千万不能答应追求的几种人

zuijinjiaoweizhiduodewentishi：beinanshengzhuideshihou，zhuiqiuduojiudaying？zenmecainengpanduantashibushiyigekaopuderen？

 shuozhenhennande。yinweiyouxierenhenshanzhangweizhuangziji，youqishiyouguolianaijingyan、duanweibijiaogaode，buyaoshenmezhuiqiudejieduanle，lianaichuqinidouweibizhidaotajiujingshishenmeyangde。

youderenkenengzhuinideshihouxuhanwennuanyoumoyouyang，yidanzhuidaoshoule，jiubianchengleshaoye，xuyaonilaisihoule。

danyeyouyixieqingkuang，zaitazhuiqiunideshihou，buguanzhuiqiuzhuiduojiu，duoshaonihuiyouzijidejibendepanduan。

今天就来梳理一下。

一、 什么样的人追你，一定千万不要答应。

1、manzijizhenshixinxide

 henduonvshengdouyouzheiyangdejingli：haoburongyipengshangyigexinggehaoyoudongzhaogurendenansheng，haoburongyitayexihuanni，jieguozaiyiqizhihou，jingfaxianzheidazhutiziyounvpengyou……

 huozhejiushihaoburongyitanlianaile，zaiyiqizhihouturanfaxian，nanpengyouyinmanlehenduotazishendezhongyaoxinxi。suoyidangnanshengzhuiqiunishi，bushikaolvzhuiqiuduojiudayingta，ershiniyaogaoqingchutashifouyinzangleyixieduinilaishuohenzhongyaodexinxi。

birutadezhenshiqingkuangbingbuxiangtashuodeneimehao，birutayouyixiehenguanjiandewenti，beitaqiaomiaodizangleqilai。

 yougelaoduanzigushi：nvshengzaidaxueyushangyigenansheng，nanshengshuoshitagebixide，jieguotanlelianaicaifaxian，nanshenggenbenjiubuzaizheigexuexiaoshangxue。

haiyouyigeduanzishoutingledouyaotuxuede：nvshenghenanshengtanlianai，banniancaifaxiantadetuishijiatui……

weishenmehuizheiyang？womenyinggaiduojiujieshouzhuiqiuni？

 yinweidanpingrichangdeduihua、huozheshaoshudejicijianmian，nihennandezhiyigerendezhenshizhuangtai，ruguozheigerennaoziyoucongmingyixie，yaofaxiantadelingyimian，neijiushinanshangjianan。

ruguoyigenanshengdadinglezhuyiyaobanizhuidaoshou，huozheshuidaoshou，niwentayoumeiyounvpengyou，jiusuanyoutayebuhuichengren。

 zheixierendetedianjiushi，henshaotanjizishendeqingkuang，niyiwendaoguanjianxinxi，tajiubahuatichakai，huozheshuoyixiezenmelijiedoukeyidehua，hunxiaoniderenzhi。

youpengyoujiuyudaoguozheizhongqingkuang，tawennanshengyoumeiyounvpengyou，tafanwentamingtianqubuqukandianying。

ranhoutashuo“wozhixihuanniyige”。

tarenbuzhuzhaobierendatingleyixia，faxiantaguozhenhaiyinmanzhe，waimianzangzhegenvpengyou。

zheizhongrendeyingduifangfa，jiushi“deng”。

 buyaojuedetahenhaojiujicongcongdidaying，yaoduoguanchaduokaolv，kankantapingrilidehuodongguiji、zaigezhongshejiaoruanjianlidedongtai。

weixintouxiangkanshangquxiangbuxiangqinglvtou、pengyouquanyoumeiyouqinmideduixiang、weiboyoumeiyoupinfandijitongyigerendianzan。

hetaduojianjianmianyueyuehui，kantadexingweijuzhiheyantanzhongdexijie，shibushifuhetazaiduihuakuanglideyangzi。

huozhezhaobijiaoshuxitaderendatingdating。yidanniliuxinle，neitajiuzangbuzhu。

 buyaoyinweiyouxieduinihaoyidian，nijiusuibianshahuhudidongxinle，jiusuandongxinleyerenyiren，shinideyidingpaobudiao，dengniduizheigerenwanquanmeiyougulvle，zaidayingtayebuchi。yinweiruguozhendeainidenanrenbuguanniduojiujieshouzhuiqiu，tadouhuiyuanyidengni。

2、chanlanda、yijingmingxianchaoguozhengchangfanchoude

 qunianyigewaididepengyouzaiqunliwenwomen，youyigenansheng，xiabanlushangrenshide，zhuitazhuidehenrelie，tajuedezheiyangdenanshengbuduole，huoxukeyichangshiyixiadayingta。youhuozhezhuiqiuzhuiduojiucaidayingtaweizhihao。

yourenwenshizenmegerelie。

 tashuotahuidengzaitashangxiabanlushang，jiuweilejiantayimian；diyiciwentayaoweixintameiji，jiujianchizhaotayaoleyigexingqi；tazaigongsihuishibushishoudaohuaaxiaoliwuashenmede，doushitajilaide；pingshiyehuizaiweixinshanghetaliaohenduo。

youyitianzaochentagangqichuang，kandaotalingchenfalaidexinxi：nishuitaiwanle，yaojidezaoshui。

tajingxidiwen：nizenmezhidaowowanshuile？

duifang：wozainijialouxiakanzhenijiadechuanghu，niwulidedengyidianduocaimiede。

huanjuhuashuojiushitazhanzaitajialouxia，dingzhetadechuanghu，kandaolingchenyidianduocaizou。

tingdaozheierwojipigedadouqilaile，meizihaihengaoxingdeyangzi，juedetachiqing。

qunliyougemingbairenwenletajijuhua：nihetashuoguonijiazainaerma？tapeinizouhuiguojiama？

妹子说都没有。

mingbairen：neinihaohaoxiangxiang，tashizenmezhidaonijiazainali、haijingquedaonagedanyuan、jicengjihude？

zhendeshixisijikong，meiziturancaixiangdao。

 zaihoulaideshiqingyuelaiyueguiyi，youyicinanshengshuotamingtianyaochucha，bunengzaixiabanlushangdengtale，jieguodiertianxiabanshijianyouchuxianle，meiziwennibushichuchale？

nanshenghuida：weilejianni，wojintianzaochenqubahuochepiaotuile。

meiziwenneinibuquchuchameiwentima？

nanshengshuo：gongzuokeyidiu，danshiaiqinghuoxuzhiyouyouyici。

 meizizheishikaishihaipale，guojitianyihounanshengyouhuranwenta：nimeiyounanpengyouduiba？wozhuiqiuzhuiduojiucaihuidayinghewozaiyiqi？duojiujieshouzhuiqiuni？

meizixianghetakaiwanxiao，jiushuo：nizenmezhidaowomeiyounanpengyou，wonanpengyoukeduole。

nanshenghuida：woguanchanihenjiule，niyizhidoushiyigerenzhu。

zheinimashigejingsonggushia……

houlaimeizijiuxianggezhongbanfaduota，haozaizheigerenhaibushihenzuanniujiaojian，faxianmeizizaiduotazhihou，jiufangqile。

zheiyaoshimeiyoudangchuneilianggewentidianxingta，tahenkenengjiudayingle。

zhendedayinglehuizenyang？zheizhongpianzhideren，sheizhidaohuizenyang。

 yigerenkeyihenkuangredixihuanni，danzheizhongxihuanyidingshiyaoyouyigejiexiande，zhuimeiziyeyouzhuimeizidechidu，bietaiguoyudaraodaobierendeshenghuo，zheijiuhenkepale。

 zheizhongrenwangwangxinzhibujianquan，chengxianbingtaibandekongzhiyu，biaomianshangtaweilenikeyifuchuyiqie，danshibeihouhenkenengyinzangzhejiduandexingge。

3、zicanlaiqiangponidayingde

zheigeganjueyebuyongshuohenduo，yinggaimeiyoujigemeizihuixihuanzheizhongrenba？

虽然我也见过先例。

 shangxuedeshihoutingshuoguogebixuexiaodeyigegushi，yigenanshengzhuiqiutadeyigexuemei，yikaishixuemeijuedetasuiranhenhuizhaoguren，danzhangxiangbushitaxihuandeleixingsuoyiyizhimeidaying。

houlainanshengzaitasushelouxia，nazheyibadaozi，dangzhongbatademingzi，kezailezijigeboshang。

xiangdaozheigehuamianwodoujuedehunshenbushi，zheigexuemeijuranjiubeidadongle，dangtianjiuhetazaiyiqile。

 zaihoulaijiutingshuo，zheigenanshengzailianaizhongbiaoxianchulehenyanzhongdejingshenbuwending，yishengqijiudahoudajiao、kongzhibuzhuziji，houlaixuemeihaipalejianjuehetafenshou。

ranhouzheigenanshengshenyebatadaidaoyigejiaoxuelouli，shuoyaodaizhetatiaolou。

zuihoumeizibeipengyoujiule，zheigenanshengyexiuxuele。

nijuedezheigerenzicanshiyinweitaizaihuni？qishitazheizhinengshuomingtalianzijidoubuai。

 zhenzhengyongxinquainideren，shouxianyidingshiyaoaixizijide，zijidoubudongdeaixiderenjiushiyikezhadan，suishihuiweixiedaonideshenghuo，shenzhinidexingming。

henduorenshuoaiyigerenkeyimingdoubuyao，zaixiaoshuolichuxianyixiajiukeyile，xianshizhongchuxianzheizhongshi，zhihuirangrenjuedekepa。

zhengchangrenlianai，weideshizhangjiudepeiban，shixuyaohebeixuyao。

lianzijidemingdoudiule，youshenmenengliquaini？

4、duyiziwoweizhongxinde

 yigepengyou，qunianjujueleyigenanshengdezhuiqiu，yinweitashuozheigerenhetaliaotiandeshihou，huatiyongyuandoushiweiraozhetaziji，henshaokaolvdaotadeganshou。

tazhiyaoyoukongle，jiuhuashiyaoqingtachulaiwaner，danconglaibuwentayoumeiyoushijian。

tapinmingdijitajigezhongchide，jizijijiaxiangdetechan，danconglaibuwentaxibuxihuan。

youyicitajiujitasongleyicihua，taduixianhuaguomin，hetashuoxiacibuyaosonghuale，danshiguolaijitian，tayousongleyici。

pengyouzhihaohenyansudishuo，tazhendeduihuaguomin，buyaolangfeizheizhongqian。

kenanshengshuo：zheiyangbushihenlangmanma？nibaozhehuaconggongsiqiantaizouhuizijizuoweishang，douhuijuedewoshigehenhaodenanrenba？

quandoushiyiziwoweizhongxin，jiushimeiyou“ni”。

 zuoshenmeshidoushiweilezhengming，“woshigehenhaoderen”、“wohenzaihuni”、“wohenhuiduinvshenghao”，danjiushimeiyouxiangguoniyaoshenme。

ruguozaiyiqile，yihoudeganqinglihuirangnishoubule。

haiyouyizhongleisideqingkuang，jiushiyiweidishuoyaohenizaiyiqi，bingbuzaihunidexiguanheaihao。

zhengchangrendouyinggaimingbaiyigedaoli：lianggerennengbunengshunlidizouxiaqu，“gongtongxihao”zheisigezi，shizhanhendayinsude。

 suoyiwomentanlianaideshihou，huizirandiquzhuyiduifangxihuanshenme、aihaoshenme，zaiquhengliang，zheixiexihaoyoumeiyougongtongdian、huibuhuizailianggerenzhijianzhizaochuhenduogongtonghuati，zheirangcaibuhuiyingxiangzhihoudexiangchu。

zheixiewentidouquedingle，womencaihuiqutanxihuan。

 zongeryanzhizheizhongzhikaolvzijidebiaoxian、gandongziwo、conglaimeikaolvguoyihouderen，qishibingbushizhendexiangyaoyiduanwendingermeihaodeganqing。

tajiushixiangtangelianaieryi，dannikanshangquxiangshiyigerongyibeidadongdeguniang。

 zenmeshuoni，yishangneirongqishishiyidaobaomingti。zaiaiqingfangmianyidingyaojinshenkaolv，buyongtaiguoyujiujiezaizhuiqiuduojiudaying，yaokaolvqingchu，zheigerenshifouzhendeshiheni。zhuiqiuduojiujieshouqishidoukeyi，zuizhongyaodeshitiaoyigezhenzhengshihenideren。

 sheiyebuxiwangtanlianaizhihou，caifaxianduifangjiujingshishenmeyangderen，suoyizaiduifangzhuiqiunideshihou，jiuyaojizijiduoyixieshijian，duojizijiyixieguanchatadejihui。

youqishishangwentidaodezheijizhongren，qianwanbuyaoqingyidaying。

lianaishihenmeihao，danjinxianyuheyigekaopuderentanlianai。

ruguoyubudaozheizhongrenningyuanfangqi。

bijingwomendelianai，shiweilefaxianyigegenghaodeziji，bushiweilezuocishana。