追女孩子的话如何跟女孩闲聊

 zhuinvshengjiqiao shishenme?bulunshiganliaogaliaoyuebuchuqu——xianliaoluojisiwei，huoshibeiyongtaizhinanshuaigehaorenka——diaozhuanxintai，naizhidizitaitichufenshougaobaisi——tishengziji，doudengnihuilai，jiaoniruhehenvhailiaotian，xiangyouaidechutiyan，bangnixunsuchengzhang!wojiushiqianyu，dianyixia#shoujiweixin#jiashangwodeshoujiweixin。

 woshiguangfeishi，buzhibujue，zheihaowuyiwenyeshi1geyiqianmeihaohaoditingwoshoukedexiaolaodihaowuyiwenle!youguanruhehenvhailiaotiandezheiyinantia，woqueshishizaoyijianglehaoduobianle，kejiushishuoyouxuduoxiaolaodishoukebushangkerenzhentingjiang，jieguoyidaoshijianhuodongkejiushuangyanfameng、jiejiebabale，bingbushiwoshuodajia，zheinaxingni?

 xiaolaodi：bushia，yinweiwoyizhaonijiaodequganlea!kezhaowoliaozhaowoliaonvhaiweishenmehuanshiduiwomenxintailengmoleni?qianyu：neibutaikenenga!wozheixienianzhichengbozide，douhaimei1genengzhanliqilaixingzoudeni!haowuyiwenshininayibuzoubudui，lailailai，nixixingaosuwoshuoniquanshiruhegenbierennvhaixianliaode!zhuinvshengjiqiaoshishenme?

 xiaolaodi：woshimeiridoujijizhaotaxianliaoa，youshiyiliaoqilaijiunengliaoyiwanni，wopeitakanxuekanyueliang，congshicimingjutidaoshenghuozheli……qianyu：ai!zhuinvhaizidehuayaozenmeshuo?nixianbangwozheixie!neiweixiaolaodinipabingbushiqiongyaojukanjiuleba，haishicimingju、shenghuozhelini!jiuzhaonineimegesipilailiandeliaofa，bierennvhaicuowunilengmoneidouguaile!

 bingbushi，woheshijiaoguodajiagennvhaixianliaoyaotiantianliaolea?dajiabingbuzhidaozheilei“tiantianliaofa”rongyijinishenxian3gexianliaodejuedidangzhong。

话题讨论匮乏

 yaolejierenmenzaihenvhailiaotiandequanguochengzhong，yuanyiliaodaohao，huatitaolunmianbule!nenggoushuomeilehuatitaolundexianliaoneibianshiyipansanshaa，lijishiquxianliaodejingcuiheshengming，kuaisujinishenxianganliaoderenshengjingjie!yexujiarumeitianhenvhailiaotianni，yishibanhuierjianghuihaiburongyiganjuenaxie，danruguoshijianzhang

让女孩造成自豪感

 qicijiuzheiyanghuirangnvhaichanshengzheizhongzihaogan。niyizhijijide、jingchangdezhaonvshengliaotian，erbuliuyouyiqierangnvhainenggoujijilianluonidejianxiexing。neimazhangciyiwangnvhaijiuhuiganjuezongzhitayebuyongganshenme，yaoshidaodianleninengjiujijichuxianzaixianshipingdelingyitouxiangtaqingan。neiyangnvhaineixinbujingyijianjiuchanshenglezheizhongzihaogan，erzheiyineishihouniyutadeyingxianglijiuzaoyiyuelaiyuebugongpingle。

高频闲聊非常容易使人心烦

 zai1gejiushishuogaopindexianliaohuijinvhaidaozhizheizhongxinfangan。woweiheneimeshuoni，youyugaopindexianliaohuixiaoqiandiaoniyunvhaizhongjiandeshenmiganhexinxiangan。zhuinvhaizidehuayaozenmeshuo?jiurutongzheijianshierniganjuetahenquwei

 danjiarushijinimeitianquzuo，nihaowuyiwenyehuiganjuehaowuliaoehaofana!neinvhaidoushixiangtongdea，niyitianliangtianhetacongshicimingjuliaoderenshengzheli，neitajianghuihaiganjuenitingyouqude。danjiarunishimeitianhetaliao，yiliaoqilaihaibuting，neitahaowuyiwenfansinini。

01 生产制造差距

 shengchanzhizaochajunenggoujuyouyixiangbudaodejieguo，rangnvhaixintaibunengziyi。xuehaoshengchanzhizaochajuhaiyaoxuehuifangxiashuobailedeqingmian，nvhaibixudeshi1geqinfenyongxinshitagaoxingderen，shi1gezainiyanqiannenggoufangdekai、buyansurenzhenbuyangaideren。

举例说明：

nv：nipingchangdouxiaiganmaya?

nan：zishennongfana，woyexihaotesemeishi，xiaipengzhidejuede。——shuomingzishendeshiyongjiazhi

nv：wa，kanbuchuniyaohuizhufan，yingdangshigehengujiadenansheng。——nvhaibiaodachuqinpeiyuxingquaihao。

nan：dui，jinqideyihuijiubajiazhongdeweibolujiareshaozhadiao(qiangyanhuanxiao)。——zhanxianchuchajushijixiaoguo，douxiaonvhai。

 nv：hahahahaha，neimewoyeyaodangxindianla，gensuijinifengxianxingyo。——nvhaihuamianganhenqiang。xiangjinneiyangcuobujifangdefengquhuihua，feichanghaodebaozhenglechajushijixiaoguo。

02 蓄意歪曲

jiushishuoxuyiwaiqunvhaihuayudeyisi，yichaoguofengqudeshijixiaoguo。jinerdiaozhuannvhaidexintai，rangtadexintaiqiqiluoluo。

举例说明：

nv：niduoshaoya?chouzheizaopianniyingdanghennianqingni?

nan：woduoshao?nishiyixiabujiuzhidao?(huaixiao)

nv：nizhendepaxiu(xiu)，wojiangdeshinianji!

neiyangdeyoudianfuheidejuedeshinvhaihenxiaide。

03 梭门挑逗

 huanjuhua，jiushishuobanvhailakai，youbanvhailashanglai。taneixinjiuhuishizhongcaixiangniduitadexintaijiujingshishenme?zheijiuzaochenglebunengyucefenxidejuedehejingsonggan。dansuomenbixuyaolingwaiyingyong，yaoburannvhaihenjianghuijiuhuiwujienihenfanganta，lingwaihaiyaoliuyitanengjienadeshuiping，bubikaitaiguodewanxiaohua，tucaotadequexian。

举例说明：

nan：worenweinijinrideweixinpengyouquanxiangpianzhenpiaoliang，nituzhijiayoushouhenmei!

nv：shima，yinweiwoganjuehenpiaoliang。

nan：dui，doukanwojinbuzhuxiangdaolewodemamadeshanzhanghaocaipaojiaofengzhua(huaixiao)

女：你真讨厌呀你。

 zaochengnvhaixintaideqifuhuishidajiadexianliaoyuelaiyuegengrangtayinxiangkegumingxin，nvhaibingburongyihuodexintaishangdekaolvlingwaihaihuiqidaigennishizhongliaoxialai。jiandandianlaishuo，xianliaozuijihuidejiushishuotaigaopin

 jinvhailiuyidianersimikongjian，yeweilenizishenzhengdemouxiedagongjianzhandehoubeililiang。qianwanbieyigunaoerdejiangnixiangliaodehuatitaoluntongtonghepantuochu，renmenyaoxuehaoyouqianrushen，lijichechu。jiubirushuo，nijiaruqitian3tiandouhuihenvhaireliao，neishengyudeertian，woyehewoduankailianluo，keshizishenzaipenyouquanzhongfaxiedongtaixing，rangtaganjuemeiyouta，nizishenyekeyiyishizhuxingdefeichanghao!

 zheiyineishihoujiaruhezheiyinvhaiduijinixingquaihao、zaihunidehua，neimatahaowuyiwenjiuhuijijilaizhaonini。tanduojiaobulan，jinrijiulinshigongxiangzennengshuofangfahaole

 zhuweixiaolaodimenjiarudajiazaihenvhaidexianliaoquanguochengzhonghaipengdaolebiedenanyijiejuedenanti。huoshiniwufagenjunvhaizaiyunixianliaoquanguochengzhongdexintaifenbianchutaduinishibushihenganxingqu，neimajiukuaidianyixia#shoujiweixin#bubixiuse，suiranjiangnideweixinliaotianjilubangwozaguolaiba。qianyulaibangnizhuyipouxi。