男孩子如何和女孩聊天，男生追女孩的技巧

 zhuinvhaidejiqiao shishenme?hemeizhigoutongjiaoliudeneishihou，haipanayangzhuangkuangchansheng?dabufennanhaiziyaoshuo，haipagaliaodenankan，ruguogaliao，juedeqitiyishunjianbeiningjie，meiyifenmeiyimiaohaosidurirunian。cike，nidexinlibixutianmantongku：galiaolegaizenmeban，huifougangaya!shifougailiaomouxietahenganxingqudehuatitaolun，jianqingzheileicaogaodefenwei。

 zoudehenyuan，biewanglechuzhong，lianqingshiliangrendeshier，zhuiqiuwanmeidoubuyingdangshizheichangzihaihuoyinmoulun。renmenshuo“nvhaibingbushizhuiqiuwanmeilaide，shixiyinzhulaide”，hendui，henrenshengdadaoli，zuigaixiangjinlejieyixiaxia，lianghaoshijidecengdiguanlianjiujingshiruhede：zhuinvhaidejiqiaoshishenme?

1、适度赞扬

 shuobaileshiduzanyangyaohehuxialiehaoduogetedian：①shiji：dianxingxingdebuzhengqueshikuanvshenghenmei，tebieshizaishizhenduizheixiequeshihenpiaoliangdenvhai。wojuedeqiadangdeshishijikuanvshengmianbuzhongdemouyidian，neiyangnenggouzaochengnvhaideliuyi。②chabie：jibatajiedingweizheichangsaishizhongdeshenglizhe，lirulibingbingchuanyiyangyijianfushimeitapiaoliang。

 ③xique：shidudewupinquanshishidangde，dangzanyangtaifeichangrongyihuodejiuhuishiqutayuanlaideshijiyiyi。④qianzaixing：duokuatadeqianzaixingshiyongjiazhidian，ru“youshanxin、shanjierenyi、dandu、yingyong”，lingwaijinkenengraokaiyinxingshiyongjiazhidezanyang，ru“bai、fu、mei”。⑤shuangheyanzang：juxingwei“nizaoyi……、wodou……”jijuzanmeidehualibianfang2gezhuyuzhuinvhaizidetianyanmiyuzenmeshuo?

 shoujuzanyangta，dierziwodiaokanzishendezhangban。tuozhanyixiaxia，youshinvhaihuixinximan，tingdadeyuangushirenmenchuanchuqudezheijuhuaxinxineirongguoshaohennanjie，yincirenmenyaozaihuatitaolunxianjieduanqujinkenengdeyanmaixinxineirong。

2、梭门吐槽

 ①bubihaipatui：jiranhuoshipengyouguanlian，jiubiehaipatahuifahuo，jishigaohuaileyejinjinjiju“baoqian、wanxiaohuakaiyiguo”jiunengnaxia。②shenmebukeyitui：yixiejihuihuatitaolunyifabuqujiushishuosi，taburongyirangnihuiladeshijian。rutuita“zhangshiqiren”，tuita“liyuxunxin”，tuita“qingshangdixia”zhuinvhaizidetianyanmiyuzenmeshuo?

 zaitalaikanzheiyebingbushitui，zhishidihui、shiwuru、shixuekoupenren。huanjuhuashuo，quexianbukeyitui，bijiaominganshehuidaodedianbukeyitui，shejiaomeitiyouhuolibukeyitui。③tongxueguanxi，ladebukeyitaijin，qiahaotuodaobifabuquqianjinyidiudiujiuxing。

3、fajuehechuangjianxianghuxingquaihao

 ①lengmen：jiqugaohegua。guangwudedaniangyikuaiertingzhezuixuanminzufeng，bingburongyixianghuzhijianrenke;niyutayikuaierting1gebeifengchenhenjiudexiaozhonggeshou，huiyishunjianbianchengxianghudeweiyi，zhishao，zaitingyinledeneishihoushide。②chuangjian：tashi1gexingquaihaojiaohuandequanguocheng，nijitadejinkenengtiaoxuanjingdian，feichangrongyibeitajiena。tarangnidenikeyizhengpanzhangwo，tiaoxuanyibufenfazhanqushichengxianghuxingquaihao。③wanzhengxing：tashuoxiai，nijiushishuoqueshixiai，qiewukechenghaimeiyougaohaojiuyaoshuo“wa、zhenqiao、wohenxihuan……”，jianyiyijuhualuchumajiaojiuhuiwanquanbeijiaruheimingdan。

 qici：xianghuzhijianxiyinzhu lixianghuaqingkuang：guanlianxingrenkekeyongfangfa：shencenghuatitaolungongmingdian，quedianhelixing，qianzaixingshiyongjiazhizhanxian，youdianqugongxiangziyuan。1、shencenghuatitaolungongmingdian2、quedianhelixing①：jiarunvhaidoutaoyanhuaxuewuzhile，neimewopinboyoumeiyoushenmeshijiyiyini?②：bingbushinixingzicha，queshishineiqunrenqingshangzhishangtaidile。③：bingbushinijiaozong，shitamentaimeixixin。④：bushinidecuo，shitamenquancuole。

 3、qianzaixingshiyongjiazhizhanxian①shenmeshiqianzaixingshiyongjiazhi：yizhiliqiang、yongyudandang、youshanxin、youzhili、yongxin、congshideyishizhuxing、jijizhudongdeshenghuoguanniandeng。②zhanxianfangfa：genjusuoshihuoyishizhuxingqingkuangdefangfalairangtazishenxiaojiefajue，qiewulijiduitashuo“woshiyoushanxinyongyudandangdenansheng”。

 ③cuowuguannian：cuobayinxingshiyongjiazhizhanxianchulai，ru“xinshuigao、qicheyaochifangdaocanzhuozuixianzhudediqu”。zhengtishilishizhebuzhude，youyizhanxianshizaibitashuodongzishenbingbushiyouyuzheizhongtiaoxuanjienani，yibanlaishuo，tamenmeifashuodongzishen。④youdianzhanxianmeigerendouyouzishendeliangdian

 lirushejifangan、yueduwenzhangliang、qingshangzhishang、sheyingshuipingzheixie。genjuduitaxiangduixingyingdeshenmeiguan、lejie、guandianjiyugaokuanbiderenke，yincitazairenmenzheieryougexubaodeshiyongjiazhidian，erzaitarenneibianmeiyou。