如何追女孩？追男同事要怎么做？

 ruhezhuinvhai ?zaigongzuozhongdeziranhuanjingzhong，wojuedefeichangrongyibuzhibujuejiubeipengyounuligongzuodemoyangxiyinzhule，jiaruxiaidaoleyikuaiergongzuozhongdenantongshi，qianwanbiexiuse，xiabianlailaijiaodahuoeryingdangruhezhuiba。

1.以工作中为托词。

 ruhezhuinvhai?renmenyingdangxuxianzhangwolingyifangdezhuangkuang，liru，duinvshengeryan，xiaidaole1genantongshi，nenggoujijiquzhuiqiuwanmei，youjuhuachengweinvzhuinangecengsha，yineryaoyou，xianconggongzuozhongxiashou，zaiyouqianrushen。

2.欢聚一块儿上下班。

 renmennenggouhenantongshihuanjuyikuaiershangxiaban，neiyangdejiyubixuzishenzaojiu，jiaruliangrendeshangxiabanxianluyoubingji，jiunenggoumingquetichushundaoyikuaiershangxiaban，suihou，zouzailushangnenggouyoudaliangxianliaodejiyu，doushidulichupengdejiyu。

3.duoquqiujiaogongzuozhong。

 zhuinvhaizidehuayaozenmezuo?zhenduigongzuofangmiandeshier，renmenyingdangduoquqiujiao，jiranshipengyou，xuduoneishihoudoujianghuiyougongzuofangmiandebingji，tayehuiguanxinnidejinzhanqingkuangzhuangkuang，dangnidegongzuozhongchuxianlenanti，nenggouduoqiujiao，tayingdanghuizhiwubuyan。

4.欢聚一块儿加班加点。

 zhuinvhaizidehuayaozenmezuo?jiaruqiyeyoujiabanjiadiandemeirirenwu，renmennenggouyutahuanjuzai1geshijiandianyikuaierjiabanjiadian，jiabanjiadianshiyiqiezhengchangdegongzuozhong，genjujiabanjiadian，haikeyizaojiuchuxuduoliangrendulichupengdejiyu，jinkegongtuikeshou，fangzhinankan。

5.留意由浅入深。

 qinggandeshishibukeyixinjide，yinci，bixuyaokongzhu，bujigongjinli，feichangshinvsheng，bixuyaoheai，qingganshangdeshier，yaozhangwozhangwofencundenanti，yaoshisuzaochuleqinggan，huoxujiuhuimingzhengyanshun。

6.礼拜天能够欢聚。

 zenyangzhuinvhaibijiaohao?renmennenggouyunyonglibaitiandeshijian，tongshiyikuaierhuanjuyongcanhuoshibiedexiuxianhuodong，zheidoushishifenyiqiezhengchangdeshier，pengyouzhongjianyikuaierchigefanmeiyoushenme，jinjinweizijiyigebanchupengduozhangwodejiyu，jiazhongyinxiang。

7.塑造共同话题。

 renmenmeigerendouyouzishendegerenaihao，tashishifenshiqing，jiarurenmenzhidaotadexihao，biaozhunyeshirongxudezhuangkuangxia，jiuyingdangqinfenqusuzao，rangliangrenyougongtonghuatizhihou，nenggouzoudegengjin。

 xiaishangnantongshigaizenmeban 1.gaiganshenmeganshenme，hezishenaiderenyiranweichipengyouguanlian，jiudangnaxieshieryemeiyouchanshengxiangtong。wojuedeganqingzheileiwupin，zaijindaochuruzhichang、jindaoshehuifazhanzhihou，ganqingjiumeiyouhuaxuewuzhiguanjian，jiusuanshinvhaidoushizheiban。zenyangzhuinvhaibijiaohao?tangruosuozaidanweifeichanghao，erqiyeyouyanjinlianqingdehua，zhiyoushijiazhuangyipiankongbaichansheng，jiangzishendeganqingyanmaixinli。

 2.qiyerongxunannvguanxide，keshizishenguishuyujiaoweineixiangxingdenvshi，neimanenggouguancha，kanyixiazishenmishangdezheiyinantongshishifouqueshizuigaizishennulizhenxinshiyi，zhongjiudahuoerguishuyutong1zudezuyuan，guanchaqilaiyejiaoweibianjie，richangshenghuohuozhegongzuoshangdemouxiesuoshijiunengkandechu1gerendegexinghedairenjiewu，jianjienenggoukandechuzijideweiren。

 3.qiyerongxunannvguanxi，zishendoushijiaoweiyingyong、kailangjijizhudongdenvhai，neimanenggoulijixiangzishenxiaidenantongshigaobai，wulunjieguozenyang，qimaburongyiweizijiliuyouquehan。ganqingjiuzheiyang，ruguocuoguolejiumeibanfazaipengdao，jiusuanlingyifangshizishenshenpangshenbiandepengyou，yejianghuihuisangshizheileijuede，yinci，lijibiaoshuganqingdoushizheizhongchuliguocheng。

 4.qiyerongxukaigongsilianqing，keshizishenhaibuquedingxingzishenshibushiqueshinenggouhetazaiyiqi，neimahebujianjiedezhangwoqingxi，lirutaweirenzenyang，zailirutaruhekandaiaiqingyuhunyin，yeyoutashibushiyoulingyibanzheixie，zheizhongquanshibixuzhangwode，youxuduorenzaizhichangzhongbuxiangyaogongbuzishenshibushitanlianaile，bubimangmugenfeng，qimalejietashidanshennannvzaimingquezhihoudeshier。

 5.jiarulingyifangzaoyitanlianaile，neimawuluntamenqingganshibushihao，yewulunzheiyizishenmishangdenantongshishibushiduizishenyouxin，doububizuohuihuaitarenqinggandedisanzhe，jiusuantaxiangnigaobaiyebubijiena，zhizhilingyifangxiufudanshennannvcaixing。