找女朋友要注重哪几点

 zhaonvyouzhishisongsonghuaheqiaokeli，zhaozhe zhuiqiu gonglveanbujiubanma?kaishiyiduanganqingyuanbuzhishizheiyang，lianggerendejiehe，shishejidaohenduofangmiandeshiqing，neimezhaonvpengyouyaozhuyinajidianni?

一、找女朋友要注重哪几点

1、共同经历

zhaonvpengyouyaozhuzhongshenme?zhengsuoweirijiushengqing，shijiandetouzishengguorenhetianyanmiyu。

 ruguonidanchunxiangyaoxiyindaonvren，zhaonvyouqishibingbuxuyaotaiduoqian，huozhefuchutaiduodeshijianhejingli，nizhiyaozainvrenmianqianbaochiyizhongshenmigan，ziranjiunengyinqitadehaoqi。danshizhihouni?

 xiyinlibudengyujiena，yejiushishuonvrenjishibeinixiyin，bingbudaibiaotajiuhuijienanijinrutadeshenghuo。zhenzhengdeaiqingshiyaolianggerengongxiangshenghuo，bicifuchi。

dangnimenyiqijinglideshiqingyuelaiyueduo，taduinideganqingyejiuyuelaiyueshen。

 suoyizaixiyinjianlizhihou，nigengyaoxuehuiquhenvshengfenxiangshenghuo，biruniyangleyizhigou，nijiukeyizhaonvyouheniyiqizhaoguta，huoshiouerjiangtatuofujinvshengzhaogu。

 xuyaozhuyideshi，zaizheijieduanbunengdayanvsheng，yebuyaozaiduifangmianqianzhuangsha，niyaozuodejiushizhencheng。dangnvshengheniguanxiqinmihou，takenenghuigengduodexiangniqingsuyixiezijideqinggan。

2、放下自己，制造理解

 zhaoqingrenyaozhuyishenme?fangxiazijibingbushirangnifangqigexing，ershiyaoninenggoufangxiazitai，zhenchengdehetagoutong，dadaoxianghulijiedemude。

 duiyunvrenlaishuo，zaiduodewuzhiyebibuguoyigedongtadenanren。zheiyeshiweishenmenvrenzongshijiang“nibudongwo”guazaizuibiandeyuanyin。

 zhaonvpengyouyaozhuzhongshenme?erxianshinannvjiaowangdewentijiushi，qianqinanshengzitaiguodi，congerdaozhiguitian，zaibanvshengzhuidaoshouhou，youhuiguoyufangzongziji，xiangyaojisulashengzijizaiganqingzhongdediwei，jieguodaozhimaodunzhongzhong。

 shishishang，zhiyoushuangfangchuyuyizhongpingdengdeweizhishang，cainengweihuyiduanzhangjiudeganqing。zuoweinanren，yaoliuzhunvren，ruguozheigenvshengxihuannile，niyaorangtaganjuedaonimanzutadeqingganxuqiu。