爱情厌倦如何挽回，究竟如何挽回爱情？

 renshuoaiqingshiwangbakanlvdou，duiyanerle。kesuizheshijiandetuiyi，jiqingdanqu，liangrenbiankanlaikanquzhongwuqu，liangkanshengyanle。duiyuaiqingyanjuanruhewanhuini，neimeyouxiaobianlaigaosunishilianruhewanhuiaiqing，jiujingruhewanhuiaiqingba！

一、保持感激

 renbingbushilengxuedongwu，kandaoleduifangdefuchu，zonghuiyougandongdeshihou、jinerxinhuaiganji。zheilideganji，nengrangduifangganshoudaoniduitadeai。danshixiguanshizhongkepadedongxi，tashanzhangmomieguangdian，rangyiqiekanqilaixishupingchang。

 aiqingyanjuanruhewanhui，yiduanganqingdekaishi，zongshixinhuaiganjide，dansuizhelianggerenxiangchudeshijianzengjia，jiqingshiqu，aiqingyetaobukaishenghuo，lianggerenjiehedeyueshijinmi，shenghuodepengzhuangduiyueshijilie，dangshenghuozhongdesuoshiyaguoleaiyi，renmenbianhuiwangleganji，mankoumaiyuan。

yexuyourenjuedelianggeqinmiderenzhijianbuxuyaoganji。yiaidemingyizuochushenmeshiqingdoushilisuoyingdang。

weileai，shouleleng，shoulelei，danzhejingshouzhepa，guaxinzheimangliunei，nandaobuyinggaiganji？

 dangganjishaolehuozhemeile，weiduifangzuoshidedongliyemeiyoule，woweinizuoleneimeduo，nilisuodangrandeshouzhe，haizhuduotiaoti，wohaihuijixuzuoma？

 zheixiedoushiaiqinglaiyishengcundezaiti，meilezaitiaiqingyejiangbufucunzai，jiusuancunzai，niyouzenmezhidaotadecunzai？yushiwuzhijingdecaijijiuhuikaishi。

suoyishuo，zheifenganjibaochideyuejiu，ganqingjiuhuiyueshen。

 yougehaobanfakeyitixingzijiwuwangganji——zhuanmenzhaogedifangjixiaduifangweizijizuodesuoyoushiqing，meijianshidouzhanzaiduifangdejiaoduxiexiatazuozheixieshiqingkenenghuiyoudeganshou，zuihouzaixieshangzijidexiangfa。ruguoxiedehao，zheigejiangbianchenghanweinimenaiqingdemimiwuqi。

二、表达理解

qishilijiebunan，biaodalijiequebuyi。

 shilianruhewanhuiaiqingni，zhiyaoshixiangxinduifangshiaizijide，xinhuaiganjizhixia，zenmenengbumingbaitazuozheixieshiqingdoushiweileziji？danzhidaoshiyimashi，biaodadaoweiyoushilingyimashile。

 womenchangchanghuizaifanzao、buruyideshihounanyikongzhizijideqingxu。jiusuanzhidaoduifangshiweileziji，yeyizhibuzhushengqi，biaoxianchulaidejiushiyifubulijieduifangzuofadeyangzi，daozhiduifangfanfuqiangdiaozijidemude，yushizijigengjiafanzao，jiucibaofa。

 jiusuanbushilianrenzhijian，zheiyangdeliziyebibijieshi——tianqishaoleng，fumubianrangnitianyijiabei，nijuedechuanzheyongzhongtainankan，buleyi，yushitamenjiukaishilaotao，beinianduoleniyehuole，yushigentamenchaoleyijia。

 nirenweitade“jugongziao”，zhishiyinweinibushuochulai，tajiubuzhidaonidongletadeyongxin，weilebiaodazijitazhihaobuduanzhongfu。zhiyaoniyijukending，yiqiejiudouhuibutong。

三、沟通诉求

aiqinglibingbushiyimapingchuan，danzhengyinweiyouqifucaiyoulequ，danmeiyouzhengquedegoutong，zheigelequjiuchenglezainan。

 dangbanlvzuochurangzijigandaokunraodeshiqing，yiweideyinrenbingbuliyuganqingdefazhanyanxu，danshicubaodeqianzegengshihuirangganqingchuxianliehen。jiujingruhewanhuiaiqing？

goutongshimenyishu，danyebushiwufaxuehuidedongxi。

bingchengyidian，congduifangdejiaoduchufa，jinliangweiwandeqingsuzijideshuqiu，huitingqilaigengshufu，yegengrongyijieshou。