把妹书籍：要表现因爱义无反顾

 bameishuji youshenmefangshi?　doushuo“nanzhuinv，gezhongshan;nvzhuinan，jiacengsha”，keshi，zaidabufenrendeyanguangli，nvshengyingdangshiheaide、haixiude，henshaoxuduorenyongyuzhudongjingong。shubuzhi，zaishanggexingqide《xinxiangqindahui》zhong，nvteyaojiabinwangzijiuyongzishendeshentilixingjizhizhanxianchushenmeshi“yinaiyiwufangu”。

 zongyijiemuboyingyihou，“nvshengzhuinanshengdelianaiganshou”bianchengguanzhongmenqiangliefanxiangdejujiao，“jiji”yu“daozhui”、“miantian”yu“huijue”、“gudu”yu“qipan”，3zujiongranbutongdeyuhui，kaiqileqingganshenghuozhongdexinchuti。bameishujiyoushenmefangshi?

积极与倒追

 nvteyaojiabinwangzi，renyaoshiming，bulunshikandaiyishizhuxinghuanshiqinggan，douyongyoushifenxiaosatanrandeyibian。tanenggouyibianganshourenjianbaitai，sheqipingwenpingjingdeshenghuo;haikeyiyibianzishenaideren，dakaidaozhuifangshi，congshizhizhongbaqinggandezhudaoquanwozaizishenshoushang。

 zongyijiemuboyingyihou，nvshengdaozhuinanhaierbianchengleguanzhongmenqiangliefanxiangdehuatitaolun。yujiusixiangbuyiyang，suizhidangdaishehuifazhandefazhan，dajiadelianaiguanyezaikaituochuangxin，guanzhongmenzhenduiwangzideyingyongzhuiaidaduoshujianqilemuzhi。“henyingyongdenvhai，taqingxidilejiezishenyaodeshisha，nenggouerweinuliqinfen，shidangdainvshidekaimole!”“jinguanshidaozhui，keshiwangziquecongburenrang，wenzhawenda，shifenshangxineiyangdenvsheng。”

 keshi，yeshiguanzhongmenmingquetichulemouxiebutongdexiangsheng，tamenjuededaozhuinenggou，keshinvshengbixuzhangwohaoxiandu，bukeyirenrang，gengbukeyidaozhui。“ganqingdechansheng，bixuyaochuangjianzaibicigongpingzhongshideqiantitiaojianshang。jiarumeiduanqinggandecunyou，youyunvhaideguzhiyudenghou，neijueduishiburongyixingfukuailede。”youguanzhongmenzhenchengtishidao。

腼腆与回绝

 yong“bingshanmeiren”laimiaoshu1haonvteyaojiabinyuanlin，yingdangshizaishidangdanshile。“wotanguo3cilianai，keshijihudoubuqingchudongxinshishajuede。”zaiyuanlindezisuzhong，tashi1geduiqingganshifenmiantianpugongdenvsheng。henvshengliaotiandehuatiyoushenme?

 juyuanlinzhuiyi，zaishangmeiduanganqingzhong，nanhaieryibianzhuishangta，cengchixuliangyue，meirijitamensongyizhichungao。jinguanzuizhongzishentongyihetazaiyiqi，keshiquerengranfenbuqingchuneijiushiganqinghuanshilianmin。

 zongyijiemuboyingyihou，yuanlinshunlichengzhangbianchengleguanzhongmenqiangliefanxiangdejujiao。youguanzhongmenjuede，yuanlinwojuedeshishixiaxuduonvhaidedianxingxingyiweizhe，tamenqipanzhenqingdelailin，queyouzaiaiqingmianqiankanqilaiguodudanqiehepugong。“zhenduineiyangdenvhai，nanhaizijiubixufenqingxi，tamenjiujingshimiantian，huanshihuijue。”youguanzhongmenpouxicheng，“shuobailedemiantian，jianghuishixingqingshangqueshizheiban，bixushijianheqinshenjingli，rangtajianjiandichangkaixinfei;danyeshijianghui，jinjinyouyumeiyouyudaodongniderenbale。neimazheiyineishihou，nihaiyaowenyiwenzishen，nishibushiqueshishinagedongnideren。

孤独与期盼

 youyusangshi，yincigengmingbaiaixi，huoxunvteyaojiabinyinbingduizheihuadeganwugengweikegumingxin。zaiyinbing3suideneishihou，babamamalihun，gensuiwaipo、yeyezhangdaledeta，jibenshangmeiyoutihuiguofuqindeai、muqindeaidewennuan。zhangdayihou，yinbingyongyouhaodegongzuo，yongyouziligengshengdezichan，querengranzaiganqingshenghuokongbaiyipian。henvshengliaotiandehuatiyoushenme?

 “worenweizijizuiyigerendeshihou，bingbushinizijiqudongshoushu，yebingbushinizijishanzhefagaoshaotangzaizulinwuzili，zhishiguojiedeneishihou，nimeiyoudiququ。”yinbingqiangyanhuanxiaozheshuo，tajichuquanshizishenzijixinnian，naizhibuqingchu2020nianxinnianhuizainaer。danshi，jinguanyongyouwufatianbudeganqingqueshao，keshiyinbingrengranshifenqipanganqing。“xiwangnengyougezishendexiaojiating，jiunawosuoyoudewenrouyuaiqubaoweita。”yinbingjiangdao。

 yinbingdeershiqinshenjingli，chudonglexuduoguanzhongmen，yekaiqiletamenjiyilishisuiyuexiazi。“fuqinwennuandejia，muqinwennuandejia，kongchu1gewo。yinbingjiyou，laotianyebidinghuiyouqitafangfapeichangrangni!”guanzhongmenjingxiangweiyinbingdaqitongdao。