前男友有新欢了还能挽回吗

 qiannanyouyouxinhuanlehainengwanhuima?bufayounvxinghaiduiqiannanyouniannianbuwangde，ruguoqiannanyouyouxinhuanlegaizenmebanni，xiamian huazhenqinggandaoshi jiushuoshuoqiannanyouyouxihuanlehainengwanhuima?

一、前男友有新欢了还能挽回吗

1、了解新欢的优势

 xiangyaowanhuiqiannanyou，erqiannanyouhaiyoulexinhuan，neimeshouxianjiuyaolejiezheigexinhuandeyoushi。zhijizhibicainengbaizhanbudai，cainenggenghaodezhaodaozijidebuzuzhichu。

2、改掉自己的不足

 kandaoxinhuandeyoushiyeshitigaozijizhengjiuqiannanyoubijingzhilu，yenengbazheigedangchengshizhengjiuqiannanyoujinligaibiandedongli。meiyouyigenanshengbuxihuanbuduanjinbu，tigaodenvren。erqienigenniqiannanyouhaiyouyiduanmeiyouxinhuandekuaileshiguang，suoyizuoxiegaibianshibiyaodeyeshichengquanleziji。

3、跟新欢公平竞争

 qiannanyouyoulexindexianren，jiubugaiqudarao。danganqingdeshierzenmenengfenqingni?xiangyaozhengjiujiuyaogongpingjingzheng，buyaoyizhanggenqiannanyoudeneiduanqingzaishiyongdianxiaoxinjizhengjiunanyou。yidannanyouzhidaole，huizhiyinideyongxin，suoyixiangyaozhengjiuqiannanyou，bufangyuexinhuantantan，gaosuta，nihaiaizheqiannanyou，huigentagongpingjingzheng。

4、buzhengbuqiangzuohaoziji

 zuoleyishangzheixiejiugoule。buyaozaiquxiangkuaidianquwanhuishenmedele。shinidezhongjiushinide，bushinidejiubuhuishinide。zhiyaozuohaozheixie，qianyouxuanzenijiu，buxuanzejiuzijixunzhaoxindeaiqing。yinweiqiannanyoushizainimenfenshouhoucaikaishilexinlianqing。

二、前男友有新欢拒绝复合

 qiannanyouyouxinhuanleqishishikeyiwanhuile，danshiyongcuolefangfa，wanhuidejilvjiuxiaohenduo，qiannanyouyouxinhuanjujuefuhe，kenengshiniyongcuolefangfa。

1、老是给对方保证

“wogaile。woyidinggai。wozaiyebuhenichaojiale。wobushuohuangle。wobubeizhenigenneigerenlaiwangle。”dengdeng。

2、buduanheduifangshuowoxihuanni

3、buduanjieshuo、zhengbian，rangduifangchengshouni

 zhengquedezuofashi：zantongduifang。 jiarunishuoduifangcuole，tamenhuiyujiacuodelipu。jiarunishuoduifangduile，tamenlikejiuhuishaocuoyidian。dadourenbulijiezheigedaoli：jiarunibujieshuo、bubianjie，jinjinzhenchengdizantongduifang，duifanghuigaidongzijidetaidu。

4、失望主义

 zaihaimeiyouwanhuizhiqian，zijijiuxianruleshiwang，dangranwanhuiyexubuhuichenggongle。dangyifangyaolihunhuoshifenshou，lingyifangbuyuanyi，liangbianzhijianjiuyoulezhenglun。