男友把我拉黑怎么挽回啊

　　nanyoubawolaheizenmewanhui，ruguonishenaiderenzhujianduizijidelengdan，huozhenimenzhongjianchuxianfenqi，niyexuhuijuedetebiejiaolvhejuewang。keshi，ruguonixiangyaowanliutadeneixin，youyixiefangfayujianyinenggoubangzhunikuaisudidachengmude。xiamianlaikankanliugetiyi，meiyigetiyidoubaohanzheguanjianyigedian，xiwangnenggoubangzhudaoniyizhizaiwanhuilaogongdeguochengdangzhonghuodechenggong。

　　一、了解对方的需要

　　fenshouwanhuihuanjiezhong，zhangwoduifangdexuqiuheqiwangshihenzhongyaode。nixuyaolejietaxiangyaodeshishenme，douxuyaoshenme，jiqiduifangduinideqiwangshishenme。tongguoshenruzhidaotadeneixinxuqiu，ninengchongfenmanzutadexuqiu，rangtaganshoudaoniguanhuaiheqingyi。yucitongshi，niyexuyaoquelizijideyaoqiuheqiwang，bubiweilemanzutaerfangqilezijidebiaozhunhesixiang。

　　二、拉近关系与尊重

　　fenshouwanhuihuanjiezhong，lajinguanxiyuzunzhongshishifenzhongyaode。womenxuyaorangtaganshoudaonidechengyiheyongqi，rangtamingbainishiyigezhidexinlaihezunzhongderen。yucitongshi，niyexuyaozhongshitadeganshouhexiangfa，bubiqiangjiayuzijidexihaoweita。genjulajinguanxiyuzunzhong，nimenzhijiandeganqinghuigengwendingyujiankang。

　　三、维持积极的心态

　　weichijijidexintaishiwanliuhuanjiezhongfeichangzhongyaodeyidian。womenxuyaozhanxianchuzijidezixinyuzijuexing，bubiguoduyilaita。yucitongshi，niyexuyaojijizhudongdibiaodazijideqingganhetihui，rangtamingbainidexinlixiangfaheganshou。bunengrangfumiandeqingxuweihainidexingdonghejuece，yaobaochikaixinhezixindexintai。

　　四、造就浪漫的氛围

　　langmandefenweinengzengqiangdajiajiandeganqinglianxiheqinmigan，rangnimenzhijiandeguanxigengwendingyujiankang。ninengtongguogezhongtujinglaijianlilangmandefenwei，biru：titatiqianzhunbeiyidunlangmandewancan、fanganyicilangmandelvxing、songleyifenteshudeliwudeng。ciwai，niyekeyizairichangrichangshenghuochuandachuduiyutadeguanhuaiheqingyi，biru：changchangweitafaxinxihuotongdianhuaguanzhutaderensheng、zaixuyaobangzhudeshihoushenchuyuanzhuzhishoudeng。genjuzaojiulangmandefenwei，ninengrangtaganshoudaozheifenaiheguanai，jinershitazaicihuidaonidehuaibao。

　　五、学会交流和解决问题

　　nanyoubawolaheizenmewanhui，goutongjiaoliuhejiejuewentishiwanliuhuanjiezhongbibukeshaodeyibufen。nixuyaoxuehuiheduifanggoutongjiaoliu，lejieduifangdexiangfaheganshou，ranhouzhaodaojiejuewentidebanfa。zaijiaoliuzhong，yaobaochilixinghelixing，bunengrangqingxuguanlitamendexingwei。yucitongshi，niyexuyaoqingtingtadeyijianjianyi，zhongshitadexiangfaheganshou。genjuyouxiaodegoutonghejiejuewenti，nimenzhijiandeganqinghuigengwendingyujiankang。

　　六、接纳结论并向前走

　　zuizhong，nibixujieshoujielunbingxiangqianzou。suirannizaoyijindaoleyiqienuliquwanliutadeneixin，danyoushihoujielunbingbujinrurenyi。zaizheiyangdeqingkuangxia，womenxuyaomianduixianshibingxiangqianzou。buyaoguodujiujiejielun，fanershiyaohaohaozhenxizheixiejinglibingyicijiqujiaoxun。yekeyicongzheixiejinglizhongfazhanbingzhuangdaziji，weijinhoudeguanliandiandinggengqiangdeqianti。