhongbuyikaixinkuaile，bushihedeqinggan，danwusanhaiburujinkuaisan，weiyaobalianggerendefenlichulaizuoweiyizhongdanfu。

 shishishangquanqiuliangtuiderenyouhenduo，meiyoubibukeshaozheiliyikeshushangdiaosi，xunzhaoxinyiduanqinggan，rangbenshendexintaihuanjieyali，buyaozaiweizheizhonghunhoushenghuoerbukaixinle，taduibenshenbudahao，burongzhiyiyoubitaduibenshenhaode。

 tangruodequehunyinbushundehua，wuxujiangjiubenshenzailaiguochulai，shiweixiaohaizichongfenkaolv，yeyouyigedu，bunengrangbenshenmeitiandoushijianaozhongduguo，yaobuyirangbenshenganjuedaohenlei，huirangbenshenyadetoubuguoqi。