挽回男人心四步曲！

 dangyiduanganqingzoudaolejintou，yiweizhenanrendexinyijingbuzainideshenshangle。guanyuzenyangwanhuinanrendexin，guangkaosichanlanda、kukuaiqiuyijiwuyiyidetanxinshibukenengde。ruhewanhuinanrenxin，shiyoujiqiaode。jiexialaiwomenyiqikankanzenyangwanhuinanrendexinba。

一、了解清楚他离开你的原因

 henduonvrendoushizhangzhenanyouxihuanziji，liyongzijidenvxingyoushipinmingyazhaduifang，butingdishuaxiaoxingzi，butingdi“zuo”，zuihoubananpengyoubiderenwukerentichufenshou，ernanrenlikainideyuanyinyouhenduo。

 birushuoyudaobinipiaoliangdenvsheng;shoudaojiarenhuoqinrendeyingxiang，renshoubulenvrengongzhubinghuozhenvwangbing;nvrendatixiaozuo，wuzhongshengyou;nvrenbudongdezhichi、kuajiangnanren;nanrenbuxihuanbeishufu，reaiziyou，qishiguigenjiudi，jiushitagennizaiyiqiyijingbukuailele。

 zaitayunitichufenshouzhihounizaikaolvyaozenyangwanhuinanrendexindediyibujiushifansiyixiatalikainideyuanyin，congyuanyinzhongzhaojieguo。xiangyaowanhuinanrenxin，quegenbenbuzhidaowentizaina，shibukenengwanhuichenggongde。

二、拒绝死缠烂打

 zenyangwanhuinanrendexin?kaosichanlandama?sichanlandaruguoyesuanshiwanhuidefangfa，neikeyishuosichanlandashizuidixiaodewanhuifangfa。qieshipohuaiguanxidehuaifangfa。

 zaicengchubuqiongdesichanlandaanlizhong，wanhuinanrenxinchenggongdeliaoliaowuji，jiranshishizhengmingzheishiyigedixiaowuyongdefangfa，weihenirengxuanzesichanlanda?jujuedangyikuainianrendekouxiangtang，qiejihuluanxingdongyijisichanlanda，caishinimingzhidexuanze。

三、让往事随风而去

 guoqudeshiqingduiyunimeneryan，keweishixiyoucanban，ruguonimendehuatiliaodaolecengjingwangshi，bulunruhe，huoduohuoshaodouhuishiduifanghuiyiqicengjingneiduanshijianfashengguodeshiqing，neime，cengjingneixiebuyukuaiyehuibuzijuedefuxianzainaohaili。

suoyidangnixiangzheyaoruhewanhuinanrendeshihou，zuizhongyaodejiushizaigentadejiaotanzhongbuyaotidaonimencengjingdeneixiewangshi。

四、完善自己，等待机会

 wanhuizhisuoyiyuelaiyuenan，qishibingbushiduifangzaipohuai，ershinizijibuyuanyiqutishenghejiejuewenti。erdangnizhaodaonimenxiangchudewentishi，jiudengyuzhaodaolewanhuidetupokou。yinciniyaozuodeshi，zhenduinimenzhijiandewenti，jinkuaijiayigaishan，rangzijiyouyigegenghaodezitai，chuxianzaitamianqian。