男生和女孩子聊天的技巧

 henvhaiziliaotian dejiqiaoyounaxie?xuduoxiangxiaozxiangtongburongyihenvxingxianliaodedixiongchangyou1getihui：neibianshizongsuanlejiele1gexiaidenvxing，weitataoqian、taoxintaofei，youdedixiongnaizhiweixinyidenvxingnulilezishensuoyoudeshijian、huoli、qiancaiyuaidedongneng。duinvshengbiaobaidehuayaozenmeshuo?

“henhaode，keshirenmenyouwenti”

“baoqiannibushiwoxiaidezhonglei。”

“henhaode，danwoduiniqueshibingbushinanyoudejuede”。

“buhuiliaotian” jinidenulizaizuixihuandenvxingyanzhongyuelaiyuebianyi。

 “xuehaoxianliao”duinidaibiaoshenme?niyexujinjinxiangxuexipeixunxieliaotiandejiqiao，dumouxiejingcaishili，yexushibushixiangguoninenggenjuxuexipeixunliaotiandejiqiaochedibawonvhaidexintai，naizhininenggenjuxianliao rangnvxingfengkuangaishangleni，yibeizifeinibujia。

 wohaizaixiangjindepouxilequanbuxiaozhezheiyinvhaideweixinliaotianjiluhou，fajuexiaozzongshiduinvhaizibiaobai，shizhongzaisuoyaonvhaideganqingshiyongjiazhi，jinvhaisongliwu。qumeiyouqueshirenzhenyudongnaojinquzhangwonvhaideyaoqiu。xianliaozhongmeiyoutiaodou，meiyoulequ。 meifajinvxingtayuanyideganqingyulequganshou。

 bingqiangdiaolexiaozxianliaozhongdenantihou，xiaozrumengchuxing。guannianlaidaoxianliaoshibixuxuexipeixundegongzuonengli，yinciwoyongxindejiaoshoujitaqiadangdexianliaofangshi。xiaozjiunawodefangshijiqizaiwodeshaguashijutizhidaoxiaqudechenggongde“naxiale”taxiaidenvwang。

 kaolvpianshuwomeifazheilijinxingjidixiongmenjiang。woyetiaozaiqizhongdehaoduogezhongzhongzhizhong，gongxiangjidixiongmen。henvhaiziliaotiandejiqiaoyounaxie?

一、 聊天的话题

 100genanshengzhong，you90gebuhuiliaotian，90gebuhuiliaotiandeyou80geyouyuxianliaomeiyouhuatitaolun。meiduanshufukaixindexianliaoquanguochenggenju1gelingyifanghenganxingqudehuatitaolun，ruguonibukeyixuehaojiehua，shencengciyanshenhuatitaolunshi，jiumeifayulingyifangzaochenglianjie，nvhaiyeburongyiduinizaochengxingquaihao，shencengcizhangwo。

举个背面事例：

 shifoujuededaohenlejie?jianxinxuduoxiongdibixuyefanguoneiyangdebuzhengque。 dangmeizhizaoyipaochuquzishendexingquaihaozhibiaozhihuatitaolunshi ，niquemeiyoujiehao，fandaoliaobiedede，erqiedanglingyifangbiaodafourenshi，haishifenqizhizhui，chuimaoqiuci。dangnineimeganle，nvhaizuizhongduinidehuiyingyebixuhenshengsemeiyouwendu。

zaijugequdechenggongshili：

 hemeizhixianliaojilaoyaoyutabiaoshuyiyangdetihui，yejiushishuogongmingdian，zaipaochuqunidedujiadailidizhi，neiyangjiuqudechenggongdexiyinlingyifang，erqiehairangmeizhizishenzaidupaochuqu1gehuatitaolunxingquaihaodian。duinvshengbiaobaidehuayaozenmeshuo?

 huoxu，benshendeqinshenjinglihehuatitaolunjidiandoushimianbulede。keyishoujimouxieduangushi，huoshibaoxiaoshipin。rujintinghuode“douyinduanshipin”、xinlangweibo，libianchangyoushifenxiangguandeshipin，zheizhongnenggouweidajiadexianliaogoujianheshideqifen。

二、 闲聊气氛

 nannvpengyoudegoutongjiaoliuzuiguanjiandeshixintaidechuansong，yixienanhaizi，xiangzaizishenxiaidenvhaiyanqianzhuyaobiaoxianzishen，yincikankanertandexushuyiduishengsededaoli。naizhiyixienanhaizi，zaixianliaodeneishihouzhuyaobiaoxiandehenqianghan，xiguanxingshiyanvhai。shuochuqudehua，zongyouzhongzhisangmahuaidejuede。neiyang，zongshiyulaiyudiaoyuanniyumeizhijiandeguanlian。

yaomingbai， xinongzhongjiubishiyagengnengxiyinnvsheng。

 xianliaoqifenzhenghaodeneishihou，ninengshidudexinongnvhai，chuansongzheizhongnuanweidexintai，gengfeichangrongyishidajialiangrendexinaijin。xianliaobubitaidaiban，yebubiluanjiache，yizhengyixiedeninenghenhuobao。

三 、 正确引导女孩心态

 renmenzaichuangjianheshidexianliaoqifenyihou，yaomingbaituokuanhuatitaolun，banvhaidexintaidaoxiangxingniderenshengguanhuozhenidebenrenfengcaihegerengushishang，jinerrangtaduinizaochengxingquaihao，xiangyaowanghoumiangenjinidaliangdebingji，jinermishangxianliao，aishanglenizheiyiren。

举个简易的事例：

 banvhaidexintaiqiadangdeqianyidaotahenganxingquerqienishanyudexingye，dajiadexianliaojiuhuiyouzhidefeiyue。nvhaixiantianxingjiushishuoxintaidexiaodongwu，yeshizhuomobuding。

 zheiyineishihou，renmenjiubixuzhengqueyindaonvhaidexintai，zaichuangjianyouliangdexianliaoqifenyihou，renmenzuodejiushishuobixuchengxianzishendefengcai，bajingdiangushiwangzishenderenshengguanhuoshigerenchengzhangjinglishangzhengqueyindao，rangnvhaiduinizaochengzanyang，gankai，naizhiqinpeizhiqingjiushishuozuiqudechenggongde。

 jinridegongxiangjiudaozheierle，jiandaozheiernibixuyouyidingdeganshou，yingdanglejieganqingwojuedebuhuitainanyouzhe，xiaidemeizhihaikeyiwomenzaiyiqi，danshizheirenhebixukanzhenidexintai，jiaruniyaoguogenggai，renhedoubingbushinanti。

◇ 成长方案 ◇

genggaizhinanshuaigeluojisiwei，bubituobubideng，jiucongjintiankaishi：

 renmenyibianxiezhuzhongduozhinanshuaigejiejuezhinanshuaigeluojisiwei，chaochu20minglaoshi、xiaohao360gezhouye，guina10nianxianliaogongzuojingyan，kexueyanjiule 3000gelianqingshili ，tilian zuiheli、zuiyidong、zuishounvhaireliehuanying de xianliao、lianqing、zhuinvshengjiqiao 。

 zaikechengneirongzhong，genjuzhenzhengshilishifanxing，jinixuetigaoxiuyang，cong“liao”gangkaishijiejuezhinanshuaigeluojisiwei，suihouxiangchudaonvyou。kechengneirongbaokuoletigaoluojisiwei、jiejuecuowuguandiandelejie，zhenduishejiaomeiti、qingshangzhishang，paoniuzhuiqiunvshengyouxinghuadelejie，erqie congchucijianmiandaoyaoqingzaidaomingqueguanlian quanbubuzhouzhongchangbixudexianliaofangshi。