被挽回者的心路历程，男生的四个心态变化

 shizinanruguobeiwanhuishishenmexintai？wanhui，zheishigelaoshengchangtandehuatile，henduoshihouhenduorenzaiwanhuideshihou，huijuedeyuelaiyuelei，duifangtaidumeiyougaibianbushuo，fanerguanxibiyiqianhaiyaozaogao。zuoweiyigewanhuizhe，nizhidaobeiwanhuizhedexinlulichengma？lejiebeiwanhuixintaibianhua，yexunengbangnidewanhuitichengchenggonggailv。

一、被挽回者的心路历程

1、刚分手时

 daduoshunvxingfenshouhoudouxiwangzijinengbeiwanhui，jiuhaoxiangdajiadouhuixiwangzijibeiyixingzhuiqiuyiyang，zheishilingyizhongduizishenmeilidekending。ranerzheiyangdexintai，fangzainanshengshenshang，yeyiyangshiyong。tamenhuijuede，zijibeiwanhui，neijiuzhengmingzijihaishiyoumeilide，erzaibeiwanhuideguochengzhong，tamengengduodeshixiangshoubeiwanhuideganjue。

2、被挽回初期

 shizinanruguobeiwanhuishishenmexintai？ruguoniyijingzoushanglewanhuiqianrendedaolu，neizaigangkaishibeiwanhuishi，“aojiao”shinanxingxintaizuizhibaidedaiyanci。fenshouhou，nanshengbingbuxiangnvshengneiyangririyileiximian，tamenbinvshenggengshanyuzhuanyizhuyili。

3、被挽回中

 beiwanhuixintaibianhua，congbeiwanhuichuqideaojiaobianchenglebeiwanhuizhongde“lengmo”，zheiyeshinanshengyingduiqiannvyouwanhuidechangtai，tamen“aojiao”guohou，suiranbufangannidexiaoxi，danqishineixinyebingbuxiangdalini。

4、被挽回撤离后

 zaifenshouhou，nanrenhenvrendouyouyigegongtongdian，jiushibuxiwangqianrenzaiduanshijianneiyouxinlianaiduixiang。dewanhuijiushisongjinjiehe，jinanrenpaochuyigexiangfahezhuangtaizhihou，jiukeyizanshichelile。yinweizheigeshihoudeturancheli，shinvshengguanxibianjiedesuzao。nanshenghuijuede，nituranchelile“wanhui”dezhuangtai，shizenmele？shiyouxindeduixiangle？haishiwoyijingxiyinbulenile？zheihuichengweitadexinjie，bingqiezhaojihuixiangniqiuzheng。

yishangjiushiyizhenggebeiwanhuizhedexinlulicheng，kanwannishifoujuedeshuozhonglenideneixinni？