把妹书籍：和异性朋友怎么搭话

 bameishuji youshenmefangshi?ruguonikeyiheyixingpengyoudahuabingyanxingjuzhiyiqiezhengchangdeneishihou，niquanburendoushihuodetingdadetigao。bameishujiyoushenmefangshi?zaidahuadeyanxingjuzhizhong，yeshiyipindexiuyangdezhuyaobiaoxian ，zuoweiyiwei“xindahua”xianshizhuyizhe，shibixuyaoyoubiaozhunde。

1.三秒标准

 shuobaile，jiushishuozaisanmiaoyineizhangkou，jiangnixiangshuodezaisanmiaoneishuochuqu，liru：“nihaoya，woxiangyaolejieniyixiaxia。”zheijiuzaisanmiaoyineishuochuqujiuxing，chaochuzhei3miao，jianghuiwoyehuizhongjiudeshiquzhangkoudedanliang，erqiedaozhilingyifangdenankan。henvshengliaotiandehuatiyoushenme?

2.空话标准

 renmendouhuidianjizhe，wojiujingyaoheshizhangkouya，shuoxieshenmea。dengniniyaohaodeneishihou，jianghuijiubuganguolaizhangkoule，yiqiyehuicuoguolejihui，zaizheileineishihou，zuilandefangshi huoxujiushishuozuidebanfa，jiju：“nihaoya。”tongchangjiushifendeheli，youxiaodefangfabingbushiniyaohaozenmejiang，zhishiqudapojiangju!

bubiyunixiangdahuaderenkonghua，gengbubihezishenkonghua!

konghuabiaozhun，yinweiwojiaota“feiguannianbiaozhun”。

3.灵便标准

 henvshengliaotiandehuatiyoushenme?bubitizaokaolvdaoniyaoyingshuonaxie，guanjiandeshikanlingyifangdeshense，mingbailinghuoyingbian，yijulingyifangdetixianlailinghuoyingbian，jianghuinijiandaodajieshang1gepiaoliangmeinv，kuazhe1geshifenpiaoliangdebaobao，zheijueduijiushishuotashifenxiaizheiyinvshibaobao，erqieganjuezheiyinvshibaobaohewoxianjieduandepeidadeyifukuzishifendeqiehe，woyenenggoushuo：“nidenvshibaobaohenmeiyo，gennideyifukuzishifendepei。” mingbailinghuoyingbian，zhoubiandeyiqieniyongyudahuadezichan。

4.忍让标准

 jijirenrang，qimudijiushishuoranglingyifangxuehuifangxiatifang，juedegengweideqinjin，renmenzaidahuadezhongtu，bubiguoduqianghan，xiandegaorenyideng，youxiaodefangfajiushishuoxuehuifangxiazishendezishi，shirenmenhuaizhebixudegonglixingqudahualingyifang， xuehuifangxiazishentongchanggengfeichangrongyiqudechenggong，renyizhibizhaozishengengweicongmingderenhuaizhetifangxintaizhuangtai，zishenbuchusetongchangjiubianchengrenmenqinhelibierendefangshi ， xuehaorenrang，woyequdechenggongleyidaban。

5.显示信息高使用价值标准

 zheishihou，niyunixinaidenvshengtanhuaneirongzhujiantiejingaochaodieqi， bawozhulingyifangdeyaoqiudian，binggenjulingyifangdeyaoqiudianlaibaoluzijideyoudian，bingranglingyifangrenke，zheishihouniliqudechenggongjiuhenjinle。

6.自身表露标准

 chuimaoqiuci，jiuhuiranglingyifangganjueshibushinilaichahukoude，shidudezuozishenbiaolu，jishilingyifangmeilini，tawojuededoushizaitingde，zhibuguomeiyoulikeyunixianliao。ninengshidubiaoluzishendejusuo，jiarulingyifangjiushinidetongxiang，nijiuzhaobangqile，tongxiangjianzongyouliaobuwandehuatitaolun，jishibingbushitongxiang，zishendexinxineirongyehuirangjinihuatitaolunnenggoutan。

 kanlelezhei6gebiaozhun，shifoujiniduidahuayongyou1gexindelejieni?zhangwoledahuadexinshourumen6biaozhun，renmenhaiyaoliuyimouxienanti，erzaizheizhongnantizhong，shenkeyinxiangtongchangjiushishuozuiguanjiande。