挽回不能存在的心态：自己改变会挽回男友不

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一、挽回不能存在的两种心态

1、beiguandexintairangshenbianderendouxiangyuanlini

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 fenshouzhihou，ruguonizhendexiangyaowanhui，neijiuyaodongdefengfuzijideshenghuo，lirukeyitongguolvyou，canjiapengyoujuhuidengrangzijideshenghuoguodeduoziduocai，manmandenidexinqingyehuibiandehaoqilai，yongyouyigekuailedeqingxuhenrongyiganranshenbianderen，zheiyangwangwanghuirangqiannanyoujuededanghenizaiyiqishishihenkaixinde，xinganqingyuandixiangheniyiqishenghuo。

2、fangqiziji，buzuogaibian

 yinweizijizongrenxingnanyoufanle，yushihezijifenshou。henduonvrenzaifenshouzhihouhuiganjuedaoshijiedoushiheiande，juedenanyouzaiyebuhuitoule，duizijigaibianhuiwanhuinanyoubuhenshihuaiyi。fenshouguohouyouxierenbujinjinbuzhaochuzijidewentisuozai，haijixuzhicuofancuo。zuoweinvren，dongdezaifenshouzhihoutishengzijidemeili，huabeiguanweililiang，lirunishiyinweizijiderenxingrangnanyouleile，neinijiuyaochenzheiduanshijiangaibianzijirenxingdepiqi，buyaohuaiyizijigaibianhuiwanhuinanyoubu，yaoduizijiyouxinxin。lingwaiyekeyihuangeshihezijidefaxing，huanyigefenggezaoxing，baoyanghaozijidepifudengdeng，zheiyangdangnizaicichuxianzaiduifangmianqiandeshihou，nihuanranyixindegaibiancaihuiyinqiduifangdexingqu，jitashijueshangdexinxiangan，yeyouzhuyuniwanhuiqiannanyou。