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　　nvshengzenmezuowanhuiqiannanyou，dajiazaiaiqingdezhujian，douxiwangzhangzhangdejiujiuyizhizouxiaqu。danshi，youdeshihou，aiqingdemaixiangbushiwomensuonengzhangkongde。

　　dangyiduanganqingpobudeyimaixiangjieshuhou，buxiangfangshou，xuyaowanhuilingyifang，nihuizenmeban?zhangwozhei5gefangfa，huoxunengbangzhudaoni;

　　1. 面对现实

　　nibixujieshoufenshoukeguanshishi，buyaoqingyibipozijiquwanliulingyifang，yinweizheigehenyoukenengnengrangduifanggengweidichu。queshi，nishebude，nishebudefangshou，zheizhongdouxiezailelianbu。keshi，ganqingshilianggerendeshi，xuyaolianggerenlaiding，bushiyigerenshuosuanleba。

　　yiner，jibianbuganxin，xinyoubushe，yexuyaorenyiren，diaozhenghaozijidexintai，bubipianji，biechongdong，xuyaobuduanduizijishuo，zheiyebushishenmedashi，woyiyanghuiguodehenhao。

　　lingyifangfangqini，shitasunshi。wulunniduoshangxin，dajiazhongjiuyaoanweizijixianjienazaoyifenlidekeguanshishi。zheiyidianfeichangzhongyao。

　　2. 保持理性

　　zaimianduifenshoushi，yaobaochilixinghezhenjing，bieyinqingxubengkuierzuoderangzijihouhuideshi。haoduoren，dangtingdaolingyifangtifenshouerzishi，yizhiwufabaochilixing，yichongdongzuoshi，xingziyixiazijiuqilaile，dangyedangbule，ranhoujiufeichangrongyiyishizuchengqianguhen。

　　fanzhi，ruguoninengzaizaizheigeguochengzhong，chixubaochilengjingchenzhededanao，huoxuhuirangduifangduiniguamuxiangkan，jinerduizijidemingquetichuhehaoyoudadadexiezhu。

　　youyu，duifangjiuhuijuedenishiyigeqingxukongzhinengliqiangderen。yuzheizhongnizaiyiqi，huirangduifangjuedewenxinyuanquan。

　　nvshengzenmezuowanhuiqiannanyou，yiner，nikankan，baochilixing，bujinjinnengfangzhiyiwaishijianhuozhedacuochansheng，bingqiehainengjinizanrenqizhi，tigaoniyizhizaiduifangxinlidediyiyinxiang。keyishuoshi“fuhuoxiangyi”lea?

　　3. 复建联络

　　jiaruwomenzhijianhaiyoulianluo，keyishizhezaiciqudelianxi。buyaotaiguoyuzhudonghuojiqing，weichiyoushandexintai，nengrangduifangjuedenizunzhongtamendequeding。

　　jiarufenkaiyihou，duifangmeiyoushandiaonidelianxifangshi，biaominglianggerenzhijianyoujihui，yidingyaochongfenliyongzheizhonglianluo。

　　fujianlianluo，kansijiandan，danganqilaibingfeinanshi。danshizhiyaobawozheiyiguige，biebalingyifangbidetaijin，yebuyaotaiguojingchangqulianxiduifang，yejiubuhuiyingxiangdaoduifangle。gesanchawudiyijuwenhou，oueryijuwenxintixing，doukeyirangduifangjuedebeiguanxinzhe，beiguanzhuzhe。

　　nenggouyoushijianle，jibicifasongjixinxineirong，yuejianmianjianyimian，chigefan，xiedaiyifenjingmeiliwuzengjilingyifang。chucizhiwai，yeyaozairichangrichangshenghuo，duoyidianduilingyibanhao，jibicijiyubangzhu，nengrangduifangkanjiannideaigentouru。

　　4. 自我反思

　　fenshouzhihou，yaoshenshizijicunzaidewenti，bingchangshigaibianzishen。ruguoninengrenshidaozijidenanti，bingnuligaibian，huoxunihaihuigengyoujingzhengli。

　　chucizhiwai，chukaiheduifangweichizhongjiandelianluo。haiyaobashijianhejinglifenpaiyidiandaozijishenshang，zuoxiahaohaoxiangyixiang，zishenzaizheiduanganqinglishifouyouzuodebugouhao，huozheshanghaitarendeshi。

　　ziwofenxizaizheiduanganqinglideyoushilieshi，xinjihuiheweixiedian，congergenghaodirenshizijiherenshizheifenganqingshifouyoubiyaoyizhizouxiaqu。

　　5，保持开心

　　chucizhiwai，yaobaochikaixinhejijidexintai。jianxinzijikeyibaituozheifenganqing，bingzhaodaoheshideren。buyaoxianrufumianqingxuzhong，yaodongdeziwodiaozhengheqiuzhu。

　　ciwai，xuyaowanhuilingyifang，yidingyaobaochizheizhongkailanglianghaodexintai，yidingyaoduiheduilingyibanduiyuganqingchongmanxinxin。

　　xuzhuyi，jiaruduocichangshiwanhuilingyifangdouyijingbeihuijue，jiuxuanzefangxiaba。yexunimenzhongjianqueshiyouyuanwufen，bukeyixiuchengzhengguo;huoxuduifangyoubiedebiedexiangfa，wulunshinayigeyuangu，baochileguandexintaizhongjiushimeicuode。

　　buguanzenyang，fenshouzhihouyaobaochilixing，mianduixianshi，bingshizheyishangzheixielaiwanhuita。jibianzuihouwufamibu，yeyaodongdejieshouhekaiqixindeshenghuo。zhongjiu，shijiezheimeda，zongshihuiyoulingyigerenshiheziji，nihuixunzhaoneiyifennengzoudaozuihoudeqing。fenkailezenmewanhuinanyou?zheiyeshihenduonvhaizizaimianduihunyinpolieshijingchangwenzishendewenti。jinguanmeiyiduanaiqingdouyouqiteshuxing，danyouyixiehaoyongjiqiaonenggoubangzhunizhongxindedaotadeneixin。