嘴笨的人怎样聊天：和喜欢的人怎么聊天不会尴尬

 youderenkanshangquxianghuihuachaojijuxing，keyikankanertandishuogushihefengqudeduanzi，fangfoyipiankongbai。danjiarunishiqingjinghuoneixiangxingdezhonglei，haoxiangmeibanfaguzuyongqishuohua。zuibenderenzenyangliaotian?hexihuanderenzenmeliaotianbuhuiganga?ruhe ☞tuodan ？

一、嘴笨的人怎样聊天：和喜欢的人怎么聊天不会尴尬

zuibenderenzenyangliaotian?hexihuanderenzenmeliaotianbuhuiganga?

1、带著你了解你能讨论的物品

 zulanrenmengangkaishihuihuadezuiguanjiandeshiaishidanxinninengtiejinbieren，zhangkaizuiba，suihoumeiyouhuashuo。haoyundeshi，youyixiejianyidefangshi nenggoujinizishizhizhongmingqueninengtiaoxuanyixieninengqingqingsongsongtaolundewupin。

 pingdingzhuangkuang。jiaruniyubierenyiqishouke，niyizhinenggouxiantaolunkechengneirong。jiaruniyizhizaitongyigejuhuihuodongshang，tanyitanjuhuihuodong。tabuyongfanza：“niruhekandaizheiyishangyejie?” yizhiyushigangkaishihuihuadehaofangshi 。

 shizhongbubichangshitiejinluren，binggangkaishiyujietongt2zitongganlasijiaohebiedebiejiaodeduanzigoutongjiaoliu。jinguantabuyiding“cubao”，danshiwenbierenbeijixiongdejingzhongshiduoshaoburongyijinihaiyoujihuikaizhangoutongjiaoliu，tazongshirangniyigebiejiaodesilu。

2、明确提出开放式问题

 genjurangdajiahaiyoujihuigoutongjiaoliubingxianhouhuiyingtamenlaigangkaishihuihuajueduishiyouweizhongyaode。zheijiushishuojinikoucaihaodeyuangu，erbingbushitaolunzishendegongzuonengli。kaifangshiwentinenggourangbierenhaiyoujihuikaiqibingweinindailaidalianghuiying，bingzaitanhuaneirongzhongkaizhandaliangtantao。

 zuibenderenzenyangliaotian?hexihuanderenzenmeliaotianbuhuiganga?kaifangshiwentikeyongyigenzongyiwanbidecankaodaan。jiaruxuduorentanchengxiangdai，erqieshuo：“wozuodefeichanghao，wojuede”shiyibianhuifunide“zenmela?” shuo，“nijinriganlenaxie?” binggenzong，“tazenmehuishi?” rangtamenshuohua。

 kaifangshiwentiyujianyixiangguan。nindabushangshihuofoucankaodaandekaifangshiwenti。bubiwenyixiefengbishidenanti，liru“nijiaoshenme?” huoshi“nichangchanglaizheilima?” zheiburongyirangniyiqiehuatitaolun。

3、回忆之前的会话

 youshihou，yulurenduibi，yunilejiederengoutongjiaoliushishishanggengnan。jiaruninzaoyizhangwobierendedajiazulishishijianhejichuxiaogushi，neimaninshixiangqizhiqiandehuihuayizhaoxunshihounanti，zhaodaotamenyizhizaizuodeshier：

“nijinriganlenaxie”huo“bujiuwojianniyimianzhihouniganlenaxie?”

“nagexinxiangmuxiaoyuanneiruhe?nijinxinglemeiyou?”

“zheixiewangshangxiuxiandujiadexiangpiankanshangqufeichanghao。cicilvyouruhe?”

4、训练优良的听力技巧和谈话内容

 zuibenderenzenyangliaotian?hexihuanderenzenmeliaotianbuhuiganga?youliangdegoutongjiaoliubujinshiqiaodanideyachi。dangniyuanyigengkoucaihao，guanjiandeshiyaoxunlianchaohaoting，erbingbushidengdaoshuohua。

 herenkaizhanyanguangchupeng，bingyingyongduiwaikaifangdeshentiyuyan。ruguoniyunxubingzhiliyutanhuaneirongshidiandiantou。genzongliru“e，wa。suihoufashengshenmeshi?”leisideshier。huoshi“jieguoruhe?”

 queshilingtingbinghuifulingyifangshuodehua。xunlianxunlianzishenbiaoshu，shuo，“wotingjiandeshi......”he“zheitingqilaixiangtashuodeshi......”genjujianyidizaitanhuaneirongzhongtishengdajia，huoshigenjuyizhitaolunzishenlaihuifutamenchangshuodeneirong，zaiyebunengshuohua。lingtingbinghuifu。