怎么挽回前男友自尊心啊

　　zenmewanhuiqiannanyouzizunxin，dangganqingchuxianwentishi，nishibushigandaowuli?nishibushixiangyaozhidaozenmewanhuitadeneixin?zaizheipianwenzhangzhong，womenjiangyaogongxiangshigejueji，bangzhuzijifujianaiqing，rangzijichengweitaxinlibukequeshaodecunyou。

　　一、聆听和理解

　　zuixian，womenxuyaojiyutazugoudeguanxin。lingtingtadexiangfaheganshou，jinkenenglejieyonghudexuqiuheqiwang。zheibujinjinzhishirangtarenweinizaiyitamen，bingqienenggoubangzhunigenghaodelejieta，jinerzhaodaogenghaodefangshiquwanhuitadexin。

　　二、反省自己

　　zaiwanhuiaiqingyiqian，jinliangkaizhanziwofansheng。changshihuixiangyixia，shenmeyuanyindaozhileaiqingdeliekai?niyoumeiyoufancuowuhuoshihushiletadexuyao?yishidaozijidenanti，bingjijixunzhaogaishan。neiyang，womenjianggengyouzixinquwanliutadeneixin。

　　三、真诚道歉

　　chengkendixiangtazhiqianshiwanhuiaiqingdeguanjiansuozai。chengrenzijidecuowu，bingchuandachuzhenzhidekuijiu。yucitongshi，yexuyaofuwuchengnuoyihouzaiyebufantongyangdecuo，rangtakanjiannideyongqihegenggai。

　　四、呈现更改

　　zhiqianshiyigezhujian，danshinihaixuyaotongguoshentilixingdaibiaoniyijinggaibian。yijudajiayiqiandenanti，zuochuxiangyingdediaozhengheyouhua。zhiyouzaitajiandaonidefuchuhechengguo，cainengwoxiangxinniqueshiyousuobianhua，xiangyaojiniyigejihui。

　　五、给对方室内空间

　　zenmewanhuiqiannanyouzizunxin，jiduifangyixieshijianyukongjianshihenzhongyaode。zheibujinkeyirangbicipingjingxialai，haikeyirangtasikaozijidetihui。zaizheiqijian，ninengzhuanzhuzijidefazhan，bianchengyigegenghaoderen。danglianggerenzaicixiangjianshi，tahuikanjianyigebuyiyangdeni。

　　六、重建信任

　　zaiwanhuiaiqingdeguochengdangzhong，zhongjianxinrenyouweizhongyao。ruoxiangyaotazaicirenkeni，jiuxuyaozhanxianchuchengxin、touminghekekaodepinzhi。nulijiangtatihuidaonishiyigezhidexinrenderen，zheiyouzhuyudajiaaiqingdexiubu。

　　七、再次吸引住TA

　　shizhezhongxinkaishi，xiangzhuixuntayiyangzaicixiyinzhuta。zhanshizijidefengcai，rangtahuiyiqidangshiweishenmehuiaishangleni。keyitongguogaibianpinpaixingxiang、tigaozixin、xuexijinengdengxingshitishengzijideyouhuoli。yucitongshi，yeyaoguanzhutadegerenaihao，xunzhaogongtongyuyan，tigaobicizhijianmoqi。