异地能要吗？是个怎样的体会

 zuimeihaodehuayubushi“woaini”，ershi“mingtianjian”。meidui qinglv xinzhongzonghuiyouyigewenti，yidilianjieguoma,yidiliankenengma?

一、异地恋是种怎样的体验?

 “weilejianneigeniririyeyexiangnianderen，woxianghenduonvhaizibuzhidaoshileduoshaojianyifu，huanleduoshaoshuangxiezi，shuleduoshaocitoufa。mannaozidedoushijianlemianxiangyaoshuodehua，wushucihuanxianghetajianmiandeyangzi，keshizhendejianmianle，suoyoudetianyanmiyu，doubianchengleyigejiuweideyongbao，nijiuzheiyangyonglidibaozhe，shashadixiaozhe。”yidilianjieguoma?yidiliankenengma?yidiliannengyaoma?

1、yidilianneimenan，aoguoleyidiliandeqinglvdeweilai，zhudinghuiyongyoushuyunimendexiaomeihao。

 minjiaheyuyue，zaiyigeyueqianzhongyuyuanmanwanjielezhangdasanniandeyidilian，huidaonanjingshouhuoleshuyuzijideaidexiaowu，shouhuolelingsuoyourendouxinxiandefeinibukedeaiqing。tanguoyidiliandedouzhidao，duiyunimenlaishuo，zuimeihaodehuayubushi“woaini”，ershi“mingtianjian”。meiduiqinglvxinzhongzonghuiyouyigewenti，yidilianjieguoma,yidiliankenengma?minjiaheyuyuezaigaokaohoudeneigeshujiaxianglian，quemashangbeiliangzhangluqutongzhishufengeliangdi，minjiazaimodou，yuyuezaididou，zaibilichishi1:6000000dezhongguoditushang，tamendejulishi18limi。

 zuichu，hesuoyouyidiliandeqinglvyiyang，tamenmianlindeshijudadekaoyan，xuyaoyigerenduguohenzhanghenzhangdeshijian，xuyaodidangdezhushenbiandeyouhuo，xuyaoyouqiangdadeneixin，tamenyebujinziwen，yidiliannengyaoma?tamenxuyaopinjinquanliqushouhuyiduanbuquedingdeweilai。tamenxianmushenbiansuishisuidinenggoujianmiandeqinglv，qianshou、yongbao，duiyutamenlaishuowubishechideciyu，neixieqinglvkeyiqingeryijudidedao，suoyiyoushihoutamenyehuibujiandingdewenzijiyidilianjieguoma?。buxinrenshunzhekanbujiandewangxianchanraozaitamenzhouwei，yuyuewanhuiyihuierxiaoxi，minjiajiuhuidanxintashibushihebiedenvhaizizaiyiqi，naobuzhegezhonggeyangyouguanyutadehuamian，kaishibiandehuandehuanshi。

 yinweizhangshijianbuguilvdezuoxi，minjiadelejixingchangweiyan，shangtuxiaxieleyizhengtian，tayigerentangzaiqiheidesushe，renshouzhefangunjiaotongdechangwei，kanzheshoujishangcangbaidewenzi，sinianmanyanquanshen，zhongyuliuxialeweiqudeyanlei。jiuzaitajuedexinlijiaocuikuaiyaofangqideshihou，tajiedaoleyuyuedelaidian，“qinaide，hainengpaqilaima，laisuguanayizheibawolingjinquba!”zaidezhiminjiashengbingzhihou，yuyuediyishijianmailecongbeijingdaoshanghaidegaotiepiao，yinweishijiantaiji，zhinengmaidaowuzuo，tazaigaotieshangjihuzhanlezhengzhengwugexiaoshi。zhichengtadejiushiyigexinnian，“woxiangkankantazenmeyangle，taxuyaowo，wobixugandaotadeshenbian!”cishicikeyidiliankenengmazheigewentiduiyutalaishuoyijingbuzhongyaole，yijingbeitahushile、

2、aiqingzhanshenglejuli，paoyingleshijian

 shoujishangdetianqiyubaoli，yongyuantangzhelianggechengshi;piaojialibuzhianfangzheduoshaozhangjiuchepiao;zouguomeiyitiaolu，dudaomeiyigediming，douxiangpaixialaiyuduifangyiqifenxiang;meishimeike，wushibuke，douzaixinlixiangzhe，duifangguodehaobuhao。sanniandeyidi，tamenzhongyudenglailexiangju，tamennulinadaoletongyigechengshideshixijihui，weileyuduifanggenghaodeweilai，meitianyouqianyanwanyukeyishuo，danshuodezuiduodequeshiyijujiandande“wozai”。yidilianshineimenanao，nengbayidilianjianchixiaqude，zhibuguoshiyinweizhendehuxiangxiangai。yidiliannengyaoma?tamendejinglihuoxuyijingjilenidaan。

 aiqingzhanshenglejuli，paoyingleshijian，shiyongzijideganqingheqingchunduyingleyigeyouduifangdeweilai。aoguozheiyici，jiukeyihuxiangyongbao，shuozheyushengqingduozhijiao。