如何高效挽回男友

 zaihenanpengfenshouhou，ruhegaoxiaowanhuinanyoushiyijianhentongkuhennanjiejuedeshiqing，womendezhuomogaizenmeyangshuohua，gaishuoshenmehua，jiujingyoushenmeruhewanhuinanyouyuju？

 youshihoukandaoshenbianrenhenanyoufuhedeshihou，henxiangzhidaotamenjiujingruhewanhuizijinanyou，tamendenanyoujueqingbu，ruhewanhuijueqingnanyou？daodiyoumeiyoushenmehaodebanfani？xiangzhidaodaandehuawomenkeyijixuwangxiakan。

一、改变自己

 hanxindenanrenxinchangshihenyingde，takenenghuizidongpingbidiaonvshengsuoyoudeshiruohetaohao，buhuigennvshenglianxi，yebugentayourenhedejiaoji，suoyizheigeshihounvshengbuyaozaiyongchuchukeliandezhaoshule，zheishibuguanyongde。shouxianbaqiannanyoudezhuyilizaicixiyinzhu，zenmezuo？jiushigaibianziji，nixianyoudeyangzi（xingweichushifangmian）yijingrangnanshengyanjuanshenzhiyanele，suoyinibixucongxianzaikaishijiugaibianziji，gaibiandiaoqiannanyoubuxihuandepinxingyijitabuxihuandeyixiehuaimaobing，zheiyangnicainengzhongxinbatadeyanshenjixiyinzhu，rangtaneng“zhengyan”qiaoni。

二、勇于承认错误，适当的降低姿态

 henduonvshengkenengzailianaizhongzongshixihuanbenzhezhiyaoyoucuoneiyidingshinanpengyoudecuo，conglaibuhuizhengshizijideguocuo，yizhiyuhuirangduifangyuanbenshoushangdexingengjiaxinliang，zheiwuyihuijiduifangyizhongwuliqunaodeganjue。qishi，lianaizhongderenyinggaishijianlizaiganqingpingdengdejichushang，ruguonvshengyijingzhidaoshizijidecuole，neijiubuyaosiyazizuiying，haixiangrangnanrenxianrencuole，shidangdejiangdizitai，qurencuo、qutuoxie，rencuodeguochengzhongyidingyaopeishangqinmidezhitidongzuo，qinwendeng，zheiyizhaoduinanshengjueduishibaishibushuangde，tadexinyixiazijiuhuiruanxialaide。

三、打动对方重新俘获他

 dangnigenduifangyijingzhengshilezijidecuowuzhihou，jiukeyicaiquyixieshiyongdefangshirangtazaiciduinishangxinle，liruquxuexiruhebangtadasaofangjian，zuoyidunkekoumeiweidefancai，jishinidechuyibujia，dannidexingweihuirangtagandongde，zaizhenggedeguochengzhong，qianwanyaojinyanshenxing，buyaozaifanyixietongyangdicuowuquraoluanduifangdesiwei，bimiantazaicishoudaoshanghai。

四、撒娇

 dangduifangshaoweiyoudiankaishijienanile，danshihaishiyousuoguji，buganchaonizaizouyibu，zheigeshihounijiuxuyaofahuinvrendexiantianyoushi，qugennanyousajiao，bingqiezaisajiaodeguochengzhongjianjiujiedebiaodazijiduizhengjianshideqianyi，bingxiwangdedaotadeyuanliang，huolihuadaiyu、huoxixinaonaodengdengzheixiexingweidouhuizhijierangnimendeguanxidedaoshizhixingdefazhan。

 zheixiejiushiruhegaoxiaowanhuinanyou,ruhewanhuizijinanyou,ruhewanhuijueqingnanyou,ruhewanhuinanyouyujudedaan，niyoushouhuolema？