如何摆脱对你死缠烂打的男人

 dangnibeisichanlanda，duinishishikekedouzaijingongshihou，nigaizenmebanni？xiangtaotuo，haoxianghenkunnan，xiangzhijiekaima，haoxiangtaijiangdizijidesuzhijiaoyang。buguantanuliduojiu，keshijiushimeibanfaxihuanta，zenmebanshihao？neime，xiaobianlaifenxiangxiaruhebaituoduinisichanlandadenanrenba。

一、八个步骤摆脱对你死缠烂打的男人

1、确认感情

 xianwenwenziji，daodishifouduizheigesichanlandadenanrenyouganjue。youshihouyourenjinisongchide，youshihouyihuiyousongnixihuandeshu，youshihouyihuiyoujiaonizhuyitianqibianhua，youshihouhaizhudongbangnilingkuaidi，youshihouhaizhudongbangniwanchengnimeiyouwanchengdegongzuo。zheishihouyijingchaoyuetongshihuozhepengyouguanxidejiexiangaizuodeshiqingle。zheishihouwenwenziji，zijishibushiyexihuanduifang。

2、做出决定

 jiaruzijiquedingbuxihuanzheiweinanxingle，jiuyaozuochuxuanze，buyaorangzijixianruzijibuxihuanderendeganqingzhongqu。yebuyaolangfeibierendeganqing。

3、委婉拒绝

 yikaishi，faxianzijizenmeyexihuanbushangta，xianweiwanjujue，biruzaitayuenideshihou，keyidadanjujue。zaisongniliwudeshihou，yinggaijushou。zaizhudongbangnishihou，yinggaijujue。jingchangzheiyangzizuo，duifangyinggaihuiganshoudaoniduitayoudianpaichihemingbainideyisi。

4、表明意思

 jiaruweiwanjujueshice，neijiuduanxinhuozaiqq、weixinshangbiaomingzijiyisi。youshihouyouxierenyehuibijiaochidunhuozhebusixin，zheishihounihaishibuxihuanduifang，neijiuzaijixubiaomingzijidetaidu。zheishihoukeyizhijiedianle，buyaozaijibicizaochengwuhuile。zhijieshuoyixie：womenzhijianbushihe；nishiyigehaonanren，nikeyizhaodaogenghaodenvxingdeng。

5、当面聊聊

 jiarutongguoduanxindenggongjuyijingbiaotaihou，haishimeiyousixin，neijiudangmianliaoliao。yexushangyicideduanxinjujuehou，duifangyijingyoudianshangxinle，danshifaxianmeiguoduojiu，tayoulaijixusichanlandale。neijiuyuechulaishuomingyixiaba。zheishihoutaiduyidingyaojianding，buyaojiduifangrenhexiwang。

6、坚决表明

 buyaorangzheixieyingxiangzijidezhengchanggongzuo、shenghuo、xuexi。yaomingbaizheixiebushizijinenghenhaokongzhide，ganqingdeshiqinghennanshuo。yifangmianbuxiangshiquzheigepengyou，yifangmianyoubuxiangshanghaitaishenduifang。zheishihounideqingxuyexuyeyoubodongle。danshizijiyaomingbainiyijingzuodegouduideqiduifangle，meiyoushenmekebuhaoyisidele。

7、断绝联系

 changshibuyaogenduifangyourenhelianxi。dangniyoukunnanshihou，buyaozaizhaoduifang，dangduifangjinifaduanxinshihou，buyaozaihuifule。rangtazijijingxiangyiduanshijian，keyishiyigeyue，keyishibannian。

8、转移注意力

 shijianguoquzheimejiu，haishimeibanfajieshou，meibanfaxihuan。zheishihoukeyitongguodisanfangjierulaijiejuele。jiaotadehaopengyouquanyixia，rangtazhuanyizhuyili。

 zaiyoujuexinheyizhideren，kandaozheixie，yexudouyijingsixinle，jiarunihaibeisichanlanda，yaomeshizhendehenaini，yaomejiushiyigezhimibuwuderen。dangzijibuxihuanzheiyangziderenshihou，jiuyaogaosuzijibuyaoxiangshouzheduifangduizijideai。