孩子脾气不好怎么办

 jianghuixuduofumudouzaoyifajuele。zishendexiaobaobaobuzhiweishenmeai xingzi ，jiaruyounaxiebuyanzhetamendeqingyi，tamenjiuhuiyoukuyounao，fapiqi，shenzhishizuochuyixiejiaoweipianjidegerenxingwei，rangfumumenshifendewukenaihe，xuduofumuxianggenggaixiaobaobaozheiyinanti，danshizabanni？

一、小孩脾气不好该怎么办？

1、训导并不是处罚

 xiaohaizifancuowu、wanpideyuanguyouxuduo。zuiguanjiandeshiyaozhangwoqingxixiaohaifancuowudeyuangu。xiaohaijianghuichuziyuduji、jiaolv、pibei、gongzuoyalihuoshicuozheganerfancuowu。shencengcilejiezijideneixinyouliyurenmentiaoxuanshidudixundaofangfa。

2、冷暴力很关键

 niyiweixiaohaizixiangzhezhefapiqi，tashijishangyezaiqiaoqiaodizaiguanchanidefanying。pengdaozheiyangdeshiqing，niyidingyaobaozheng“weiwubunengqu”de。bielita，yaorangxiaohaigaoqingchu，nizaoyikantouletadejiliang，zheiyitaowulunyongle。ciwai，fumumenyaotishizishen，bukeyibeixiaohaidebaopiqiganran，jiaruxiaohaibutingniquandehua，gaozhizishenrendaoqitoushangquanshineiyangde，jitamenyidianlizhideshijianba。

3、由浅入深

 yixiexiaohaijibianzaijinxingyouyiyideshideshiershiyehuikanqilaijizaobuan。yushangzheiyangdeshiqingshi，fumunenggoujixiaohaiduoyixiedejili。jiaruxiaohaihuanshibuxiangyaodongshouzuoquzuo，fumunenggouxiezhuxiaohaiqigezi，suihoujiaoyuhaizizaicixiangxiazuo。

4、不火上加油

 dangxiaohaiqingxufanzaoshi，fumubunuqichongchongdibiwenxiaohaizenmela，yidingyaocaozonghaozishendeqingxu，zishenxianpingjingxialai，yibiantongguoguanchaxiaohai，quedingcunzaidewenti，yibianzhengqueyindaoxiaohaizaixuanxieqingxudeqiantitiaojianxiapingjingxialai。

 guohou，fumuzaizhaoxunshihedejihui，xiangxiaohaimingquetichuqidai，jiaohuixiaohaiqiadangdijiejuezishenqingxudefangshi ，tuidongxiaohaizishenqingxukongzhilidefazhanqushi。

5、迁移集中注意力

 xuduoxiaohaizidouxiaimanbujiangli，xiangzaochengdarendeliuyihuohuodeyixiejiangshang，qianyinhouguoyouxuduo。xiaohaizijiaoweizaiyizishendetihui，jiarumanhengwulidibitajiufandehua，yehuigaodedarenhexiaohaizidoushifenfahuode。jiaoweihaodefangfajiushishuoqianyitadejizhongzhuyili，jitahuiyouxinxiandejuede，youburongyiweifanfumudebiaozhun。

6、zhaogeyouleiboderenlaizhenchang

 xiaohaipingshizuifeichangrongyigenhesheifapiqi？haowuyiwenshinagetengtashuzuiduoderen。zaixiaohaizideneixin，xiangmuqin、laolaozheizhongchangchangzhaoguhaozijiderenquanshijiaoweiyourouguaduande，lejiefapiqishiburongyiyounaxieyanzhongweihai，yincimingmuzhangdan。pengdaozheiyangdeshiqing，nihaiyaoyouqiuyuzheixiequanweirenwu，liruzufu、fuqin，jingchangyiliangjuhuayishuo，xiaohaizijiubaobeiguaiguaicongmingle。

7、怜悯并给予激励

 xiaohaizidexintaizhuangtaibijiaojiandanhedanchunxing，keshiyeshifenmingan，jingbuzhuyidianyanlidaji。liru，yixiexiaohaizihenrenzhendizaipinpintu，keshiwanmingdabantian，doushibai。neiyangjiukeyijianqingxiaohaizixintaizhuangtaidegongzuoyalihekuijiuqingxu。fumulianmindebiaoshunenggoulajinyuxiaohaizizhongjiandejianju，suihoulajinjianjuyihoudeanweishijixiaoguogengqiang。

8、维持理智地教育

 xiaohaizizaiqunzhongchangdinaomaodunshizuilingfumunankandeqingkuangle，keshidarenzheishihouwubirangzishenxianlizhi，bubigaoshenghechixiaohai。xiaohaizinaopiqi、fapiqi，youshihoushidaidiankankantexingde，darenzhuyaobiaoxiandeyuzaiyi，tajianghuiyushitaiguo。zheishi，fumuyingdangxianshenxiqi，youyishudaoshi，ningjingzishendeqingxu，quyuwendingzaigentashuohua，zheidoushijitamenyigediaojieqingxudeshijian。

 xiaohaizaixiaodeneishihou，tongchanghuiyouyixiezhuguanxingguannianqigongxiao，ertamenquanshijiaoweizishende，yincirenmenhaiyaozixiaogangkaishizhengqueyindaogulihaizi，bianchengyigeqingshanggaoderen，zhinengjiangxiaohaipiqibuhaodegenyuanjijianduan，neiyangcaikeyirangxiaohaizhangdahoubianweiyigerouhederen，yiweidefangrenzhiyourangxiaohaidexingziyulaiyuhuai，dahuoeryidingyaoliuyile。