挽回前男友聊什么好呢

 wanhuiqiannanyoushuweibuyi，xuyaocaiquyixiliecuoshi，cainengzhongxinkaishi。neime，wanhuiqiannanyouliaoshenme？wanhuinanyougaishuoshenme？shenmehuanengwanhuinanyou？wanhuinanyouyaoshuoshenme？jiexialai，youxiaobiangaosuniba！

一、多聆听，少开口

 wanhuinanyouyaoshuoshenme？yourenshuoyanyushichanshengwuhuideyuantou，zheihuayoudiankuazhang，danshibingfeimeiyoudaoli。zhengsuoweihuocongkouchu，yanduobishi，huodeheqiannanyouzhongxinxiangchudejihui，bufangzixitingtashuohua，zaibiyaodeshihouzaizuochudetideyingda。zheiyangjibuhuirangtaganjuedaobeilengluoyebuhuirangtaganjueyanfan。buguoxuyaozhuyideshi，shaoshuohuabingfeibushuohuazhuangyaba。gaishuodehuahaishiyaoshuo，gaibiaodadeguandianyeyaobiaoda，gairencuodaoqiande，gengshiyijubunengshao，zhishibunengyoutaiduogantandewuyongfeihuahuozheqinghua。jizhuyigeshishi，nimenyijingfenshoule，muqianshangweizhenzhengzhongxinkaishi。

二、转移话题，不温旧情

 wanhuiqiannanyouliaoshenme？zhongwenjiumengshiwanhuiguochengzhongdeyidajinji，youqishiduiyunanreneryan，zheiyidiantixiandegengmingxian。nanrendadoubijiaolixing，buyuanyirangzijihuozaijiyili，weilezhiliaoxinshang，tawangwanghuiyouxuanzexingdewangji。cengjingdetianmi，douyijingbeitashenzangxinlishenzhixuanzexingyiwang。yidannitiqiguowangzhongzhong，huoxutaxiangdaodejiubushiguowangdetianmixiangchu，ershigezhongbuyukuai。suoyi，zaiwanhuiguochengzhongxiangchuzhishi，nengbutiwangshide，buyaoti。jiusuantayoushitiqi，niyeyaojinliangzhangwoyixiezhuanyihuatidejiqiao，shishidezhuanyihuati。qianwanbierangguowangdebuyukuai，rangtahulvelenidegaibian，yincigongkuiyikui。

三、注意说话的语气，态度以及传递的能量

 wanhuinanyougaishuoshenme？shuohuadeyuqiyaopinghewanzhuan。yudaoqiannanyou，huoxunixinliyijingyayideqingganyouzhongxinfanyong，ruguoyudaozheizhongqingkuang，yidingyaorenzhu。zixixiangxiangnimendeguowang，xiangxiangzijiweilewanhuizuochudenuli，kongzhihaozijideqingxu，bierangzijidesanliangjuhua，jiangyiqienulihuazuoliushui。tongyangde，zaiwanhuiguochengzhong，niyebunengtaiguozheji，xinjichibuleredoufu。niyueshizheji，jiuyuerongyihuaishi。wanhuishinizhudongquzhuazhuta，erbushidishengxiaqiqukenqiutashouliuni。suoyizaiwanhuiguochengzhong，shuohuadeyuqi，jinliangfangpinghe，bubeibuhang，caibuhuirangtafangan，yebuhuiyincibeitaqiaobuqi。tongshi，buguanshirencuodaoqianhaishiwanhui，yuqidouyaojinlifangweiwan，buyaotaiguozhijie，neiyanghenkenengyinweitaiguoturanrangtameiyousixiangzhunbei，yekenengyinweitaiguozhijiebeitachedijujue。yidanneizhongqingkuangfasheng，nikenenghuihaowutuilu，wanquanxianrubeidong。

四、说话的态度要真诚

 shenmehuanengwanhuinanyou？zhenchengjizhenshichengken，zhenxinshiyi，tanchengxiangdai，congxindigandongtarenerzuizhonghuodetarendexinren。zuodaozheiyidianhennan，shouxianshuohuadeshihouyanjingyaojinliangzhengshiduifangerbunengduobi;qicishuochudehuayuyaozhenshi，bunengrangduifangjuedenixuwei，zaicibiaodadeyisiyaomingxian，bunengguaiwanmojiao，zuihoujiushishuohuayaoyongxin，bunengdafeisuowen。xiangduieryan，yongxingengweiguanjian，yinweizhiyouniyongxin，duifangcainengzhenzhengganshoudaonidechengxin。

五、话语要积极乐观，不能消极沉沦

 wanhuinanyougaizenmezuo？henduonvxingrongyixianruyigewuqu，juedezijizhuangkelianbanchenlun，nengjiqiduifangdetongqing。qishi，zheizhongxiangfawulunshizailianaixiangchuhaishiwanhuiguochengzhong，doushibutaizhengquede。lianaihewanhui，doubushishishe。danshidangnineimezuodeshihou，jiubianxiangdengtongyuzaixunqiuduifangdeshishe。benlaizaifenshouzhihou，duifangduinideyinxiang，huoxujiuyijingbiandehenhuai，zheishihouzaizhuangkelianbanchenlun，wangwanghuirangtayufakanbuqini。jiusuanbushiruci，nisanjuhuayishenggantan，wujuhuayimoyanlei，yehuirangtaxingzhiquanwu，tanhuananyiweixi。suoyi，zaiwanhuiguochengzhong，zhongxinxiangyuzhihou，jinliangxuanzeyixiejijileguan，nengchuandizhengnengliangdehuayulaishuo，xuanzedehuati，shinengyinqishuangfanggongmingde。duotanxieheganqingwuguan，quenengrangtahenidouhenyukuaidehua，neiyangbujinnengrangnimenxiangchugengyukuai，yenengrangnizijixiandegengyoufengcaihemeili。

六、首次相逢，谈话时间宜短不宜长

 wanhuinanyougaishuoshenme？qianwenyeshuoguo，yanduobishi，nengyinqinimengongmingdehuati，weibihuiyouhenduo。shuohuadeshijiantaizhang，henrongyibuzijuedejiutanqiwangrizhongzhong，huozhezhongfuzhiqiandehuati。xiyansanbianwurenkan，huashuosanbianwurenting，zainengyinqigongmingdehuati，yidanzhongfu，yehuirangtaganjuenifan。

 juedabufennanrenzuifannaodeshiqing，qishibushinvrenguangjie，yebushinvrenluanhuaqianhuozhewuliqunao，ershinvrendiediebuxiudelaotao。ruguozaicijianmian，nijiuzhuazhetalaotaogebuting，tairongyirangtaxiangqiguoquneizhong‘cantong’dejingli。

suoyi，zaiwanhuiguochengzhong，youqishishoucixiangfengdeshihou，tanhuabuyaotaizhang。

fenshouzheimejiule，haiwanhuibule？