怎样追女孩子才少走弯路？

 zenmezhuinvhai ?xiangyaoqiangdiaodeshi：yuanyibiancheng1gepaoniugaoshoude1gexianjuetiaojianjiushishuoyaoyouqiadangdexuexidefangfa，lingyige1geshinidexinxin，xinxinjiushiwobukeyirangnide;keshiqiadangdexuexidefangfaweixiaogeshinenggouchushide，jinridejiqiaodoushijinjinweiraozheiyijidahuoershushuo：zenmezhuinvhai?

 nannvguanxilibianshiyoubixudeguilvxing，renmenyaoshibawole，jiuhuifeichangrongyidehuodenvrendexin，zainvxingzhongjiandexinyingshou，gengweizhongyaodeshinidemingbaizaiqizhongdemimi。keshi，xiangyaonidexinxin，xiangyaonidexuexipeixun，xiangyaonidejianchibuxie。zenyangzhuinvhaizi?

一、学习培训基础知识

 jichuzhishijiushinipaomeizidejiben，lejienaxiebuyaozuo，yingdangganshenme;shenmeyuanyinzuoshashishizuizhongyaode，biekanjiuzheiyijuhua，keshinenggaohaotaiburongyi。

nizuibixunongdongdenanti：

 1、zuipubiandebukeyifancuo：yaoqiugandepulu，gaobai，songli，meiyoushangjinxin，yongxiaoshouhuashupaomeizi，tingnvxingdehua，chixudezhuiqiunvxingzheixie。

 2、paomeizidejichubuzhou：zhanxianzishen——fenbianduihuakuang——chuangjianlejiegan——tuidongguanlian(jinnuo)——mingqueguanlian。zheilibiandeliuchengbubiraoguomouyibukaizhanxiayijieduan，neihuishiniwufazhuishangmeizhi;neibumeigaohao，jiuzaicidezuo。

 biaoshu：zaipaomeizidequanguochengzhongyaoshibufancuonijiushishuohaiyoujihuinadaomeizhide;lejiezhuinvshengdeliuchenghebuzhou，renshizijihemeizhidaonayibule，huirangniqingchudegousi。yinci，zhei2geworenweishifendezhongyao。

二、实践活动

 shijianhuodongshishifenzhongyaodeyibu，tanengbangnigaizhengyiqianbuzhengquedejichulilun，xiezhunigengweikegumingxindelejiejichuzhishi。keshirenmenjuedaduoshudedixiongjiushishuoqianqueneibu，kanguo1nianduodejichulilun，quandoulejie，keshi，nimeiqushijianhuodong。yinci，zhenduipaomeizidelejiebukegumingxin，jinjinzhiliuzaibiaoceng，nvxingdemouxielinshixingdegerenxingweinidoubulejie;suizhishiqidezhuanbian，nvxingyezaizhuanbianniyebuqingchu;bushijianhuodongzhenduinipaomeizishishifendebuliangyingxiang。

三、工作经验的小结

 zenyangzhuinvhaizi?　yiqiechenggongrenshiquanshihuichixudequxiaojiezishendechucuo，buchenggong，renquanshizaichixubuchenggongdelumianshang，jianjiandimaixiangqudechenggong。guangquzuo，meiquxiaojie，zongshixiangwuguanwenchongluancuan，yongwupantou。

 zheicixianliao，meizhimeiliwoleshishenmeyuanyinzhaochuqu;xiayihuiyouhui，ruheyipengmianjiubeidaqiangshifouzishendepinpaixingxiangchunantile?weihehemeizhiliaolezheimeduonianguanlianhaihuimeiyoujindu，shifoumeiyoutuidongdajiaxianghuguanxi?zheixie，hemeizhijiaowangyihui，jiudexiaojieyihui，haodeyaoweichi，zuoshiquweidedaoshihouliuyi。zenyangzhuinvhaizi?