分手挽回前男友吗？

 wangliannanyouyaowanhuima？wanhuiqiannanyoudiulianma？zhanzainvrendejiaodushanglaijiangniqianwanbunenggouzuotaiduochunshiquzaozhixinyilundefangan，fanershigengjiaxuyaogaibianzijihuodeqinglai。xiamianlaijiangjiangguanyufenshouhounanyouwanhuima、fenshouwanhuiqiannanyoumadejigexiaojianyiba。

 fenshouhounanyouwanhuima，wuyongzhiyideshihezijiaiderenfenshoushiyijianhentongkudeshiqing，danshiruguoniyinweifenshouzongshirangzijijinpaozaibeishangli，zheiduiyunideweilailaishuoshihaowubangzhude。fenshouhouzhiyounibiyiqianbiandegengjiayouxiu，wanhuiduifangdejilvcaigengda。

一、为什么分手后要变得更优秀。

 xuduorenfenshouhouxinlihaibiezheyikouyuanqi，zheikouyuanqirangnizhanzhuanfance、chafanbusi，nibutingdizaixiang：weishenmetayaolikaiwo？weishenmewofuchulezhenxinquehuanbulaihaodejieguo？wangliannanyouyaowanhuima？wanhuiqiannanyoudiulianma？yinernibiandebeiguanshiwangyuantianyouren。zheiyangyigefunengliangdeni，dangranshibukenengwanhuinidesuoai。xiangyaowanhuiduifangnijiuyaotigaozijideqingshanghenengli。tongshizaiwaizaifangmianyeyaoyousuotisheng，yinweiwaizaishinidexinggedezuizhiguandeyizhongbiaoda。meiyourenhuizaiyouzheigegongfuqutouguonizaogaodewaizaiqulejieniyouqudeneizai。dangnideneiwaizaiyiqitishengdeshihoujiushuomingnibiandebiguoqugengyouxiule，zheigeshihouquwanhuiduifangchenggongdejilvhuidadatisheng。

二 、怎样让自己更优秀。

 fenshouwanhuiqiannanyouma？shouxianxianjiansheyigegenghaodeziji，jiuyaokaishicongneizaiwaizaitongshirushou。neizaifangmiandehuaxiangyaochengweiyigeyounengli、qingshanggaoderen，nijiuyaoduizijiyougaodeyaoqiu，duogenrenjiechugoutong，dongdezaishibaizhonghuoqujingyan，jingchangshenshifanshengziji，rangzijimeiyitiandouyouyidianjinbu。

 waizaifangmiandetishengshizuijiandandetishengnizaibierenyanlidejiazhidefangshi，nvxingdabanjianyiwangwenrouxianshudefangxiangqudaban，ernanrenzeyinggaiwangjingyingfanfangmiandaban，yinweizheilianggefangmianshizuinenggouxiyinyixingdemuguangde。dangniyizheiyangdeyigexingxiangzhongxinchuxianzaitamianqian，neitabeinizaicixiyinshihenjiandandeshi。waizaijianshekeyitigaonidediyiyinxiangdexiyinli，ranerneizaixinlidetishengzeshiweichixiyinlidegenben。yaorangzijigengyouxiuzheiliangfangmianqueyibuke。

 fenshouhoudebuwendingqingxurongyishinixingqinggaibian，mishizaiwanhuidelutuzhizhong，budongdehainengbunengzhenzhengquwanhuiqiannanyouqishidangnizhidaonaxiewanhuiwanlushibunenggoutarudeshihou，nijiuhuifaxianshuyunizijizhenzhengdewanhuizhilujiushigaibianziji，yongzuiqiangdexiyinlirangqiannanyouweinizhuanshenbeinixiyin，nidewanhuicaihuibiandewuxiekejiwangwangnenggouqudezuijiaxiaoguo。