被喜欢的人拒绝了怎么办：追求男生失败了还要继续吗

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一、被喜欢的人拒绝了怎么办：追求男生失败了还要继续吗

1.防患于未然

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2.亲身碰面

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3.明确一个探讨的好去处

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4.在适度的那时候详细介绍难题

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5.考虑到等候你的混蛋先提到它

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