人生的修养：学会怎么控制自己的脾气

 nide xingzi ，jueceniderenshengdaolu。rendoushiyouxingzide，meiyousheixiantianxingjiuyouzheyigehaopiqihuoshibaopiqi，jinjinshuozheizhongxingzidoushizaihoutianxingdeshehuifazhanzhongjianjiandimochuqude。xingzirouhederendianjizheruhebaochihaozheiyiqingkuang，erqingxubuwendingderendianjizhejiushishuozenmekongzhizijidexingzi。

一、怎么控制自己的性子

 1、quanjiezishenxianlizhishiduofenzhong。ruoniqueshihenxiangfapiqishi，hebuxinliduizishenshuoyiju“woyidingyaoguanliziji，wobukeyifapiqi，fapiqizhisishangji”，suihoushenxiqi，lizhishiduofenzhongyihouzaizuosisuo，zheishihoujianghuijiumeiyouneimafahuole。

 2、baopiqijiushishuowufakongzhidehuaneimeninenggoulinshiliqu。jiaruqueshiganjuewufakongzhizishendexingzishi，jiulinshiliquyuandibudong，nenggoufanhuizishendewuzi，xiexiyixia，yifangyouyuchengyishizhikuaijibicidoudaozhiduoyudesunhai。

 3、zenmekongzhizijidexingzi，ruguonizaiqitoushangdeneishihounenggoutiaoxuanqianyijizhongzhuyili，zuoyixiezishenpingchangxiaizuodeshier，lirutingyixieqinghuanshufuyinle，kankandianshijuhuoshiyingpiandeng，jizhongzhuyilihuodeleqianyi，qingxudaziranyekeyijianqingyixie。

 4、jidepengyoutongdianhua。zaiqitoushangderendoushihuiyuanyixuanxiede，hebubafapiqidejihuiyongyuzhaodepengyouqingtuyixiaba，shushuozishendebiequyuhenman，depengyouhuizhanzainideguandianshanganweini，suihouninengganjueshixuduorendongwode，xintaihuodelefaxie，qingxudaziranjiuhaodianle。

 5、haopiqidoushijianjiandimochuqude，meiyousheixiantianxingjiushishuoshanjierenyide，jinjintamenlejiecaozongbufapiqidefangshi。ruguonixiangfapiqishi，bibushangchulailiudahuanjiexinlidexintai，dangxinlibuningjingdeneishihou，nenggoudaozhoubiandechengshiguangchangqusansanbu，baochiqingxingyixiafanmendedanao，nongqingshierdesixu，huoxunantijiunengdedaojiejuele。