无法挽回的婚姻真的不能挽回吗？

 quanfenbuquanhe，zheishixiandaiziyoulianaidezhuxuanlv，youqidangnimenyifangfanlemingxiandecuowushihou，renmengengqingxiangyuquanfende。henduorendoujuedetongkudoushizanshide，bingqiekeyibeishijianchongdan，quanfenderenbushijuedeshibuguanji，ershizhendezheimexiang，nidepengyoumenshizhenxinbuxiangkannijixuzaiaiqinglirijianqiaocuieryi。danqishibiqiwanhuidehua，fenshoudefengxianyaogaodeduo。suoyizenmezhengjiuwuliwanhuidehunyin？

一、无法挽回的婚姻真的不能挽回吗？

1、xianshishinizijideshenghuo，erbushiouxiangju。

shenghuoheouxiangjuzhongdefenshou，shiyouhendachabiede，jiushimianlinbutongde“kexuanzexing”。

 kexuanzexing，nikeyilijiewei：fenshouhouzhaodaogenghaoderensuomianlindechengbenwentihekexingxing。youjuhuahenjingdian：“ruoshizizhuxuanzededanshen，neijiushixiangshoudanshen；ruguoshibeipoerbudebudanshen，neidanshenbutiyeba。”chedidefenshouduiyunilaishuo，dangranzhiyouliangzhongjieguo：yaomeguduzhonglao，yaomezaizhaoyige。

 ruguonibingbushiyigedanshenzhuyizhe，danshenzhuyisuoxuyaodejuewuhewuzhidoubizujianjiatinggengkunnan，nibukenengyinweifenshoujiunengzhuanbianchengdanshenzhuyizhede。

 neimejiuzaizhaoyige？shijian，jingjiqingkuang，zinv，nianlingdengdeng……yuxiangchuhenjiudebanlvfenkai，zhongxinhuidaolianaihunyindejingzhengshichangzhongqu，niyouhuiyouduoshaojingzhenglini？zaizhaodaoderen，zhendehuibiyuanlaihaoma？duitajinxingzhigenzhididelejie，youxuyaohuaduoshaoshijian？……nimenzaibicishenshangtouruledeqingchunhebaoguideshijian，ruguozheicideganqingmeiyoukaihuajieguo，neimejiexialainihuibiandejiangjiu，henkenengjiucicuoguoshihundenianling。ruguoniyihun，neikenenggengyaoshenzhongkaolv。tongjibiaoming，xuanzeerhunderenmen，youfeichanggaodejilvduixianzhuangbuman，jinerzhuanbianweisanhunsihun、yishengweiqingsuokun。nikan，napaguangshijijiaochengben，yuairenfenshouyeshihenburongyideshiqing。

2、nihaiaita，zheishiwufagaibian

 suiranshangmianshuodedoushiqieshihuichuxiandewenti，danzheiyangkandaiaiqingweimianyouxiebinglengle。qishinihenqingchu，nizhisuoyihaixiangwanhuidehua，yidingshiyinweiaiqing。

 nimengongtongdeqinpenghaoyoukenenghenlijieta，shenzhikenengbinirenshitadeshijiangengzhang，keneixiedoushilijie，heaibuyiyang，cikeganshouzheizhongqiefuzhitongde，zhiyouni。

 nimenzhijianfashenglemaodun，mouyifangkenengfanleyanzhongdecuowu，zheicuowuzairenmenyanlishiwufawanhuide。danshi，dangwomenmianlinxuanze，womenzhendejiuyidingyaolvxing“dayi”erganyuanchengshoutongkuma？nikeyibugushirendeyanguanghetazaiyiqi，weishenmefenkaideshihouquewuliwanhui？suoyihaishichengrennihaiaita，zheifensiniancikezaizheizhishuyuni，renherendoushiwuquanfanbo。