怎么和女生聊天才能不尬聊？

 nanhaizi ruhehenvhailiaotian ?xuduodixiongzaihenvshengxianliaoshiwulunshikaijuhuanshihuatitaolun，huoshishishengjiguanliandoukaizhandeyituanzao。xiang1gemeitoudewenchongsichuluancuan，neiyangdejieguojiuzaochengmeizhibuxihuanyunixianliaojianjiandingaelengmoni。xuduodedixiongyouyubuhuiliaotian，yuanbenqianqilejiechupengduitajudaxingquaihaodemeizhilengmota，liaotianliaotianjiubuxihuanhuiyingle，naizhishuorenmengengheshizuopenyoufahaorenkagengbijiaoyanzhongdejiujiaruheimingdan。

 shangbianxianliaoneirongdebuzhengquequjueyu：genjutichuwentidefangfahenvhaidakaihuatitaolun，bumingbaichixuhuatitaolun。bieyiweinenggougenjulejiedefangfaquzhangwonvhai，zaochenghudongjiaoliu，dantashibuzhengquedesiweimoshi。 woshifenlejieneiweidixiongdeliaotianfangshi，zhongjiurenmendoushiduixiairenhuoshiwuerzaochenghaoqixin，yuanyigenjulejielaizhangwo。yaolejie，zhikaozhangwolingyifangbingbukeyiqudechenggongdezhuishangta，weiyounizhanshichunideshiyongjiazhi，tacaihuibeinixiyinzhu。

 qiadanggennvhaixianliaodefangfashi，bawennvhaidenantizhuanhuachengzheizhongquweidefangshi。liru：nizaiganshenme?nenggouhuanwei：“zaiganmani，wocaishibushinizaibuyishafashangxiumaotui”?(jiashenvhaizaizuoshier) huoshishi：“nizaiganmani，huranganjueyoudianerxiangzheni，yuanbenganjuexiangrenshijianhenwuqudeshier，danshibuzhiweishenmehuanshixiangnile”。(zhanxianduinvhaidexingquaihao) neiyangdekaichangci，shifouyaobinilijiwennvhaizaiganshenmeyaoyouquduole?neiyangninenggougenbiedenanhaizizaochengchabie，rangnvhaijuedenihenyouqu。 neimachukaikaichangciyaojingcaizhiwai，niyaobixuzaihoubiandexianliaozhizhongquzhanxianzishendeshiyongjiazhi，laitishengduinvhaideyouhuoli。ruguonideshiyongjiazhihehunvhaideguidingshi，tabianhuixiaixihuanni。renmenxianjiang，ruhegenjuxianliaozhanxianzishendeshiyongjiazhi。

genjuxianliaozhanxianzishendeshiyongjiazhi

 nvhaihuigenjuxianliaozhongdesigefangmianqufenbiannanrendeshiyongjiazhi，zheiyishiyongjiazhibingfeirenmenshuodeshiduoshaoqiancai。zheisigefangmiangezishijiagou、qingkuang、xitongruanjian、fangfa。 zheierpobudeyitijinlp，zainlpshenjingxitongchengxuliuchengyuyanxuezhong，zhishitijilejiagouheqingkuang2gedingyi，zaixiyinzhumeizhizhong，xitongruanjianhefangfayiyangshiguanjiandegoucheng。

 neima，gennvhaixianliaodeneishihouzenyangquzhanxianzishendeshiyongjiazhini?renmencongshangbiandeliaotianduihuazhizhongnenggoukandechu，neiweidixiongbingmeiyouxiangnvhaichuansongyiqieziwojiazhi，nvhaimeifacongtadeyuyanzhongfenbiantadeshiyongjiazhi。 erjuedaduoshunvhaiyeshichuzaipugongshehuifazhanlunlidaode，taburongyijijidequxunwenni，yincijiubixurenmenjijidexiangnvhaizhanxian，keshiniyizhizaizhanxianbenshenshiyongjiazhideneishihoubixuzhuyaobiaoxiandedaziran，bubitailijihuoshishibazishenchuilaotianye，neiyangniyiyanghuibeinvhaipassdiao，yaolejiebuzhangyangsuanshizuilihaidexianbai。

 yibianjidahuoerxunsuxuehaoxianliaoxunsuzhuishangaideren，wojidahuoertiqianzhunbeilezheifenlipin!wonengjingcaizaishoujiweixindepenyouquanzhongfaxuduoquweideliaotiandehuati，hexuduonvhaihenganxingqudehuatitaolun!dangnibuhuiliaotian?xianliaonankan，zhaobuzhehuatitaolun?ninenglijizaijiawodeweixin#shoujiweixin#，zaiwoshoujiweixindepenyouquanzhong，ninenggoukanjianxuduoquweideliaotiandehuatihenvhaihenganxingqudehuatitaolun，wodouhuibawohemeinvdeshizhanyanlianxianliaoshilifazhiwodeweixindepenyouquanzhong，jidajiaxuexipeixuncanzhao jiexiaqujidahuoerzhanxianyixiaxiazhuyaoneirong

架构:

 zainlpshenjingxitongchengxuliuchengyuyanxuezhongdebiaoshu：jiagoujiushizhizijiyanxingjuzhishenhoudeyanwaizhiyi，yanwaizhiyideqiangshishuiping，lijixiangdangyujiagoudegaodishuiping。yonggengzhijiedehuashuo，zijirangbudenanduxishushuipingjiushishuojiagou。

举例说明：

nv：nifalaigedahongbaobei。

 nan：haoya，woyoubingbushi1gekoumenderen，danwoxiangyaoxunwenni1genanti，nigenwoshuonidequancheng，woyefaledahongbaorangni。

 nvhaiyoushixiaixiangnanhaizisuoyaoshiyongjiazhi，keshinihewoganglejiebujiu，yincinijianghuihuijuedetadeguidingbukexue，zheiyineishihouniyingdangyiwuyaoqiudezishiyouxiaodehuijueta，yiqixianrangnvhaikaolvnideguidingzaiqukaolvtadesuoyao，neiyangjiuchengxianzishendejiagouhegaoshiyongjiazhi，zhengshinibingbushi1gesuiyijiucongmingdenansheng。

nv：niweihemeitiandouyaowo?

nan：youyujuedenihenquwei(duiniyouganjue)

 jianxinjuedaduoshudixiongdoubeiwenguozheiyinanti，erqiezaiyingduizheiyinantideneishihou，jibenshangdouxiangshangbianxiangtongtarenwennaxienihuiyingnaxie。 congluojixingshijiaolaikan，zheijiushishuonanshengdianxingxingdesiweiluojiluojisiwei，woshifenlejiedajiaxiangbiaoshujinvhaizishendexinli，keshizheileiliaotianfangshi，bumianhuiyixierouruo，huirangnvhaiganjuenihenmeiyoujiagou，nvhaineimexunwenniwojuedejiushishuozheizhongjiance，zaijianceniduitadeqingkuang。

 neiyouxiongdihuishuozheibingbushigehaoshierma，wolijijiangguoqiahaojianjixingshile，biaoshuqingyijiunengyiqile，kekeguanshishiwoxiangyaodajianeiyanghuiyingyihoujuedaduoshushizaohuanongrenba，wojuedenvhaineimexunwenni，shijiyiyijianghuishilaizhengshizishendefengcai，congnishoushangxunzhaozheizhongyouyueganbale，danlingyifanglejieanpaizhihouhuiganjuenimeiyouhanyile。

 huanzheizhongniantoujiarulingyifangxurongxinhenqiang，xuduonanshengdoufushouchengchen，jiushishuozainiyanqian，meifanaxiani，neilingyifangshifouzhengfu2yujiulaila，zheijiushishuorenmenchangshuodebubijindaonvxingdejiance，ranglingyifangmobutou，buqingchucankaodaantongchanghuijiazhongxiyinzhu。 renmendexueshengzaiyingduizheileinantideneishihou，tongchanghuitiaoxuanneiyangdezuofa：

 zainvhaijiancenideneishihoububidierunvhaide“quantao”li。keshi，xuduodixiongquemeiyouzheiyiguannian，huanshishizhongruyidewanglimianzuan，ruguonipengdaozheizhongqingkuangdeneishihounikeyilikepingjingxialai，dianjizhezenyangtiaochulainvhaixunwennidezheiyinanti，erqie，huanweiweichizishenjiagoudehuiyingfangfa，erbingbushiyanzhetadehuatitaolunwangxiachen，zheijiushishuo“tiaoyuexingsiwei”deguanjian。

 congshangbiandehuihua，renmennenggoulijikandechutiaoyuexingsiweideshiyongfangfa，jiqichixujinvhaishengchanzhizaoqiuzhiyu，laiyouhuonvhaijindaonijiagoudebuzhou，dangniyanzhenvhaidehuatitaolunhuiying，huirangnvhaiganjuenidexingqingbuzuqiangshi，meiyoushangjinxin，quefajinvhaizheizhongguishuganhelingzhegongzuonengli。

 jiagoudoushizheizhonggaoshiyongjiazhidezhuyaobiaoxian，nijiuhuifaxian，qiyelidezhigongdabufenquanshiwutiaojianfucongdingtoushangsishuodehua，jiarudingtoushangsiyuanyishixing1gexinxiangmu，neimadabufenyemeirenhuichuqudizhi，youyutadongdeduo，yuelifengfu。 zainvxingyanqianyouzishendeluojisiweihekanfa，xuexipeixunmouxienvhaibuqingchudewupinbingzhanxianchuqu，jianchibuxiezishendedaodedixianhexintai，zaigenjushiyalingyifangtaigaoziji，nvhaijiuhuibeinizhengfu2，zheijiushishuojiagoudebiyaoxing。

 xianliaodeneishihou，genjujianyidehuatitaolun，xunzhaoshihedejiyu，xunsutuidongliangrendeguanlian!zheisuanshihelixianliao!meitianzongshiguanzhulingyifang，yishengniyezhuibushangta!xiangqidaliangjingcaidehenvxingxianliaodeweixinliaotianjilu，ninenglijijiawoshoujiweixin#shoujiweixin#，wonengjingcaizaiwoweixinfapengyouquanfayoumouxiewohemeinvdejingcaiweixinliaotianjilu，libianyouhenduodeliaotiandehuatihenvhaihenganxingqudehuatitaolun!jiawoshoujiweixinkanyixiadashenshiruhegennvhaixianliaode，nulixuexiyixiaxia。

情况

 paoniushujishizenmeyang?ruhezhuinvhai?qingkuangdezhuyaobiaoxianhuigenjunideyuyan，nidegerenxingweizhanxianchuqu，zheiyidoushinvhaizixiguancha，kanzhenishibushi1gehehutaguidingdenansheng。paoniushujishizenmeyang?renmenyaolejiemeizhidouhuishuowohenxihuanxxx，wohenxihuanshengaogaode，wohenxihuanchuanbaisechenyipiaoliangde，zheizhongquanshimeizhideguifan。

 dantongchangzhenshinengxiyinzhumeizhide，jiushinidegexinghua，ruguoniyouyuzhongbutonggexinghuadeneishihou，zheijiushishuozheizhonggenqianbuxianggandegaoshiyongjiazhi。keshixuduodixiongmenzaiqingkuangshang，meiyouzhuyaobiaoxianchuzishendegaoshiyongjiazhi，zhishishifenrouruo，xunzhaolingyifangjianyideng，qingbuzijindejiupubiancunzaizishendequefazixin，xiabiankeyikanshili：

 genjushangbiandehuihua，renmennenggoukandechunanhaizimeiyouzishendeshangjinxin，shizhongzhengxunnvhaidejianyi，neiyangjiuhenxianzhudepubiancunzaibuzuxinxindeqingkuang，henpatitazuojuece。 wojuedeyuanbenjiushishuozheijianbudadeshier，jiarubanitadaihuijiazaizengjinvhai，gaozhitabubineimadiusanluosi，nongdiulekejiubutaihaole。nvhaifandaohuiganxieni。 yexuyounenggouyikaozheiyijiyushuomeishier，daoshihouqingwoheyibeixianmokafeikeyile，kaizhanyaoqing。nvhaiyeshiconglingyige1geshijiao，fenbianchuniyeshi1gehenzixihentiexindenansheng。

维持自身

 jianghui，xuduodixiongdoubeinvhaiwenguo“niyizhizaizhaoshuwo”biaoming，renmenzaiqingganjiaoyuchuzhongdaodewupinqiletingdadeshijixiaoguo。 keshi，xuduodixiongwurenwei，nvhaishenhoudehanyijiushinidezhaoshubeifajuele，neixinhenxu，palingyifangtaoyanzishen，deshixinlaile。bianyouxiufulezhiqiandesibanxianliaofangshiruhezhuinvhai?。jieguohuanshibeinvhaipass，xiabiankeyikanshili： nvhaihuiganjueyuanbenhaitingquweide，ruheyouyaoyongxinleni，wogenniyaobingbushitaishu。wojuedezainvhaishuoshoujuhuadeneishihou，tayineineixindeniantoushishifenhuoyuexinghejidongde，tajianghuishichuciyujiannizheileihenyouxiuderen，yincitacaihuichuxianzheiju。

 zheiyineishihouxuduodixionghaowuyiwenrenweiwocao，shifoutaiyiguo，wohuanshishoulianxingyidianerba。suihoubianhuanleshejifengge，keshinvhaiqueduizheigeneishihouyongxinbingbuganxingqu，yuanbenzaoyishanglaidexintaiyoudierudichaoqi。 jiaruniyizhizaixianliaozhongquefalewanzhengxingdehua，huirangnvhaiduiniyiqiandailaitadeyinxiangzaochengtichuzhiyi，nibingmeiyoujianchibuxiezishendebiaozhun，ruguolingyifangganenhuikuini，woyeyouyulingyifangdehuachanshenggenggai。juedezishenrujinxianliaodelingyibanheyiqianbutong，jieguoyoufanhuilezhiqian。

 huoxuyouguandaliangxianliao，ruhetigaozijideqingshangzhishang，rangzishenbiandeyuelaiyueyoufengcaiheyouhuoli，qinglijijiayugedeshoujiweixin，renmen1dui1duinishuoruhequzuo。huoxuhaikeyixuexipeixunwoweixinfapengyouquanmeirihuishengjideliaotiandejiqiaoheqiadanghenvshengjiaowangdefangfa，qutigaoniyunvshengjiaowang、xianliaodeshuizhun!zenmehenvshengliaotian?

 zheizhongfangfahefangshi ，jinjinyugeneibukechengneirongdemouxiezuichangjiandefangfa，yejinjinzaiqizhongdebingshanyijiao。jianghuinidouwensuoweiwen，jiansuoweijian。keshizheizhongyebuguanjian，guanjiandenikeyilaixuexipeixungenggaima? benwenlaidaozheieryejinxingletadezhongren，jiaru，niyaoxuexipeixunxunsu，genghelidenadaonvwangdefangshi ，nenggoulaitianjiawodeneibukechengneirong。keshiwoxianzaiyingdangzhidaobuhuiliaotianshibixuxitongruanjiandexuexipeixunde。jiaru，dixiongnibuhuiliaotianxiajuexinyuanyixuexipeixunxianliaole，lijihuodeyugedeshoujiweixin，dianyixia#shoujiweixin#lijiheyugefa3gezi---woxiangxue

怎样提高

 zenmehenvshengliaotian?dixiong，nikeyicongdatoushizhongjiandaozheier，neimachibanglaoshijianxin，nihaowuyiwenshineileiyuanyixunsujianchixiaqu，xunsutigaozijidelianaishuizhun。 huoxunihennanchibuxiaohenvshengxianliaoyizhiliaosi，huoxunibuyuanmeiyicichulaihenvshengyouhuiyemeiyoujieguo，huoxuniyaotigaoziji、rangzishenyuelaiyuegengqiang。zheizhongnantizhenduimeishenmelianaijingyandenieryan，jianghuihuimeibanfa。

keshiyugehenchengdandeduinishuo，quandoubingbushinanti，guanjiandenishibushihehuyixiaxiade3gebiaozhun：

1.nibixuyaoxiajuexinqugaibianxianzhuang，rangzishenyuelaiyuegengqiang

2.xiangyaoweizijixiangmutouzi，erbingbushizhilejiejinvxingtaoqian

3.keyixianghupeihelaoshi，youtuanduizhixingli，youyizhili，erbingbushizhiyaoshuoburongyizuode“zuipaoxia”