如何改变自己的脾气成就自己更好的性格

 gairuhegaibianzijixingqingni？wojuede，meigerendouyouduizishenbulingrenmanyidediqu，bulunshizishendexingqing，zishenderongmao，huanshizishendexingzi，meigerendounanmianhuiduizheizhongbulingrenmanyi，jiuneixingzieryanba， youderenwuyuanwugunaopiqi，youderenzishenfabuqilaixingzi，neimarenmenyingdangruhegaibianzijidexingzini？neimarenmenjiujinggairuhegaibianzijidexingqingnenggouzulanzishenbunaopiqini？

一、如何改变自己的性子

1、多自问为何

 ruguoniyintarendebuzhengqueerfahuodeneishihou，duoziwenhaoduogeweihe：xubuxuyaofahuo？zheiyibuzhengquejiushiwofandema？huoshizheiyibuzhengqueyuwoxiangguanma？jirangenwowuguan，woxubuxuyaofahuo？weishadeyongzishendekaixinheshenxinjiankanglaiweitarendebuzhengquefuqian？duowenhaoduogeweihe，bazishencongyuwangzhongladaolixingdequanqiu，yongyoulixingdepouxi，nuhuodaziranhuidujue。

2、rangfanyingyouyigehuancun

 renmenfahuoquanshiyishunjianbaofa，jiandaotarenfancuowu，likeborandanu。wojuederenmenyingdangbianhuanrenmendefanyingshijian，laigehuancun，duoweizijimouxie“xiangyixiaxia”huoshi“denghuier”dejiyu，bubirangzishenshenxiannagexiayishidefahuokunju，neiyangjiunengjianjiandixuehaoguanlizijidexintai。

3、rangpenyoulaitishizishen

 xintaidecaozongshimeibanfade，feichangshidangzheizhongxintaidexuanxiebianchengzheizhongxiguanxing、zheizhongtiaojianfansheshi，gengshiruci。yinci，yaorangzishendedepengyoutishizishen。dangzishenyaofahuoshi，penyoudezhenchengtishihuirangni1gekeguandesisuokongxi，rangniyaofahuodeyuwangzhongtingyixiaxia，niqiahaonenggoujiezheiyijiyu，yazheyizhenzideyuwang。

4、善待自己

 jinguanrenfeishengxian，keshizaiquehandezishendoushiyuzhongbutongde，yincirenmenyaojienazheiyiquehandezishen，shandaiziji，guanzhuzishen。zhenshishandaizijiguanzhuzishenderen，shiburongyiyouyutarendebuzhengqueersuibianfahuode，youyufahuozuizhongshanghaidehuanshizishen。1gezhenshishandaizijiderenyaogaoqingchu，shandaizijihaiyaojienatarendequehan，kuanrongbierendebuzhengque。

二、如何改变自己性情？

1、自我暗示

 zaiyuanyigenggaidexingqingdequanguochengzhong，weizijichongzudeziwoanshi。ninengbianweiniyuanyibianchengdeneiren。zheidoushi“ziwojiazhideyuyan”jizhidefanying。

 yijuziwojiazhiyuyanjichulilun，zuishaorenmennenggoushuo，niduizishenhaodeqidaizhiheyilianchuanchaozheiyiqidaizhiyindaochudegerenxingweijiangshizuiguanjiande。jianjiandidenijiuhuifaxiannizhengtiejinnilixianghuazhongdeneiren。neiyang1gelianghaodeziwojiazhidequanjiuchanshengle。

2、genggaiyishizhuxingziranhuanjing

 yuanyixinggewaixiangjiuduodaoherenxiangchudeziranhuanjing，naizhibizishenjindaojuedi（tingshuogantuixiaochanpingongzuozhongshi1gefeichanghaodetiaoxuan）。yuanyiyuelaiyuexinizenenggouxueqin，shufalianzi，mozishendepiqi，naizhihaidezishenjijiangfengdiao。

3、chengdangenggaiquanguochengzhongdetongchu

 meizheizhonggenggaiquanshinanshoude，tebieshizaishixingqingzhuanbianzheileishangjindonggudezhuanbian，rutongqieduangugezaicijiehaoxiangtong。yinci，yuanyigenggaideqiantitiaojianshiyouchongzudequdongli。qudonglichongzuzehuishibeigongban。zheidoushixintaifudaohenpubiandenanti，xuduorenyuanyigenggai，keshiqudonglibugou，yinershijixiaoguoyeburongyixianzhu。

 jinguanwuxu“touxuanliang，zhuicigu”，keshigaibianxianzhuangzhangqixingguoqudeyishizhuxingqingkuanghexiguanxing，tashi1gebirentizaoshoutongchuhaigengtongchudeshier。youyuxintaidetongtengjiyiliyuanyuandibirentidetongtengjiyililingrentongchu。

4、jianchibuxie，jianchibuxie，zaijianchibuxie

zheiyidianhenduorenbanshiqudechenggongdebiaozhun，lingwaidoushixingqinggenggaideguanjianyaosu。

 meiyoushijianliangdeleijishiwufadaozhixingqingzhangqixinggenggaide。yushengjulaidehehoutianxingriyebutingsuzaodexingqing，xiangzaiyiyue，liangyuegenggai，guoyibuqu，zheibingbushijianfeishoushen。tashibutaikenengde。chongzudeshijiannenggoujiniderendedanaoherentimanmanrongrugenghaodeshenghuofangfahexingzhuang。