出轨的应该怎么挽回婚姻

　　chuguideyinggaizenmewanhuihunyinhunyinshenghuo，zheiyifuzadeqingganqiaoliang，jingchangbeidajiajieduweifuwuchengnuo、peibanyuyiwu。danshi，zhishenqizhonghou，womenbunanfaxiantagengxiangshiyichangtanxun“huihuazhifa”lvcheng，chongmanzhechengqianshangwanweixiaodemaodunyurichangsuosui。youshihou，jialidandingcongrong，zhiyinyijucaolvzhihua，liangfangbianshenxianlengzhandekunju。canzhuopang，menshanhou，neiyifenshuxiganyexujiuzaineiyicigoutongbudaoweizhongqiaoqiaodixiaoshi。nishibushicengyouguozheizhongtiyan?mangliuyitianhouhuijiale，xuyaoqingqingdilejie：“jinrihuiguihedengwan?”quezaoyulianrendechenmoyidui。nishizhezaidugoutongjiaoliu，quejuededuifangyaobuchenjinyushoujishangdeshijiezhong，yaobujinjincaolvdihuifuyiliangju。zhangciyiwang，lianggerenzhijianxinlingshenchudegoutongjiaoliuyuelaiyuexique，jiulianzhengchaodouchengweilelixingdedianli。nandaoshuoquanbufufudoushihuishenxianzheizhonggoutongjiaoliujiongjingma?

　　cengyouyiweipengyouxiaoyang，jiehunliunianbingyuyouyizihou，fuqizhijiandezhengchaoriyizengduo。zuichu，tahainengtanchengdibiaodazijiyihuohebuan，dansuizheshijiandetuiyi，meimeitidaojiawuhuofenpaihuoyuerlinianshi，tamenchangchangwufadachengyizhi。zongsuan，zaiyiciyinfeiqiwuweijishichulieryinqidejiliezhengchaozhong，tachouqizhebaoyuandao：“dajiazuihoulianshuohuazhidaoyebuhuile。”erzhangfuzezhuanshenliqu。

　　haoduorenwurenwei，fuqizhijiandezhengchaofanerhuirangbicizhijianyuelaiyueyuan。danshi，shiqingzeshi，goutongjiaoliudewuxiaobingbushijinyutanlianaixinxianganxiangguan——tahaizaiyubicishibushirenzhenqulijieyubiaoda。suizheshijiandetuiyi，renmenjianjianxiguanjiangbiequshenzangxindi，jiangzhenshixiangfaqianzangzaichenmowuyandangzhong，qixubierennengdongchawomenzijideruanruo。danshi，zheiyangdeganqingkaishibiandehaosiyitiaoningjingquerijianlengbingbingdejianghe，biaocengdandingcongrong，qishineixinyibingdongsanchi。

　　neiyang，hunyinlidegoutongjiaoliuzhendewufagaijinlemeiyou?shijishang，meiyouduoshaorenyushengjulaijiukewuzuaidibiaoshiziji。yaofujianyouxiaodegoutong，dajiabixuzhangwoyixieguanjianfangfa。yixiasigezuijiandandefangfa，keyibangzhuwomenjibianshizaichaojiashi，hainengrangqingyizaiwuyanzhongliudong。

　　02

　　gaijinhunyinshenghuogoutongdejiqiao

　　▣qingganbiaodabingfeichizegerenxingwei

　　chuguideyinggaizenmewanhuihunyinzuixian，shizhebiaodaganqing，erbushidanchundechizegerenxingwei。henduorenxiayishidiwen：“niweishenmelaoshiwandao?”huo“niweishenmeduijiawuhuomobuguanxin?”zheizhongzhiyitongchangjiqiduifangfangyuxinli。bijiaozhixia，shizheyongneiyangdefangshilaibiaoda：“jintianshenxinpibei，jixuyaojiejuegongzuoyali，haixuyaoduzichengdanjiawuhuo。woshizhendexiwangnengdedaonizhichiyubangzhu。”tongguozheiyangdefangshi，dajiachuandideshizijidexiangfa，erbushidanchundedihuxiangzhize，jinerjiduifanglijieheguanxindejiyu。yijujiandande“wozhendexuyao”，yuanbiyilianchuande“nixiangduole”gengrongyizhijirenxin。

　　▣倾听

　　cizhi，qingtingbingfeijiqiehuifu。goutongjiaoliuzhongdezhongyaozuai，tongchangqujueyudajiaxiayishidiqieduanlingyifangbingweizijibianjie。zaiyutarenjiaoliushi，yinggexiashiwuguanli，quanshenguanzhudilingting，fangzhiqieduanbierendeqingtu。jishizhishirenzhendetingwanyijuwanzhengdehua，doushiduibicideyizhongzhongshi。nijiuhuifaxian，lingyifangdeyanyubingbushizhiliyufourenni，gengshiweiletulutadekunjinghetihui。lejiezheiyidian，jibiandajiazaihenduofangmianchuxianfenqi，yeyirannengxieshoubingjianyingduijiatingzhonggezhongtiaozhan