追女孩子的聊天技巧：追求女生该怎么聊天

 zenmecainengsuibiandehenvhaigoutongjiaoliuni?bubichangchanghuobuzaishidudeshijiantongdianhuahuotiejinnihenganxingqudenvxing，tajianghuihuijuedeniyeshiyigegenzongzhe!dongdejiena“bu，wobuxihuan”shihenguanjiande。zhuinvhaizideliaotianjiqiaoshishenme? zhuiqiu nvshenggaizenmeliaotian?

一、追女孩子的聊天技巧：追求女生该怎么聊天

1.根据夸奖来刚开始会话

 jiesonghaizixianbeichengzuoyongsu，bingqietongchangburongyijinvshengliuyouhaoyinxiang。erbingbushichangshigenjujiesonghaizixianlaixiyinzhunvshengdejizhongzhuyili，jitayidianzanyangbingjiandanziwojieshao。

 suihou，jiaruzainizishenxiangxijieshaoyihoutanhuaneironggangkaishixiaotui，shizhewentayigeyouguantazishendenanti。jiarutayizheyanqianyiliangdekuabao，ninengshuo：“hai，wojinjinxiangrangnilejiewoqueshihenxiainidebeibao。”

2.轻轻松松风趣，稳定情绪心态

 zhuinvhaizideliaotianjiqiaoshishenme?zhuiqiunvshenggaizenmeliaotian?zaizuikaishideshiduofenzhongnei，huihuabijiaorongyijuedejiaolvbuanheqiangpo。genjuquejieyigexiaoxiaohua，wendingqingxuxintai，shitajuedegengshifangyali。

 biru，dangniyouyujiaolvbuanersheqishuxuekebijibendiannao，neimaqueshuo“nikeyikan，woshifenyazhi。zheijiushiwodehenduoyoushizhiyi，“huanjiexintai，jianqingnidejiaolvbuanxintai。

 dangnibingbushiyigefeichangfengquderen，bubiganjuenipobudeyijiangchuyigeduanzi。rutongniyunideyigepenyouyiyanghewoshuohua。

3.问聪慧的难题

 xiangnvshenglejiexiangguantaliangdezhiliang，tamenxiaoyuanneizuiaidehuatitaolunhe/huotamenyupenyouheqinrendeguanliandeconghuinanti。mingquetichuzheizhongnantijianghuihuirangnvshengjuedeniyeshiyigeyouaihao，youguannian，keyizaigengduofangmiansikaoderen。kaolvdaowen：“nizuixihuandeshushisha?zuixihuantadeshisha?“huo”nizuiaidejiyilishisha?“nihaikeyiwen，”nizuiainaxiedegexinghua?

4.要有文明礼貌

zhuinvhaizideliaotianjiqiaoshishenme?zhuiqiunvshenggaizenmeliaotian?meilimaohebuzhongshidegerenxingweihuihetuinvsheng。

 nvshengburongyibeijiaoaohuobuqianjiusuochudong，yincizainiyutamenhudongjiaoliudeneishihou，yidingyaoduitamenhezhoubianderenweichiyouhaohewenminglimao。dangnizhengheyigenvhaishuohuayexudepenyouqieduanni，bingxunwenniyigenanti，shuo“wobaoqian。yuanliangwoyixia，“duinvshengshuo，wenminglimaodixunwennidepenyou，nizhihounenggouxunzhaotamenshuohua。

 zaixiangnvshenglejiebenrennantiyiqian，xiancong“dangnibuzaiyiwoshuo......”gangkaishi。jiaruniyizhizaitanhuaneirongshiyiqitajinyichuangfangwujianzhuhuowuzi，qingweinvshengchangkaidamen。

5.是真心实意的

 ruguoniheyigenvhaishuohuashi，bubijinjinyunxutashuodeyiqie，yitaohaota。ruguoniyutaxiangchushi，yaochengxinbingweichizishendezhenzheng。jiaruninyunxu，nijiuyunxu。jiaruwobuneiyangzuo，neimaqingjingzhongdixiangtabiaoshuniyeshizenyangyibuyiyangdefangfaduidaitade。tajianghuihuishangxinidechengxinheqianxundexinxin。

 zhuinvhaizideliaotianjiqiaoshishenme?zhuiqiunvshenggaizenmeliaotian?biru，jiaruyigenvhaitijizhizhuxiashitazuiaidemanweiyingxiongbingqieniyexiaizhizhuxia，shizheshuo“woshi!wohenxihuanyueduwenzhangzhizhuxiamanhua，bingshoukanhaoxiangzongyaochuxiandezhizhuxiadianying。”

 jiaruchuxianbijiaoyanzhonghuohouzhongdeshier，biruzongjiao，neimayizhongshidefangfatixiannindejianyizhiguanzhongyao。dangniyijingtanhuaneirongdenvshengshuotameiyizhoumodouhuishengdaquzhujiaotang，dannibuganxiangxinzhenzhu，shizheshuo：“wodefumucongmeilaiguozhujiaotang，keshinidexinyangzheibanzhidahenshuainiyishizhuxingdeyibufen。”

6.跟随会话

 meiyouqueqiedeshuomingtanhuaneirongjiangtizaodaonaer，yaoshimeiyouxuduonankandejianmo，yidantagangkaishijiumeishier。baozhengyuhuihuadebuzhoubaochiyizhi，bianyurangninjuedechangshunshufu。

 dangnibujiutidaoxianjieduanzaidianyingyuanxinshangyingdianying，erqietatijixijupianxijupian，neimaqingzaicishuo“e，shizhendema?nizuiaidexijupianyoushenme?”jiarutaxiandehenwuqu，shizhegenggaizhutifenggehe/huowentayigenanti，“neimenilibaitianshengyudeshijianzuoshenmegongzuo?niyouquweidefanganma?”

7.试着谈一谈一半的時间

 dangniguoduoditaolunzishen，nvshengjianghuihuijuedeniyeshizisizilide，dangnibenzhibuyongshuoguoduohuajianghuihuihaoganga。tachedinenggoubinidaliangdishuohua，xiangfanyeshi，dantanhuaneirongbuyingdangxiangdubaiyiyang。

8.讨论好几个主题风格

 zaitanhuaneirongdelingwai，shizhemingquetichuyixiebuyiyangdezhutifengge，erbingbushizhishitaolungongzuozhonghuoshizhitaolunnizuiaideyundongdui。zheijiangshitanhuaneironggengweijunhengheshunchang。

9.一段时间后离去会话

 zhuinvhaizideliaotianjiqiaoshishenme?zhuiqiunvshenggaizenmeliaotian?tanhuaneirongshiduofenzhonghou，tanhuaneirongjianghuihuimanyidian。zaizheiyineishihou，qingyuanliangzishen，quwenpenyouhuozuoqitashiershichedishihede。

 zheixiangnvshengmenzhanxianlenibingfeitaiyudun，jianghuihuirangtaliangjuedenigaoshenmoce。shizheshuo：“haihao，yunishuohuafeichanghao。woxianghewodehaopengyouzhaohuyisheng，danwokeyilveweiyunitanyitan。haode?”

 jiarutanhuaneirongkaizhandeshifenyuanman，qingzailiquyiqiansuiyiwennvshengtadelianxidianhua。shuo，“wowubipao，danwoqueshihenxiaidajiadetanhuaneirong。jiaruniyaobangwonideshoujihaoma，huoxuwonengrangnifaxinxi，dajianenggouzaimouyineishihoupengmian。”