把妹书籍：坚决不要跪添女性

 bameishujiyoushenmefangshi?zairenmenzhuinvshengdequanguochengzhong，renmenzuibixudejiushishuoyaoyouzheqiadangdeguannian，guannianhuituidongzherendegerenxingwei，jiaoyujiakanaijiyeshuoguo，renherenzhijiandebuyiyangjiushishuoguanniandebuyiyang，jinriweixiaogejidahuoerxiaojiehaoduogeguanjiandepaomeiziguannian：

一，重视全过程，不必在乎結果

 quanbuguanniankanqilaizaichenggongxuelishuodeshishuzuiduode，keshi，ronghedaozhuinvshengzhongdoushiyiyangkeyong，xuduodedixiongzaihenvshengdejiaowangquanguochengzhong，naozilijinjindianjizheruhebanvxingnaxia，dahuoermeiyoubawoshiqingdeguanjian。bameishujiyoushenmefangshi?

guanjian：niyuelaiyuechusele，gaodingnvrenshishunlichengzhangdeshi。

 yiner，renmenzaihenvxingdejiaowangzhong，gengweiguanjiandeshibazhezhongdianfangdaotigaoziji(quanguocheng)，erbingbushigaodingnvren(jieguo)。

举好多个事例：

 quanshijiezuipojudedangdainvzuojia：luolin。tazaixie《halibote》shi，tazhenduiqiancaideyuqiuyidianerdoubumingxian，dantashiquanshijiediyiweiyiwanfuhaowenxuejia，tazaiyideshiruheba《halibote》zhongdejingdiangushixiehao，bingfeifeidekaozheizheishulaizhengqian。

 aiyinsitan，tameiyoushuoyaoxiechengxiangduilun，jinjin1geduiwulixueheshuxuekechenmideren，fajuexiangduilunjinjintazaizuohaozijixiaideshierdeneishihoudefuchanwu。

 yiyangrenmenzaihenvxingjiaowangdequanguochengzhong， jiarunengbaozhenghenvxingjiaowangjiushishuozaixiangshouguocheng、tigaozijizhenduinvxingdelejiedehua，nidetongguolvdaziranhuigaoxuduo，zheileiguannianderen，wuyuzegang，bianmeilechenggongshibaizhifen。 renmencongchuzhonglaidaonaxie?kaixinma?zheisuanshirenmenbixuguanxindediqu。henvshengliaotiandehuatiyoushenme?

 renshengdaoluwubiyouzongtimubiao、fangwei。danjieguoqueshineimaguanjianma?huodelenengruhe?shiquyounengruhe?renshengdaolubenlaijiushishuoyicilvyou，didadaodazhanshibidingde，xiangyouyantufengjinghuikanqilaigengweiguanjian。

二、搞好自身，重视女性

 nizhongjiudoujinjinziji：zuoweiyoushiyongjiazhidenanshengjiushishuoyaozangzhedutedegexinghua，shiketuxianchuqinhelidesixiangjingjie，yaoxuanhuanxiwang，yaoyouxinxindeyazhi，buliusudepinwei，duoziduocaiyishizhuxing。

 zuoweinanshengyingdangzisizili， nenggoushenghuobuyi，nenggouyibianshichangjingzheng，nenggouyibianbabamama，danjuebunengyibiannvxing! lianqingjiushishuoxiyinzhu，zuohaozijidenanshengjiuhuixiyinzhudaonvxing，yinvxingweiguanlizhongxindenanrenhenvrenxinlihuikanbuqini，gerenxingweishangmiandujueni。

 henvshengliaotiandehuatiyoushenme?zailiangxingdexiyinzhushang，nanshenghuitiaoxuanxingganmiren，nvxinghuitiaoxuanxintai。 daduoshunanshenghuibeinvxinghaokandeliandaner，xingganmirendeshenxing，yuxianyusidezishixiyinzhu，nvxingyeyiyanghuibeinanshengteshudegexinghua，zhiliangdexinxin，liaobodewenxueyuyanxiyinzhu，zheijiushishuoziranfaze。

 lianqingzhongzhongyaodeshibicixianghudejuede，jiushinijitachanshengdeshitazhiqianweicengyoudeduocaishenghuo，nijitadegaoxingheyouyuegandoushimeiyourenjiguotade;zhinengneitiaoyangnvxingcaihuixiangyaosixintadigensuini;tazhinengpeinicaiyoudeqitelianqingjuede，erzuozijijiunenggoujinvxingneiyangdejuede。

 erzhongshinvxingjiushinizuohaozijidejiben，doushirenyurengoutongdejiben，niwubizaizhongshinvxingdejibenshangzuohaozijicaihuizhenshidehuodenvrendexin，jiaru，nijinjinguzhezishendetihui，erqusunhailenvxing，jinguanzaiyizishenweiguanlizhongxin，keshitahuiyanfanni，youyunimeiyouzhongshita，yinci，xianzhongshinvxing，zaizuohaoziji。

三、理应客观

 zheijiushiwozaisanqiangdiaodejichulilun，zaizhuinvshengdezhuangkuangxia，bixuyaoyougerenrenpingdengdexintaizhuangtai，zheiyishifendezhongyao，renmenbubibei“xintai”caozonglerendedanao，yibiannvxingbiaocengdexingganmiren，zuoxierangzishenjiangjiadegerenxingwei。

 wojiangde“xintai”jiushizhi，ni jiandao1gepiaoliangnvhaihuoshihuolashencaidepiaoliangmeinv，beitayishunjianxiyinzhudexintai。 juedaduoshudedixiongjiuhuibeixintaisuoweihaimashangququyuenvxing、shuncongnvxing、guitiannvxingdengjiangjiadegerenxingwei，neimatamenjiuhuilijibeipiaoliangmeinvshuaxuandiao。

 renmenbixuzuo1gekeguandenansheng，lejienanrennvrenshigongpingde，kaozheizhongfangshiburongyixiyinzhudaonvxing，yaoyingyongyouxiaodefangfa、fangshizhanxianzishencaiyoujianghuixiyinzhudaotacongernadaota。

 renmenzaihenvxingjiaowangdeneishihouliyingkeguan，neiyangnidetongguolvhuihengao，nizhidaomazheijiaoweinan(renquanshixintaizishi)，yinci，nichongzukeguancainenggoupaodaopiaoliangmeinv。