微信搭讪如何哄女孩子？

 weixindashanruhe dazhaohuliaotian ? ruhehongnvhaizikaixin,“zaizhengzhizhongbixuyaoyingderen，bidinghuidechangsuoyuan，shudiaoqinggan，huoshengdadaoli，keshiyouyunishiwoxinzhongde，jishiwochaohuosheng，youzenmeyangni?huoshengdadaolishudiaoni，woshubuqia。”dajiadoushifenxiai

 ruhehongnvhaizikaixin,“zaizhengzhizhongbixuyaoyingderen，bidinghuidechangsuoyuan，shudiaoqinggan，huoshengdadaoli，keshiyouyunishiwoxinzhongde，jishiwochaohuosheng，youzenmeyangni?huoshengdadaolishudiaoni，woshubuqia。

 dajiadoushifenxiaizhengshizishenshiduide，tarenquanshishagua。zhengchaodabufenneishihou，yejinjinyibianzhenggeduiyucuo，quemanzuibutizishenneikuaipenfaerchuzhenzhengniantou。weixindashanruhedazhaohuliaotian?

wojuedejiachaodehao，neibianshitiaodou，liangrenguanlianderunhuaye。

jiranyaozhengchao，bubimeiyicizhengchaojiuwang“nibuaiwolenihouwole”shangche，nengfourangzheijiadaidianshijiyiyi?

bubidanchunxingsaposhualai，yebukeyidanfangdeqingxufaxie，zhishizhugeshangbanshen，daizhumudiquchao。

 nizhidaomahaowuyiwenhuixuduorenyingshuo，bieyiweineimafeichangrongyia，shuozhugejiunengshangbanshen?zhenaxiejia，zheibingbushiyibuyibulaima。

zuixianyuanyihanyouyishuchuangyi，yuanyichaojibianshenzhuge，bixuzhengquerenshiyidianer：zhengchaoshizheizhonggongzuonengli，bixuxunlian。

yiqiebixuconggenbenyuanyinxunlianqi，shouweijiushishuoxintaizhuangtai。

 juedaduoshurendaotingjianjijuchizehezhizeshi，doushitiaoxuandalagezimomodichengdan，huoshilifangmiduihuilai，liuqinburengangkaishibaoweizishen。

 neimadianshiqingwoyebukeyizaiyelihuichuangdeneishihoulijihelingyifangdayitaima?ecuowu，helingyifanghaohaodigoutongjiaoliuyixiaxiama?

 zhengchaoni，wojuedeshiyibiantancelingyifangdeyaoqiu，biaoshuzishendeyaoqiu。《feibaoligoutong》zhong，zongyoutiji，dangnizhengzhideneishihou，wojuedetongchangyouyu1gerendezhuiqiumeiyouhuodekaolv。

 jiaruniyunvxingzhengchao，neimajiubixububizaitayingyingyingdeneishihouhaichangshihetashuodaoli，yaoshixintaihao，xianshouzhutadeyanlei，zhihounidishengxiyuxiangjiangshiduoshaodadaolizaijianjiandijiang;

 jiaruniyunanshengzhengchao，bixufeichangshaohuixuduorendeshouweiniantoushijiejuekunnan，juedaduoshunanhaizideshouweiniantoujiushishuo“zheishiqingwogairuhechuli”

cikejiubixugenggaiyixiaxiaxintaizhuangtai：

1、guanniandaohuanweisikaodeguanjian，bingyouzheta，pingjingxialaishi，wenyiwenzishenyoumuyoubalingyifangdexintaifangyanzhong

 niwanglemeiyou?gangkaishiyidiudiudeniyaodexinliquanshihentianmeide，neishi，nidouhuibuyouzizhuquguanxinlingyifangdexintaihexintai，neimarujinweihejiubunengjiuburongyileni?

 shiguanlianbianweierlemeiyou?haowuyiwenbushia，jiushinidexinlitianjialebiededeshiyongxiangliao，zhujiancongguanxinlingyifang，bianweileqidailingyifangguanxinzishen，zuizhongzaidaoqiangzhiguidinglingyifangbixuyaoguanxinzishen。

neinini?jiniduoguanxinlingyifangni?

 qishibushihennan，wojuedebingbuhuitainan，liangrendexintaiyoulianggerendanfu。zaichizelingyifangyiqieshiyiqianyiqianbixuyaoyiqian，xiangxiang：“jiarushita，wonengyouyunaxiecaihuineiyang?woweiheganlezheiyishi?”

 zaijuecebanggududeshihou，xianrenshiyixianijiangyaozuodezheijianshiqingshibushiqueshinengzaochengxiezhu?lingyifangyuanyidejiujingshishenme?

yejiushishuobukeyiyinizishenganjuehaode，ertarenjianghuibingbushiqidaibeikandaidefangfaqukandaitaren。

heheyoumingde“wojiushizaihuni”，jiushishuo1geyisibuguadefanli。

xunlianhuanweisikaodeshifangshi，jiushishuobipozishenbaguoduoguanxinzishenxintaideshuangyannuodaotarenshoushang。

 2、bubishuaimenerchu，lizhideneishihou，jilingyifang1gechurukou，jiangchunideyaoqiu，binglejielingyifangdeyaoqiu，jilingyifang1geqingtudejiyu

“aiqingshilejiedebiecheng”

 jiarubukeyizuozheyueguangxiacongshicimingjuliaoderenshengzheli，nijiuzuozhebuyishafashang，congyouyanjiangculiaodexianghuquzhe。wobuxinjirongyishanghuo，lingyifang1geerguangyepaibuxianga。

 bubichize，bubimaiyuanlingyifangzhongjiubulejieni，bumingbainiyuanyide;youyuciwai，niyebuzailejielingyifang，bumingbailingyifangyuanyide。

bubizuishangguazhetichufenshoudepinpai，tichufenshouliangzi，benlaishiyongyudaobiede，ruheshiyongyuweixiedeni?

3、bubirenweizhengchaojiushishuotiantale，queshibuhui

 youxieren，fenbiannianqingfufushibushixiangai，nengkantamenzhengchaopincideshiduoshao，zheixiechaodeshaonaizhicongmeichaojiade，wojuedeshijiqixiangaixiehede。

yincidahuoerjiugangkaishiyong“shibushicongbuzhengchao”laifenbianliangrendeqingganxieheshuiping。

shiduzhengzhi，shichuliyishizhuxingfenqi，biaodaxinzhongzaxu，tishengzhangwoshuipingde。

 gengshiyouyuliangrenyiqile，nibidinghuiduilingyifangbaoyouxiwang，ruguonidexiwangpukongshi，jiuhuibianweixinhan，zheifenxinhanrutongxiaoshizixiangtongduijizainidexinzhongjian，saizhunideyuju。zhangciyiwang，jiuhuibaofachengzhengzhi。

 aibingbushiyixinqianrang，renderenshouaquanshiyoudixiande，zheihuacongchuniangtaijiuzaiting，ruhezhangdayihoufandaohaibibushangershiduizheihuadeyinxiangkegumingxinni?

neileiyixinqianrang，weihubaoyangdequanshibiaocengxiaoting。

3.fangzhijizhongjinquyuju：

 “nizhangxiaodianxinba，meiyoujinquxinwohaibuxiangshuoni，meitianwanyouxihenzihaoma?”——pandingdianpingshirenxinlizaochengdichu，huidacongxinlihuijuezheicigoutongjiaoliu，jiweifeichangrongyiyinqiwushijiyiyizhengzhi。

 “ninengfouduoguanxinwoyidianer”——taiguomohubuqingdefanchou，wojiujingruhezuo，nicaihuiganjuewohaizaiguanzhuni?duinilaijiang，nijiujingduiruhedeguanxincailingrenmanyi?wotaiguoguanxinniyaoshuomeiyousimikongjian，wojiangdiguanxinniyoushuowobuhuiguanzhuni，nihaiyaowozenyang?

 “kankanxxxtanvyou/tananyou，binixuduole，bierenduinvyou/nanyou…”——renruguohuodexiangtongwupin，bidinghuigangkaishiqipandaliangdewupin。zheileineishihou，jiuhuijiangtarenyuzishensuoyouzhedekaizhanjiaowei。keshi，rutongershibabamamalazishenhedongshidehaizijiaoweikaoshichengjixiangtong，burongzhiyitashirangrendichude。

 “woguanjianhuanshishoujiyouxiguanjian?”“woguanjianhuanshibushuimianmoguanjian?”——bubiposhitarenjiangnihebiedewupinkaizhanjiaowei，shoujiyouxijinjinyouxiyulebushuimianmojinjinweihubaoyang，yexushizhineng1gedeni，zheiyinantizongshirangxianghudoutoubuguoqi，balianggerendeguanlianzhengfasanqu

 zheijueduishijuedaduoshurenbuyouzizhuhuichukouchengzhangdejileihua，dangnijianchibuxiezaicishuozheizhonghua，neima youyitianjingranzheixieqinggandeluobai，doudeyiyunijiuyouziqudehaofei。

xintaizhuangtaishangfenpeihaohou，jiudejindaoshizhanyanlianle。

 jiufangfojiaruliangrentichufenshoushiyinweidanfangmingquetichude“renmenyouwenti”，bidinghuiyoulingyifangyilianmangran：???nalinali?naliyouwentinifanshishuoya。

wuage：nijueqingnicanrenniwuliqunao!

xiaoyanzi：neimeniyebujueqingbucanrenbumanbujiangli?

wuage：wonaerjueqingnaercanrennaermanbujiangli?

xiaoyanzi：ninaerbujueqingbucanrenbumanbujiangli?

 youmuyouganjuechelaicheququanshizaixuduguangyin?meiyoukandechuyiqiezhengzhideyuanguhuoshimudi ，neiyangdezhengzhizhiyoudanchunxingkaizhanqingganhaosun，bingbukeyichaoguozhengchaodemudi。

yincibubixiachaochao，yaochao，haiyaojiushilunshi：

 ba“xiwangnikeyiduoguanzhuwoyidianer”huanwei“cicishengchen，nikeyipeizhewogongduma?”huoshi“jinqiyoudianerxiangzheni，tashuo，shifouyouyuliao，nifeichangshaole?”

dangnishengchen，tawennixihuanshenmelipin，yaobujiulijishuo，yaobujiububizaishoudaoliwudeneishihouzaiqukanbushang。

jiaruzaoyichanshenglezhengzhi，zailizhiqinei，

 1.nichukaisiqingcicifenqidegenyuanyiwai，haohaodixiangzhe， zishenshibaichenglezhenlidekeguanxing，huanshizhuguanxingyiju? jiarushizhuguanxingyiju，nenggoujiuzhenlidekeguanxingkaizhanzaicitanhuaneirong。youyuzhuguanxingyijubidinghuiyinqibierendeqingchunqipanni。

 2.jiarushijinjinweiraozhenlidekeguanxingdezhengzhi，neimalizhiyihoujiubixu1gexianghuxianghuzhijianjiangchutihuidejiyu。xiankaizhanzishenguiyinyu，huoxu，bubitaiguokeqiuzishen，yebubirangzishendidaofuchen，zheibulibenshendexinlijiankang。

 zongdelaishuojiunishuzhide，zishenzuodecuowudecengmian。zaijianyiquelijiangchuzishendeyaoqiuhetihui，bubishuo“nilejienicuonalemeiyou?”

jiaruyouyulingyifangwandaonibugaoxingle，neiqueshuowandaodeshi。

 3.zishendehuajiangwanle，yebukeyihushilingyifangdexintai，yinciyaozhengqueyindaolingyifangjiangchuzishendetihui，jiarulingyifangmeiyoujijitanji，neimawoyenenggouyongmouxietichuwentishidejuzikaizhanzhengqueyindao。

 “yuanxianniyouyuzheiyidiaonandexinxiangmuyincicaihuiwandao，neidaoshihou，ninengtizaodadianhuagaosuwoyixiaxiade。jinqishifoubijiaomangtinglei?”

“zhiqiannibingbushihuiwandaoderen，youyunaxieshierzaicaihuiwangleyuwoyouhuideshijianma?”

约与众不同说：

“zhenzhengdeaiqingxinlidejunwang，tashilixingmohubuqing，fenbianbuqing，tabutingquanjie，jingzichaochikuangdefangweibenqu”

 yuefazhengzhideneishihou，gengyaozhangwoqiadangdefengpincainenggouchengfengpolang，tiaoxuandabaoyutianchuhang，jiuzhongjiulezheizhongtudequzhe，naizhitaobuchufanchuan。

hunyinshenghuobixuyunying，lianqingyebixujutizhidao，bingbushinimanqiangrexuexiangqianchong，zishenjiunenggounaxiade 。