到底要不要挽回前男友 5点明确了解自己想法

 daodigaibugaiwanhuiqiannanyouni，henduorenjuedewanhuideguochengzhongjiuyaofangdizijidezitai，ganjuexiangshidoushizijicuoleyiyang，zheiyangdaozhuiqiannanyouyouyongma?xiamian huazhenqinggandaoshi jiushuoshuodaodigaibugaiwanhuiqiannanyou。

一、到底要不要挽回前男友

1、mingquefenshoudeyuanyin。

 daodiyaobuyaowanhuiqiannanyou，mingquefenshoudeyuanyinshizuixianyaokaolvdewenti。jiranganqingchulewenti，yidingyaomingbaiwentichuzainali?haiyou，shishenmeyuanyinzuizhongdaozhileganqingdeshibai?buyaoyiweizize，yebuyaoyiweimaiyuan，keguanlengjingdifenxi，caiyouzhuyuziwofanshengherenshiwentigenyuan。zhiyouzhidaolefenshoudeyuanyin，zaiwanhuideshihou，caihuiyoudefangshi。fouze，mangmudiquwanhui，youshihouhaikenenghuishideqifan。

2、fenxizheixieyuanyinnengbunengkefu。

 daozhuiqiannanyouyouyongma?ganqingdezhangainengbunengqingchu，guanxizhewanhuinengfouchenggong，yeguanxizhewanhuizhihounengbunenghenhaodijixushenghuo。lingwai，haiyaokankanzheixiecunzaidewenti，shizhuguanhaishikeguanzaochengde，ruoshizhuguan，shibushiyinweibuai，haishiyinweilingwaiyouai;shikeguan，shixianshitiaojiansuozhihaishiduiweilaidanyoudengdeng。ruguozheixiezhangainengqingchu，neimekeyikaolvquwanhui;ruguobuneng，xianbuyaozhejiquwanhui，yinweiwentihaizai，jibianwanhui，nanmianbuzhongdaofuzhe。

3、panduanbicihaiyoumeiyouai，youmeiyouganqing。

 bushuozhiqianganqingruheshenhou，ruhexiangai，dankanxianzaihaiyoumeiyouganqing，kanduifangdetaidushibushigoujianjue，shibushimeiyouleyidingdianyudidengdeng。qishi，jiyutouliangtiao，chabuduojiunengpanduanchuhainengbunengwanhuile。ruguo，duifangyijingsixin，huozhetaiduyichangjianjue，neimejiubuyaojiuchanle，zheigeshihoudejiuchanhaowuyiyi，shenzhijiashenduifangdeyane，daozhiwanhuidejilvyuelaiyuexiao。

4、fenshouhouwanhuibuyaozuoshenme。

 xianzainiyijingjuedingle，niyaobanideqiannanyouzhaohuilai，yinggaizenmezuoni?gaosunibuyaozuoshenme。buyaojibutingdijitadadianhua，faduanxin，zaiweixinshangliuyan。zheiyangzuozhinengrangtaliniyuanlaiyueyuan。sheiyebuxiangheyigejuewangderenzaiyiqi，tebieshidangnimenfenshoutaijiushi。

5、学会理解和体谅

 zaililunshang，henduonvshengdoushizhidaozheiyidiande，danshifangdaoshijishenghuozhongjiuzuobudaole，niyaozhidao，nidelijieyutiliangshiweixiganqingdejiqiao，yinweishehuishuxinghejiatingshuxing，nanrensuobanyandejiaosexuyaotachengdangengduodeyali，dangtayouyalihuozhefanzaodeshihou，taxiangyaodedaodeshinidewenrouyutiliang，erfeishinidezhengchaohuozhelengzhan，nizaitakunnandeshihoujitalijiehetiliang，tacaihuishizhongduinibaochigaozhangdeaiyi。